Friend proposes to bar girl
so if they are staying in cambodia. separate bank accounts. put nothing in her name alone. make friends on facebook with her friends, you'll start seeing them tag her other accounts (usually these girls have multiple facebook accounts). heck if he is tech savy enough, he can install something to monitor her cell phone texts and messages. it sounds paranoid. but if it comes down to a breakup and you don't want to lose half, you need evidence because no one local is gonna side with him, and these girls get sloppy on facebook and tend to private msg pictures and stuff of other dudes with their other accounts.
but, everyone is different, maybe she is the one right. i don't know.
but, everyone is different, maybe she is the one right. i don't know.
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Or, a bit simpler, ditch the "friend" and go out and meet some other people who aren't retarded.JimSocks wrote:so if they are staying in cambodia. separate bank accounts. put nothing in her name alone. make friends on facebook with her friends, you'll start seeing them tag her other accounts (usually these girls have multiple facebook accounts). heck if he is tech savy enough, he can install something to monitor her cell phone texts and messages. it sounds paranoid. but if it comes down to a breakup and you don't want to lose half, you need evidence because no one local is gonna side with him, and these girls get sloppy on facebook and tend to private msg pictures and stuff of other dudes with their other accounts.
but, everyone is different, maybe she is the one right. i don't know.
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He knows she's a hooker and he apparently doesn't care. In his mind, maybe he's found happiness. Let him be.
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No different to western women who want to marry a Doctor or a Lawyer or other rich professional.
Women want security and security is usually taken to be money.
Women sit on a fortune, which is funded by men. Happens the world over.
Let your friend be happy for a while.
Women want security and security is usually taken to be money.
Women sit on a fortune, which is funded by men. Happens the world over.
Let your friend be happy for a while.
Note to self: Must be nice to morons.
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You know, in Cambodia, there's still a remote chance to make a good life with a bar girl. In Thailand, forget about it. I know a respected hostess bar that has always been a farm club for Khmer wives. So, there are a lot of dudes doing this and many of them are publically happy. As a rule, you should avoid this track at all cost. Even if she doesn't cheat on you, there are so many challenges. Culture, boredom, language, age, family, money, personal issues on both sides and so much more. If you know what you are getting into and you still have your head in the clouds, it's also your fault when it falls apart. If you simply don't give a fuck, good for you. Have fun while it last. In the end, no one should judge him for falling in love and being hopeful that this is real. We should all pull for them to be happy even though we all know he's a dumbass
Numbnuts all grown up
Had a friend fall for a bar girl so I gently 'cautioned' him to not promise the world to these girls if you can/do not follow through; he replied, there's been a development.
The 'development' was that he had proposed to her, after 36 hours. So here she was, dreaming about getting out of the shitty hostess bar scene and going to be the partner of a comparatively super-wealthy barang, living in a western country.
Crash. After 10 days he decides he doesn't want her as his wife, and discards her. The girl is beside herself. bawling 'uncontrollably', shamelessly howling about how she has been treated.
As I make for a quick exit, she stops the water works long enough to say, 'tell ****** I have many boyfriend.'
Next
The 'development' was that he had proposed to her, after 36 hours. So here she was, dreaming about getting out of the shitty hostess bar scene and going to be the partner of a comparatively super-wealthy barang, living in a western country.
Crash. After 10 days he decides he doesn't want her as his wife, and discards her. The girl is beside herself. bawling 'uncontrollably', shamelessly howling about how she has been treated.
As I make for a quick exit, she stops the water works long enough to say, 'tell ****** I have many boyfriend.'
Next
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I know i am an old cunt,but i think getting married is a cunt of an idea full stop.
Something like 50% of marriages end in a divorce and even if people stick together for the sake of the kids or whatever,they are not happy,very few people are happy to stay together for the long run:)
better to just live together,saves on paperwork.
i think hooking up with a bar girl is ok as long as you know its got many disadvantages,as in she will have most of her friends still working in the bars,ex clients may phone her,you will have to pay her to leave the bar game,a nice monthly allowance should do,but than why?
better to meet a lady that has a better non sexual job,like banks,restaurants,shop assistants,hell thee are some beautiful smart young ladies out there that if you hook up with you are happy they have a nice job to go to,and it will save you heaps$$$
But No i would not try and guide your friend,i am sure he knows whats he is doing:)
Something like 50% of marriages end in a divorce and even if people stick together for the sake of the kids or whatever,they are not happy,very few people are happy to stay together for the long run:)
better to just live together,saves on paperwork.
i think hooking up with a bar girl is ok as long as you know its got many disadvantages,as in she will have most of her friends still working in the bars,ex clients may phone her,you will have to pay her to leave the bar game,a nice monthly allowance should do,but than why?
better to meet a lady that has a better non sexual job,like banks,restaurants,shop assistants,hell thee are some beautiful smart young ladies out there that if you hook up with you are happy they have a nice job to go to,and it will save you heaps$$$
But No i would not try and guide your friend,i am sure he knows whats he is doing:)
Don't date bargirls. Period.
Most girls aren't bad people but they have been in the game to long and won't be able to have a "normal" relationship.
Rent them if you need company
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Most girls aren't bad people but they have been in the game to long and won't be able to have a "normal" relationship.
Rent them if you need company
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"But she's different!"
Reading Private Dancer and most of the horror stories on Stickman won't help the love struck, even in the west.
What I've found on reading many stories on whether or not to tell your mate (in other words interfere) is about 50/50.
Just grin and bear it.
Reading Private Dancer and most of the horror stories on Stickman won't help the love struck, even in the west.
What I've found on reading many stories on whether or not to tell your mate (in other words interfere) is about 50/50.
Just grin and bear it.
Never mind.
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