Ad blocker detected: Our website is made possible by displaying online advertisements to our visitors. Please consider supporting us by disabling your ad blocker on our website.
A lot of expats increasingly settle in Cambodia with families and kids, or acquire them while here. This forum is a place to ask questions and discuss all things family.
Bring in #4: Your phone/laptop. Take care you are typing around like mad-man and it'll bring you status.seidier wrote:So I'm in the early stages of seeing a new Khmer woman and things are great except that the amount of time she spends on social media is slowly driving me crazy. Dinner, traffic, movie theater, foreplay.... The first few times I brought it up she laughed it off and when I pressed a little harder she accused me of being selfish and needy.
It seems I have 3 choices, here:
1. Accept the phone as a third party in our relationship
2. Expect her to change
3. Walk away
Looking around at the zombified Khmer population around me, I can't imagine I'm alone in this predicament...#1 is a no-go for me and I'm curious if anyone here has had success with #2 (e.g., maybe all it takes is a frank talk about cultural differences regarding phone etiquette? Conscious boundary-setting?) Or are my expectations unrealistic?
Status is far more important than 1:1 communication. It makes her more important in the eyes of the spectators, when she is on the phone and you are "desperately" waiting for her attention.