Would You Want to Know?

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Would You Want to Know?

Postby Starving Pelican » Tue Jan 24, 2017 8:38 am

Whilst we'd love to hear the juicy details (none more than our resident gossip, scoobs), I don't think felger is socially obligated to spill the beans. He asked for advice about a situation he was facing and never promised to reveal anything.


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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby Joon » Tue Jan 24, 2017 8:39 am

If eddie blake needs stories of cuckolding to get off to during those nights when all he's getting is vanilla, he should man up and set an appointment with Felgerkarb to get the dirt.
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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby Metal1982 » Tue Jan 24, 2017 12:27 pm

Alexandra wrote:On the other hand I find sex to be useless unless emotions are involved.
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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby RobW » Sat Jan 28, 2017 11:49 pm

Felgerkarb wrote: One case is closed.


So did he want to know?
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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby PorkPiePorn » Sun Jan 29, 2017 3:21 am

I wouldn't really want to know. Let sleeping dogs lie. But if it is nagging on me and the question is already in my sights, then yes, I want the truth.

As far as betrayal, I have two responses. I am hurt and I grieve the loss of what could have been, not what it actually was, which in reality might have been shit. I also have to confront my own stupidity as in, how could I not know and how could I have been so gullible.

But, I also consider the alternatives. If I want to protect myself from getting used or betrayed, I have to wall myself off and be so cynical. I wouldn't want to be that person or live that way either.

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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby straight jacked » Mon Jan 30, 2017 9:12 am

Alexandra wrote:On the other hand I find sex to be useless unless emotions are involved.
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I think i know what you're getting at.

The sex drive, is it just evolutionary instinct?
It ain't. All that's driven, is emotionally driven.

What you mean by emotions is something on a higher than physical level.
Like to do with the universe of the L word.

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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby straight jacked » Mon Jan 30, 2017 9:33 am

PorkPiePorn wrote: If I want to protect myself from getting used or betrayed, I have to wall myself off and be (-come, in the process), so cynical.


Sadly true, for some.
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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby PorkPiePorn » Mon Jan 30, 2017 9:46 am

straight jacked wrote: ... "If I want to protect myself from getting used or betrayed, I have to wall myself off and [become, in the process] so cynical."

Sadly true, for some.

PorkPiePorn wrote:But, I also consider the alternatives. If I want to protect myself from getting used or betrayed, I have to wall myself off and be so cynical. I wouldn't want to be that person or live that way either.


Hey are you allowed to quote someone and change what they wrote? I get your point, but you should make that more obvious then.
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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby PorkPiePorn » Mon Jan 30, 2017 9:50 am

straight jacked wrote:
Alexandra wrote:On the other hand I find sex to be useless unless emotions are involved.
I think i know what you're getting at.

I get that Alex. I want a lover who is as into me as I am to her. Thats hard to buy.
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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby Felgerkarb » Mon Jan 30, 2017 4:49 pm

RobW wrote:
Felgerkarb wrote: One case is closed.


So did he want to know?


No.
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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby straight jacked » Mon Jan 30, 2017 5:15 pm

PorkPiePorn wrote:
straight jacked wrote:
PorkPiePorn wrote: If I want to protect myself from getting used or betrayed, I have to wall myself off and [become, in the process] so cynical.


But, I also consider the alternatives. If I want to protect myself from getting used or betrayed, I have to wall myself off and be so cynical. I wouldn't want to be that person or live that way either.

Sadly true, for some.
Hey are you allowed to quote someone and change what they wrote? I get your point, but you should make that more obvious then.



Duly noted. Sorry about that.
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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby RobW » Mon Jan 30, 2017 5:33 pm

Felgerkarb wrote:
RobW wrote:
Felgerkarb wrote: One case is closed.


So did he want to know?


No.


Dang. At a guess: you lost a friend and he has decided marriage will cure her of her errant ways?
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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby Felgerkarb » Mon Jan 30, 2017 5:43 pm

Friendship intact. But I will never understand some barang thinking that marriage cures that behavior.

I am not a fan of churning another man's buttermilk, so this kinda logic is lost on me based on that alone.
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Re: Would You Want to Know?

Postby Felgerkarb » Sun Feb 19, 2017 6:19 pm

Well holy fuck. More. This time even worse. I need a drink.
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Postby Playboy » Sun Feb 19, 2017 7:00 pm

Did somebody say 'drink' ??
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