merchantsmutual wrote:Jamie_Lambo wrote:merchantsmutual wrote:Jamie_Lambo wrote:merchantsmutual wrote:Metal1982 wrote:i could not crack a normal dating scene on cambodia at all. there for 8 months. only ones who would respond were prostitutes. could have just been me, but who knows. for me it was worth a visit and a stark reminder of where i dont want to end up in old age, but nevertheless an example of someplace cheap i could retire at with an easy visa if im ever completely out of options.
to put it bluntly, a last resort.
This is kind of how I felt. I have no idea how the posters enjoy dating so much if it means escorting them home before 8 PM
why? it just shows the girl has some self respect for herself and her family, how is that a bad thing?
luckily Asia has many other ways to get laid without having to get involved with a girl first
if you want to take a girl out for a few drinks and get laid at the end of the night, go to a hostess bar and take your pick, plenty of willing girls
even in England/America a decent girl wouldnt/shouldnt put out on the first date, why would you expect a country where pornography and sex toys are illegal to be any different?
or is it just the time that they go home that bothers you? the simple solution to that is to find a girl who doesnt still live at home with her parents
You make good points. As for the hostess I didn't like that I would have to pay them. I have nothing against anyone who would pay for sex, indirectly or directly, but it's not something I feel comfortable doing.
As for the women, you are right. I don't expect the women to jump in bed with me. But to hear 25 year olds tell me with an honest seeming face that they'd never even been kissed is a bit of culture shock. At least if there's sexual tension in the air in my home country I could see a brief make-out session after a first or second date.
I did not meet any women who lived alone. It could be financial but I get the feeling most Khmer parents, even if they fully trust their daughter, would be too worried about her safety.
with the hostesses its not always the case, if they like you, its not uncommon for them to give out freebies in hope to see you again
yeah i understand that, some can even get scared over a hug in public lol goodbyes are often an awkward time after a date lol
its just a lucky dip, but maybe something you should find out before going on the date, but if your going round chasing "Good girls" who are saving themselves for marriage its one of the things youve got to keep in mind when dating, maybe you should have focused more on some "Gray girls" but as you also saw, they can also sometimes come with their problems haha
I did not know about the freebies actually. Are they hoping you may pay at a later date or it'll mature into a relationship? If the latter, I would still have a bit of a hang-up about dating a bar girl.
I think you are right 2 weeks is very short time too. If I gained a good girl's trust over a month or two I think I can at least get to second or third base.
Mildly off topic my ex was Chinese and though she would never consent to vaginal sex with a man who wasn't her husband, basically anything else was on the table. If Khmer were more like that, it wouldn't bother me.
not really, its kind of like their way of showing you they like you i guess, think its a lot more common here in Sihanoukville than it is in PP though, must be the sea breeze lol girls are a bit more business up there in PP but still have had girls come back and visit me in their free time or after they finish work
yeah the good girls require ground work, ive been on dates with some girls and theyve brought their best friend/sister as a chaperone lol
yeah im not sure about that, khmer are a lot more reserved, but im sure its something you could work on, with enough groundwork,
with the new promiscuous nikki minaj pop culture generation im sure girls are becoming more exposed/curious/open to it
but khmer music videos are no where near the Thai level yet let alone western lol
i like that though