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I am not utterly clueless. I know when a guy knows....I also know when he doesn't. I wouldn't bother posting if I even suspected he knew for sure.TJP777 wrote:Strange how all but one poster assumes the guy would not know? People are different, some might put up with knowing but not act on it. Might be convenient enough for them to just ignore indiscretions and they may not appreciate your endeavors to point out the obvious.
At least two major posters and myself know of a barang with a gf who cuckolds him...and he accepts it...so...don't.
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Why are the gods such vicious cunts?
Where is the god of tits and wine?
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It's ok to date more than one person at a time, surely. Maybe you were no good in bed and she needed to find someone who was. We have no right to control another's life, especially if the commitment of engagement/marriage is not there. Even then, there are no guarantees.
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If she needed a better shot at sex, then the proper thing to do is to tell him and ask whether he agrees to open their relationship so she can date besides him, and be upfront with the other guys about her other relationships.kinard wrote:It's ok to date more than one person at a time, surely. Maybe you were no good in bed and she needed to find someone who was. We have no right to control another's life, especially if the commitment of engagement/marriage is not there. Even then, there are no guarantees.
She's been caught lying and she won't ever be honest because lying is more self-serving.
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I guess it depends on whether the relationship has either directly or implicitly been deemed as exclusive. For example, if they referred to each other as Boyfriend and Girlfriend, I'd say there's an expectation of exclusivity. If they were only been shagging for a month and a half, and there hadn't been any 'relationship talk', discussion over exclusivity, references to each other as BF/GF etc, not sure I'd agree that they couldn't shag other people.Joon wrote:If she needed a better shot at sex, then the proper thing to do is to tell him and ask whether he agrees to open their relationship so she can date besides him, and be upfront with the other guys about her other relationships.kinard wrote:It's ok to date more than one person at a time, surely. Maybe you were no good in bed and she needed to find someone who was. We have no right to control another's life, especially if the commitment of engagement/marriage is not there. Even then, there are no guarantees.
She's been caught lying and she won't ever be honest because lying is more self-serving.
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Whether they had been dating and shagging for a month and a half or more and hadn't had the "relationship talk", I still think it would've been proper for both sides to be clear on that from the get-go. Obviously LS was expecting exclusivity and since SHE lied to the new dude saying she used to have a boyfriend, but not anymore and that she only "kissed" LS, she knew that it was NOT an open relationship she was in with LS.Starving Pelican wrote:I guess it depends on whether the relationship has either directly or implicitly been deemed as exclusive. For example, if they referred to each other as Boyfriend and Girlfriend, I'd say there's an expectation of exclusivity. If they were only been shagging for a month and a half, and there hadn't been any 'relationship talk', discussion over exclusivity, references to each other as BF/GF etc, not sure I'd agree that they couldn't shag other people.Joon wrote:If she needed a better shot at sex, then the proper thing to do is to tell him and ask whether he agrees to open their relationship so she can date besides him, and be upfront with the other guys about her other relationships.kinard wrote:It's ok to date more than one person at a time, surely. Maybe you were no good in bed and she needed to find someone who was. We have no right to control another's life, especially if the commitment of engagement/marriage is not there. Even then, there are no guarantees.
She's been caught lying and she won't ever be honest because lying is more self-serving.
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Man every time they pull that "thank you" faux self-loathing bullshit I start thinking violent thoughts. Good riddance!LexusSchmexus wrote:"Thank you for doing this. This relationship will be end cus of you."
Keep your head down with those cumshot photos you've got on your phone. She can get you in trouble for them.
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Agree, alas "...the rules of fair play do not apply in love and war..."Joon wrote:...the proper thing to do ...
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Ya, pics of my SO with another guy's spunk all over her is kinda a deal breaker for me.Alexandra wrote:Man every time they pull that "thank you" faux self-loathing bullshit I start thinking violent thoughts. Good riddance!LexusSchmexus wrote:"Thank you for doing this. This relationship will be end cus of you."
Keep your head down with those cumshot photos you've got on your phone. She can get you in trouble for them.
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As an aside, I find it interesting that good girls allow photos like that at all...or even take facials. Professionals, sure, but bank girls, car sales girls, etc.. Bun Rany was right in 2007, 3G porn would change the girls big time...it has. I noticed it almost immediately...looking back 28 years here, I prefer the old days. Ah well.
Thanks for sharing, LS....interesting that was August 15 and you still have the texts.
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Why are the gods such vicious cunts?
Where is the god of tits and wine?
Why are the gods such vicious cunts?
Where is the god of tits and wine?
And that's bad because...?Felgerkarb wrote:Ya, pics of my SO with another guy's spunk all over her is kinda a deal breaker for me.Alexandra wrote:Man every time they pull that "thank you" faux self-loathing bullshit I start thinking violent thoughts. Good riddance!LexusSchmexus wrote:"Thank you for doing this. This relationship will be end cus of you."
Keep your head down with those cumshot photos you've got on your phone. She can get you in trouble for them.
Bless
As an aside, I find it interesting that good girls allow photos like that at all...or even take facials. Professionals, sure, but bank girls, car sales girls, etc.. Bun Rany was right in 2007, 3G porn would change the girls big time...it has. I noticed it almost immediately...looking back 28 years here, I prefer the old days. Ah well.
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Because I think instances of cheating by the girls has risen exponentially. You expect the professionals to hose you, but the English teaching, sweet girl who pretends she is straight with you....I find that worse than hypocritical.
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Why are the gods such vicious cunts?
Where is the god of tits and wine?
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I'd say her actions you refer to said more about the new dude's expectations, not LS' expectations.Joon wrote:Whether they had been dating and shagging for a month and a half or more and hadn't had the "relationship talk", I still think it would've been proper for both sides to be clear on that from the get-go. Obviously LS was expecting exclusivity and since SHE lied to the new dude saying she used to have a boyfriend, but not anymore and that she only "kissed" LS, she knew that it was NOT an open relationship she was in with LS.Starving Pelican wrote:I guess it depends on whether the relationship has either directly or implicitly been deemed as exclusive. For example, if they referred to each other as Boyfriend and Girlfriend, I'd say there's an expectation of exclusivity. If they were only been shagging for a month and a half, and there hadn't been any 'relationship talk', discussion over exclusivity, references to each other as BF/GF etc, not sure I'd agree that they couldn't shag other people.Joon wrote:If she needed a better shot at sex, then the proper thing to do is to tell him and ask whether he agrees to open their relationship so she can date besides him, and be upfront with the other guys about her other relationships.kinard wrote:It's ok to date more than one person at a time, surely. Maybe you were no good in bed and she needed to find someone who was. We have no right to control another's life, especially if the commitment of engagement/marriage is not there. Even then, there are no guarantees.
She's been caught lying and she won't ever be honest because lying is more self-serving.
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Well, in that case that's not an issue of sexual emancipation, it's an intellectual and emotional maturity issue. Whether Khmer women are good and proper (and won't engage in deviant sexual acts), they would still cheat on and abandon their partners and families if/when they meet (or think they met) better prospects, if they are purely driven by the pursuit of comfort.Felgerkarb wrote:Because I think instances of cheating by the girls has risen exponentially. You expect the professionals to hose you, but the English teaching, sweet girl who pretends she is straight with you....I find that worse than hypocritical.