gavinmac wrote:I'd want to know that the girl who got away was a whore so I could stop pining for her.
Why choose to use such a derogatory term as "Whore"
To describe the woman in question ???
Post by scoffer » Sat Jan 07, 2017 11:29 am
gavinmac wrote:I'd want to know that the girl who got away was a whore so I could stop pining for her.
Post by batshitcrazyweirdo » Sat Jan 07, 2017 11:36 am
Post by kansaicanuck » Sat Jan 07, 2017 12:01 pm
Its a tough call but it all depends on what kind of friend that is. I have been the eyes and ears on the ground in PP for people before. In one instance for a very close longtime friend it ended up being an absolute nightmare and way more trouble than it was worth in the end. I thought the information given was pretty straightforward and he should have probably expected it but thats not how he took it. Still confounds me to this day.Felgerkarb wrote:I could probably get the proof, but I would have to play along in a false flag type situation...could get messy.
Post by bipolar bear » Sat Jan 07, 2017 12:13 pm
Would I tell you? I know that I would want to know if it were me, I would want my friends to tell me - or one good friend, singular, at least. Especially if I was being affected to the extent you indicate, i.e. it is something that is like a psychic limp. To me to tell you, that is what marks out a friend from an acquaintance.Case 1: A friend has fond memories of a time with a young lady, always kicking himself about missed opportunities, etc.. Thing is, this young lady cuckolded him something fierce...embarrassingly so. Should I tell him his love was the worst of the worst and had everyone fooled for years?
Example: Imagine I didn't know Squeaky was a meth using bitch, stepping out on my constantly and I lionized her as some exemplar of Khmer female virtue to this day. Say she ran off to the province or something and I never saw her again. I continue to pine away for the lost opportunities, kick myself for making mistakes, etc.. I make all my current decisions based on this false premise and it colors me to the day. Would you tell me?
That one is easy. As I have indicated above, I like to know things, even if others don't, so I would absolutely want to know. That said, i would be a little surprised if I didn't have an idea what she was up to, it would merely be a question of credible confirmation before I took appropriate action.Case 2: "Good Girls Behaving Badly". New technology has made it easy for Khmer girls to preserve a fig leaf of decorum. They don't work in hostess bars, are not KTV whores, etc., but use the internet and its various tools to trawl for dick. They pretend to be good girls, have teaching jobs, sell cars, whatever, and some are even married to barang... But they play, play play and they change dicks more a punters intended for the day. Would you want to know your good girl wasn't?
Example: Foreign dude has a "good girl" girlfriend. She is sweet, is highly educated, speaks great English, funny, fun...but...her legs are in the air as often as she can swing it. She uses amazing skills at creating various accounts, rotating them often, to find short timers to play with because all her friends do it, it is fun, and she is young. She doesn't do it for money, although the occasional gift is appreciated. Would you want to know?
A situation I have been in also. I knew she was unfaithful but similarly had no proof, I also knew others knew and others suspected to the extent I did. Khmers knew, barangs suspected.Recently I found out one of my ex SO's was making a fool outta me...I knew this, but had no proof. I always want to know because I like to reevaluate my decisions, see my errors, and learn from them. I have no desire to confront her years later...why bother...but it is always good to know your suspicions were not unfounded. Thing is, it led me to Morticia, so in the end it worked out great...but had Morticia not entered my life, would I have still made the same bad decisions over and over? I would want to know.
Post by Felgerkarb » Sat Jan 07, 2017 1:20 pm
Post by Barang_doa_slae » Sat Jan 07, 2017 2:21 pm
d) shall he wreck someone for his former behavior ?batshitcrazyweirdo wrote:I'm a bit confused by Felger's question. Is it multiple choice?
a) Would you want to know if she slept with someone?
b) Would you want to know who she slept with?
c) Both?
I was gonna put d, but then I will get in trouble.
Post by Gin&Tonic » Sat Jan 07, 2017 2:49 pm
Post by Felgerkarb » Sat Jan 07, 2017 3:44 pm
I think I know to whom you refer, and we all assume he knows. She took a shopping trip across country to meet her bf and used her friends as cover...Gin&Tonic wrote:I know a guy. Don't like him. I think he may even be friends with a few posters here.
Anyway. He is nuts. After getting messed up by one (walkabout loitering) woman he fell in love with a (shanghai bar employed) woman.
He has since moved back to his home country.
In the last 12 months or so I saw her profile on Tinder. Now I hear she has a "secret" boyfriend whom she regularly goes out with, clubbing etc and even planning a trip to Cambodia which she will be officially going solo.
Should I tell him. I did send him a screenshot of the Tinder profile but fuck him. His inaction on that means he doesn't care or doesn't want to know.
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Post by Starving Pelican » Sat Jan 07, 2017 11:13 pm
Yup.gavinmac wrote:I'd want to know that the girl who got away was a whore so I could stop pining for her.
Post by TJP777 » Sun Jan 08, 2017 5:12 pm