This "Barang" is married to a Thai Woman and has a child with her. When he went to Sihanoukville's Central Market to buy his son a toy and assemble it just outside the market he was rounded up by several Khmer Men in white shirts and black pants (looking official - or typical for APLE's/Mlop Tapang local Agents) he had to explain to these strangers what he was doing there and if this was his son. The Kid is almost white and apart from his slanted eyes obviously his son, for everyone to see.
In Cambodia's NGO infested world you have to endure total strangers approaching you to give an explanation and proof of how you are related to your own child and married to a local Khmer woman that brought children into their marriage. These Barangs are always suspected of marrying the woman to get access to the Child. In NGO Terms this is called "Grooming".
Most men such as this are too afraid to speak out after they have been attacked, out fear of retribution.
English English teacher arrested
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This story sounds familiar, too.
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Ricketson and APLE were made for each other. The both seem to indulge in bending the truth with the stated aim of "helping children". It's a pity they can't both eliminate each other.prahocalypse now wrote:This story sounds familiar, too.
This "Barang" is married to a Thai Woman and has a child with her. When he went to Sihanoukville's Central Market to buy his son a toy and assemble it just outside the market he was rounded up by several Khmer Men in white shirts and black pants (looking official - or typical for APLE's/Mlop Tapang local Agents) he had to explain to these strangers what he was doing there and if this was his son. The Kid is almost white and apart from his slanted eyes obviously his son, for everyone to see.
In Cambodia's NGO infested world you have to endure total strangers approaching you to give an explanation and proof of how you are related to your own child and married to a local Khmer woman that brought children into their marriage. These Barangs are always suspected of marrying the woman to get access to the Child. In NGO Terms this is called "Grooming".
Most men such as this are too afraid to speak out after they have been attacked, out fear of retribution.
Lolpenisjokeforaname wrote:The Ho Chi Minh City bar disabled girl story has been either on here or another Cambodia forum, too.
http://cambodia440.blogspot.com/2014/12 ... 6674714461
I found it in this very thread: http://www.khmer440.com/chat_forum/view ... 541#p54541
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should I even type a response or will it be deleted in the next 5 minutes???
Anyone who doesn't like Capitalism is a pathetic loser. God bless the USA and no place else.
Dude, you're paranoid. Stahp it. None of your posts have been deleted in the last few days. I have just checked in the mod log.DetroitMuscle wrote:should I even type a response or will it be deleted in the next 5 minutes???
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Fuck is wrong with men?gavinmac wrote:The lesson here is that if young boys beg to sleep at your house, don't let them. Even if your intentions are good, having unaccompanied Cambodian kids in your apartment/room is the equivalent of agreeing to carry a stranger's suitcase through customs at Miami international airport. Any teacher or regular traveler here knows that, which is why I have trouble swallowing the Roger Green/Paul Bower "Aww, shucks I was just letting the kids sleep here" defense.
Chlim, please post the the perp walk photo when you get a chance.
UK teacher is held over sex abuse charges
A CAMBODIAN court has today charged a British man with sexually abusing two brothers aged 12 and 14.
Paul Ian Bower, 42, of Nottingham, who works as an English teacher, denied the charge, which carries a jail term of between ten and 20 years.
"I like to be alone and watch TV. I did not like anybody at my house, but the boys begged me," Bower told reporters at the Phnom Penh court. "They slept at my house, but on separate beds."
Bower could spend up to six months in detention while the charge is probed by a judge.
This article: http://edinburghnews.scotsman.com/inter ... =119152007
Last updated: 23-Jan-07 12:39 GMT
Anyone who doesn't like Capitalism is a pathetic loser. God bless the USA and no place else.
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Silly guy probably thought he could play aid worker, but only women seem to be allowed to take strange street kids into their homes and get away without accusations of abuse:DetroitMuscle wrote:Fuck is wrong with men?gavinmac wrote:The lesson here is that if young boys beg to sleep at your house, don't let them. Even if your intentions are good, having unaccompanied Cambodian kids in your apartment/room is the equivalent of agreeing to carry a stranger's suitcase through customs at Miami international airport. Any teacher or regular traveler here knows that, which is why I have trouble swallowing the Roger Green/Paul Bower "Aww, shucks I was just letting the kids sleep here" defense.
Chlim, please post the the perp walk photo when you get a chance.
UK teacher is held over sex abuse charges
A CAMBODIAN court has today charged a British man with sexually abusing two brothers aged 12 and 14.
Paul Ian Bower, 42, of Nottingham, who works as an English teacher, denied the charge, which carries a jail term of between ten and 20 years.
"I like to be alone and watch TV. I did not like anybody at my house, but the boys begged me," Bower told reporters at the Phnom Penh court. "They slept at my house, but on separate beds."
Bower could spend up to six months in detention while the charge is probed by a judge.
This article: http://edinburghnews.scotsman.com/inter ... =119152007
Last updated: 23-Jan-07 12:39 GMT
Example 1 - http://clarelaoshi.blogspot.com/2013/02 ... e.html?m=1
Not to mention the questionable name of this woman's post.
Example 2 - http://www.adventurouskate.com/photo-es ... -cambodia/
I agree with what was said but the examples suck.penisjokeforaname wrote:Silly guy probably thought he could play aid worker, but only women seem to be allowed to take strange street kids into their homes and get away without accusations of abuse:DetroitMuscle wrote:Fuck is wrong with men?gavinmac wrote:The lesson here is that if young boys beg to sleep at your house, don't let them. Even if your intentions are good, having unaccompanied Cambodian kids in your apartment/room is the equivalent of agreeing to carry a stranger's suitcase through customs at Miami international airport. Any teacher or regular traveler here knows that, which is why I have trouble swallowing the Roger Green/Paul Bower "Aww, shucks I was just letting the kids sleep here" defense.
Chlim, please post the the perp walk photo when you get a chance.
UK teacher is held over sex abuse charges
A CAMBODIAN court has today charged a British man with sexually abusing two brothers aged 12 and 14.
Paul Ian Bower, 42, of Nottingham, who works as an English teacher, denied the charge, which carries a jail term of between ten and 20 years.
"I like to be alone and watch TV. I did not like anybody at my house, but the boys begged me," Bower told reporters at the Phnom Penh court. "They slept at my house, but on separate beds."
Bower could spend up to six months in detention while the charge is probed by a judge.
This article: http://edinburghnews.scotsman.com/inter ... =119152007
Last updated: 23-Jan-07 12:39 GMT
Example 1 - http://clarelaoshi.blogspot.com/2013/02 ... e.html?m=1
Not to mention the questionable name of this woman's post.
Example 2 - http://www.adventurouskate.com/photo-es ... -cambodia/
You can not look at the kids here you can not help them or greet them with a smile and a hug you cant talk to them take photos with them unless your a professional NGO Aid worker. You have to now kick them away like a lame dog. Or all the NGO do gooders will tail you take your photo stock you , send there Cambodian helper to talk to the kids and ask what was said and offer them money the testify they was just abused. When all the tourist done was offer some kindness and love to some poor children.
Its so sad its come to this . It not about helping the children but making money and head lines now .
I know most 440ers are NGO and NGO supporters I ask this one question with all the save the children NGO here to help has the children working the bars and streets selling there shit and begging for money changed at all ?? All this money they get to help done any thing? Some one tell me you see less children out selling or begging at all hours at night? NO ONE HERE CAN !! in fact I think its worse and there are younger now .
Its simple help the parents so they don't have to put there kids to work at 3am so what is being done about it?
Its all a scam the children have not been helped or you would not see 5 and 6 year olds out at 2am selling fruit and crap. I see nothing for the 15+ years of so called help I see the same kids doing drugs selling shit now there chlidern are doing the same . But the rest of the non aid workers or non NGO can not help or even look at them or we are called pedophiles. We cannot cut into there scam.
I would love to help some street kid I see at 2 am begging to take them to there mother and farther if they living on the street put them in a guest house and give them some food. But if I even looked at the kid Im labeled pedophile. And could you imagine if I go with the kid to take them to there family to offer them help what would happen to me by the NGO who are here to help the children. And when they are told this from APLE web site "Our lawyers work to protect the rights of the child and their family by providing pro bono legal counselling and representation. They help clients to apply for court-mandated compensation." All because someone tried to help who not a official aid or NGO worker !! WTF is wrong here. The family is told of untold riches you can receive for testifying even if its false. But I sure the dirt poor are honest and would never lie for money here.
The NGOs have not helped but will stop any one else from helping.
and for the record Im not pro pedo, shoot them if what they done is real.
It just hurts to have to be a ass hole to the children because of some bad NGO save the fuc king world azz holes.
Ok flame away I know its coming
Where do you get this notion that 440ers are pro NGOs? I would say one of the prevailing themes of the forum's history is a healthy degree of scepticism over the role and efficacy of most NGOs in Cambodia.
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I don't think anyone on this site has denied a link between the number of "child assistance" NGOs and the number of men accused of crimes after taking a street kid or other disadvantaged child in for care. Simple protection of their interests, just like the claims that all begging kids are pimped out so give your money to the NGO instead of the kids or their parents.
The truth is Cambodia was a true mess of child abusers a decade ago (pre dates my time, but it was evident when I was in Thailand two decades ago). Stopping this proved to be lucrative and now certain NGO use the useless justice system to their advantage by prosecuting any man seen repeatedly with a child.
Does it happen often? Probably not, but it seems to be a unique threat for male expats and an almost fatal one for guys who receive decades of prison time on shaky grounds. Protection against angry clients, neighbours or partners with vendettas is non existent in all of Asia (and Africa, Latin America...) and the idea that all it takes is a call to an NGO with an accusation (telephone numbers now advertised across the kingdom) should scare all expats, particularly because the expat community instantly ostracises anyone arrested.
The truth is Cambodia was a true mess of child abusers a decade ago (pre dates my time, but it was evident when I was in Thailand two decades ago). Stopping this proved to be lucrative and now certain NGO use the useless justice system to their advantage by prosecuting any man seen repeatedly with a child.
Does it happen often? Probably not, but it seems to be a unique threat for male expats and an almost fatal one for guys who receive decades of prison time on shaky grounds. Protection against angry clients, neighbours or partners with vendettas is non existent in all of Asia (and Africa, Latin America...) and the idea that all it takes is a call to an NGO with an accusation (telephone numbers now advertised across the kingdom) should scare all expats, particularly because the expat community instantly ostracises anyone arrested.
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