amirite wrote:....
This is exactly what I'm talking. Imagine an 80 year old woman boasting "I like to kneel over and have a train of young men take turns pounding me ass. I do it for hours." Fucking baller she is, right?
Your last sentences...interesting. when we talk of 80 year olds the cultural brainwashing falls away. Whether HH or an old woman, both likely need to financially coerce nubile young examples of sexuality to have sex with them.
If we talk of them both when in their 30s or 40s though, to me, there is a huge imbalance in those scenarios simply because for the female she is receiving....which has connotations of being used, while with HH he is the giver....a position of control.
Of course, if the woman has money and lavishes the guys in a party lifestyle, it provides her more control. Yet, in society, for many, there is this strong brainwashing that men will have sex whenever possible - therefore the lavish lifestyle is not required, and the men would just be taking advantage of the woman giving her money AND her body.
But when we think about it, the women with the young HH were likely the same as men would be with the female equivalent. They wanted the lifestyle and took advantage of a guy who gave them expensive gifts and a nice place to live as well as sex. Perhaps the women didn't cringe at the thought of sex with him after five women before her. Perhaps the entire package was aphrodisiac enough. I know females whose big life ambition has been to score the rich older guy. It isn't my choice in life. It is difficult to grasp that mentality, however I understand that life experiences create strange bedfellows.
The fact is, sometimes there are imbalances that have a woman choose the old rich guy with 100s of sexual partners and sometimes it is mutual advantage taking....shallow life connections. I suspect it is mostly the latter.
As long as both parties (all parties) feel they are getting what they want more than feeling disadvantaged it works and is no one else.s business. Identifying the situations (among bar girls in Cambodia for example) where the females hate what they are doing but feel there is little choice for them, is tricky. Those situations do exist but I don't think it is in the majority of cases.
Sorry. Stream of consciousness on small phone. I will likely edit a little when on laptop to try to make my thoughts more coherent.
[quote="amirite"]....
This is exactly what I'm talking. Imagine an 80 year old woman boasting "I like to kneel over and have a train of young men take turns pounding me ass. I do it for hours." Fucking baller she is, right?[/quote]
Your last sentences...interesting. when we talk of 80 year olds the cultural brainwashing falls away. Whether HH or an old woman, both likely need to financially coerce nubile young examples of sexuality to have sex with them.
If we talk of them both when in their 30s or 40s though, to me, there is a huge imbalance in those scenarios simply because for the female she is receiving....which has connotations of being used, while with HH he is the giver....a position of control.
Of course, if the woman has money and lavishes the guys in a party lifestyle, it provides her more control. Yet, in society, for many, there is this strong brainwashing that men will have sex whenever possible - therefore the lavish lifestyle is not required, and the men would just be taking advantage of the woman giving her money AND her body.
But when we think about it, the women with the young HH were likely the same as men would be with the female equivalent. They wanted the lifestyle and took advantage of a guy who gave them expensive gifts and a nice place to live as well as sex. Perhaps the women didn't cringe at the thought of sex with him after five women before her. Perhaps the entire package was aphrodisiac enough. I know females whose big life ambition has been to score the rich older guy. It isn't my choice in life. It is difficult to grasp that mentality, however I understand that life experiences create strange bedfellows.
The fact is, sometimes there are imbalances that have a woman choose the old rich guy with 100s of sexual partners and sometimes it is mutual advantage taking....shallow life connections. I suspect it is mostly the latter.
As long as both parties (all parties) feel they are getting what they want more than feeling disadvantaged it works and is no one else.s business. Identifying the situations (among bar girls in Cambodia for example) where the females hate what they are doing but feel there is little choice for them, is tricky. Those situations do exist but I don't think it is in the majority of cases.
Sorry. Stream of consciousness on small phone. I will likely edit a little when on laptop to try to make my thoughts more coherent.