Bringing my gf into a hostess bar?
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I recall an infamous rant of yours along these lines, half in the bag and yelling at all the guys that brought their wives/gfs to the weekend away in SHV, thus cockblocking everyone else.slavedog wrote:Taking your girlfriend or wife to girly bars is not cool.
The problems arise when, as an example, you chance upon a male friend who is trying to enjoy an hour or two of discreet fun with the girls. If your girlfriend also knows your friend, and perhaps also his wife or girlfriend, then this is at the very least awkward.
Furthermore, it shows a complete lack of class.
It really shouldn't be permitted.
I think that was just a joke as it was in fact a mixed event. But I do think that when there are events that are clearly 'no WAGs', to bring yours along is a 'dick move'.Miguelito wrote:I recall an infamous rant of yours along these lines, half in the bag and yelling at all the guys that brought their wives/gfs to the weekend away in SHV, thus cockblocking everyone else.slavedog wrote:Taking your girlfriend or wife to girly bars is not cool.
The problems arise when, as an example, you chance upon a male friend who is trying to enjoy an hour or two of discreet fun with the girls. If your girlfriend also knows your friend, and perhaps also his wife or girlfriend, then this is at the very least awkward.
Furthermore, it shows a complete lack of class.
It really shouldn't be permitted.
TheGrimReaper wrote: ↑Mon Sep 02, 2019 1:45 pmSlavedog, you do not belong on this forum as you talk too much sense.
This is sensible. Everyone knows someone's cousin in this town.slavedog wrote:Taking your girlfriend or wife to girly bars is not cool.
The problems arise when, as an example, you chance upon a male friend who is trying to enjoy an hour or two of discreet fun with the girls. If your girlfriend also knows your friend, and perhaps also his wife or girlfriend, then this is at the very least awkward.
Furthermore, it shows a complete lack of class.
It really shouldn't be permitted.
Even the car waver people in those drive in short hotels are grassing bastards.
Is the problem that people are "cock blocked" from cheating on their partners and that's what you have a problem with, that your friends can't openly cheat on their wives? I bring my partner but you don't and I'm the asshole because you can't do something you wouldn't normally do if your wife was present?Miguelito wrote:the guys that brought their wives/gfs thus cockblocking everyone else.
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i think it all depends on if his "girlfriend" is a former bargirl or notHanno wrote:Fair enough though I find the notion of taking a girlfriend/wife to a hostess bar rather strange.gavinmac wrote:It's not that dumb a question. If the lady in question is a former employee of the bar or a freelancer-type who is friends with the staff/owner, then it's possible they might try to charge a guy who brings the girl in for lady drinks. Especially at some of the less reputable bars on St. 136, they'll try anything.YaTingPom wrote:This has got to be the most dumbest question ever!
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Hey, it wasn't me that said it.Alexandra wrote:Is the problem that people are "cock blocked" from cheating on their partners and that's what you have a problem with, that your friends can't openly cheat on their wives? I bring my partner but you don't and I'm the asshole because you can't do something you wouldn't normally do if your wife was present?Miguelito wrote:the guys that brought their wives/gfs thus cockblocking everyone else.
But as Slavedog says, that time he was just being a bit cheeky. I think in general he means that rumors start quickly, and that an innocent flirting drink in a hostess bar could be passed on and misconstrued, and he'd rather not be bumping into anyone's better halves in there.
Alexandra, would your take your girl along to a friend's stag party?Alexandra wrote:Is the problem that people are "cock blocked" from cheating on their partners and that's what you have a problem with, that your friends can't openly cheat on their wives? I bring my partner but you don't and I'm the asshole because you can't do something you wouldn't normally do if your wife was present?Miguelito wrote:the guys that brought their wives/gfs thus cockblocking everyone else.
TheGrimReaper wrote: ↑Mon Sep 02, 2019 1:45 pmSlavedog, you do not belong on this forum as you talk too much sense.
Haha no but I think white bachelorettes party naughtier tbh...
I brought my GF to a hostess bar once. I remember one of the guys I was meeting being a bit uptight about it. Didn’t bother me, I never liked hostess bars.
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It's not bothering you is beside the point. Your friend wasn't comfortable with it but at least he had prior warning so presumably was not half way to heaven with a tart when you walked in. What if the little get together had not been prearranged and you and your girl just walked in and there's your friend enjoying himself? Perhaps you, your girl, your friend and his wife all went out to dinner together recently. Or perhaps it's a colleague who may occasionally meet your wife at work functions etc. It really is a 'dick move'.
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TheGrimReaper wrote: ↑Mon Sep 02, 2019 1:45 pmSlavedog, you do not belong on this forum as you talk too much sense.
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Don't go into the kitchen if you cannot stand the heat.slavedog wrote:It's not bothering you is beside the point. Your friend wasn't comfortable with it but at least he had prior warning so presumably was not half way to heaven with a tart when you walked in. What if the little get together had not been prearranged and you and your girl just walked in and there's your friend enjoying himself? Perhaps you, your girl, your friend and his wife all went out to dinner together recently. Or perhaps it's a colleague who may occasionally meet your wife at work functions etc. It really is a 'dick move'.
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I rarely go 'into the kitchen' these days, but if I do it ain't for a couples night out.Hanno wrote:Don't go into the kitchen if you cannot stand the heat.slavedog wrote:It's not bothering you is beside the point. Your friend wasn't comfortable with it but at least he had prior warning so presumably was not half way to heaven with a tart when you walked in. What if the little get together had not been prearranged and you and your girl just walked in and there's your friend enjoying himself? Perhaps you, your girl, your friend and his wife all went out to dinner together recently. Or perhaps it's a colleague who may occasionally meet your wife at work functions etc. It really is a 'dick move'.
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Ffs. Miguelito is the bad guy because he isn't complicit in someone having affairs outside of his marriage.
How about the dude having sex outside of the marriage, who is so worried (along with some of his mates) that his fun will be ruined by couples who (presumably) don't engage in that behaviour) that the wife might find out, actually own his poor behaviour? I don't give a shit if you engage in orgies and sexual relations outside of marriage if that is what you have agreed as a couple, but if you sneak around to do it, you know it is wrong (for your relationship) and you have little respect for your partner as a human being. And then to say it's miguelito who behaved badly....fucknell delusional people.
Anyone in a functioning monogomous relationship these days is made to feel like they are denying basic human nature. It's different strokes for different folks, but if you are mismatched, and/or you get your thrill from illicit sexual behaviour, you are a the one who is behaving badly, simply because of the complete lack of respect for the partner and for your pure selfish behaviour. Label as you will and I will label it as I will.
I know some of you who do this. I don't support it, nor have I ever had occasion to have to lie to any of your partners because of it.... I keep a wide gap between me and almost all your partners for this very reason (among others).
And the old convenient argument of it being the norm and expected in Cambodia is just that, old and convenient....and delusional.
How about the dude having sex outside of the marriage, who is so worried (along with some of his mates) that his fun will be ruined by couples who (presumably) don't engage in that behaviour) that the wife might find out, actually own his poor behaviour? I don't give a shit if you engage in orgies and sexual relations outside of marriage if that is what you have agreed as a couple, but if you sneak around to do it, you know it is wrong (for your relationship) and you have little respect for your partner as a human being. And then to say it's miguelito who behaved badly....fucknell delusional people.
Anyone in a functioning monogomous relationship these days is made to feel like they are denying basic human nature. It's different strokes for different folks, but if you are mismatched, and/or you get your thrill from illicit sexual behaviour, you are a the one who is behaving badly, simply because of the complete lack of respect for the partner and for your pure selfish behaviour. Label as you will and I will label it as I will.
I know some of you who do this. I don't support it, nor have I ever had occasion to have to lie to any of your partners because of it.... I keep a wide gap between me and almost all your partners for this very reason (among others).
And the old convenient argument of it being the norm and expected in Cambodia is just that, old and convenient....and delusional.
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