Would You Want to Know?
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I'd want to know that the girl who got away was a whore so I could stop pining for her.
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gavinmac wrote:I'd want to know that the girl who got away was a whore so I could stop pining for her.
Why choose to use such a derogatory term as "Whore"
To describe the woman in question ???
I refuse to go out with nothing more than a whimper followed by a small farting sound and a shit stain on my bed sheets..
Just thought I'd share that with you.
Just thought I'd share that with you.
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I'm a bit confused by Felger's question. Is it multiple choice?
a) Would you want to know if she slept with someone?
b) Would you want to know who she slept with?
c) Both?
I was gonna put d, but then I will get in trouble.
a) Would you want to know if she slept with someone?
b) Would you want to know who she slept with?
c) Both?
I was gonna put d, but then I will get in trouble.
I love bitches n gonna fuck Texas and the USA+ right up their god damn ass! Hallelujah!
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Its a tough call but it all depends on what kind of friend that is. I have been the eyes and ears on the ground in PP for people before. In one instance for a very close longtime friend it ended up being an absolute nightmare and way more trouble than it was worth in the end. I thought the information given was pretty straightforward and he should have probably expected it but thats not how he took it. Still confounds me to this day.Felgerkarb wrote:I could probably get the proof, but I would have to play along in a false flag type situation...could get messy.
Especially for a guy like you who seemingly has a good and strong relationship with Morticia (We may have never met so pardon the use of first names here) it could come across as you meddling and maybe even looking down at your friends SO which could make him resentful or misunderstand the purpose of telling him anything if he doesn't believe/trust your word. As weird as it sounds thats part of what happened to me in the aforementioned story. Some people just dont want to deal with the truth even when it slaps them in the face and thus make all sorts of weird rationales as to why including coming back at the one who had their back in the first place.
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Very, very interesting to ponder on and try to answer, especially considering how the scenarios and emotions associated with such questions will resonate with familiarity for many - even if there will be some who say, "That happened to, er, a friend of mine"
That doesn't answer the question, though. Would I tell you? Were we friends I would want to but I'd possibly do what most people do and figure, "Fuck it. I'm the one who will end up the loser here. He's living in his self-created bubble, as do we all, and he's going to be well pissed if I pop that by telling him how it really is and for what? He's not going to believe me and isn't going to change how he thinks about the past and what he thought he had."
And that is in some ways the crux of it. What we think we were and what we had is the bedrock on which we build what we have now and what we are. When one starts "putting someone right" about aspects of their personal history I now think that if they haven't actually asked for your input then potentially not only are you yourself skating onto thin ice with them but you are taking them out there as well and you don't get thanked for that.
I have lost a number of friends over the years as a direct result of my honesty. Or stupidity and lack of diplomacy, as it might equally accurately be described, so I'd probably tell you at some point. I'm one of those stupid fuckers who would rather lose a friend through trying to help them than see them suffering. Think of the Socrates Triple Filter Test. It would have to be guaranteed true because I don't lie, but as to whether it is good - in your example it obviously isn't - and whether it is useful then it gets tricky. Is it useful if the person doesn't want to hear it and refuses to believe it?
Would I tell you? I know that I would want to know if it were me, I would want my friends to tell me - or one good friend, singular, at least. Especially if I was being affected to the extent you indicate, i.e. it is something that is like a psychic limp. To me to tell you, that is what marks out a friend from an acquaintance.Case 1: A friend has fond memories of a time with a young lady, always kicking himself about missed opportunities, etc.. Thing is, this young lady cuckolded him something fierce...embarrassingly so. Should I tell him his love was the worst of the worst and had everyone fooled for years?
Example: Imagine I didn't know Squeaky was a meth using bitch, stepping out on my constantly and I lionized her as some exemplar of Khmer female virtue to this day. Say she ran off to the province or something and I never saw her again. I continue to pine away for the lost opportunities, kick myself for making mistakes, etc.. I make all my current decisions based on this false premise and it colors me to the day. Would you tell me?
That doesn't answer the question, though. Would I tell you? Were we friends I would want to but I'd possibly do what most people do and figure, "Fuck it. I'm the one who will end up the loser here. He's living in his self-created bubble, as do we all, and he's going to be well pissed if I pop that by telling him how it really is and for what? He's not going to believe me and isn't going to change how he thinks about the past and what he thought he had."
And that is in some ways the crux of it. What we think we were and what we had is the bedrock on which we build what we have now and what we are. When one starts "putting someone right" about aspects of their personal history I now think that if they haven't actually asked for your input then potentially not only are you yourself skating onto thin ice with them but you are taking them out there as well and you don't get thanked for that.
I have lost a number of friends over the years as a direct result of my honesty. Or stupidity and lack of diplomacy, as it might equally accurately be described, so I'd probably tell you at some point. I'm one of those stupid fuckers who would rather lose a friend through trying to help them than see them suffering. Think of the Socrates Triple Filter Test. It would have to be guaranteed true because I don't lie, but as to whether it is good - in your example it obviously isn't - and whether it is useful then it gets tricky. Is it useful if the person doesn't want to hear it and refuses to believe it?
That one is easy. As I have indicated above, I like to know things, even if others don't, so I would absolutely want to know. That said, i would be a little surprised if I didn't have an idea what she was up to, it would merely be a question of credible confirmation before I took appropriate action.Case 2: "Good Girls Behaving Badly". New technology has made it easy for Khmer girls to preserve a fig leaf of decorum. They don't work in hostess bars, are not KTV whores, etc., but use the internet and its various tools to trawl for dick. They pretend to be good girls, have teaching jobs, sell cars, whatever, and some are even married to barang... But they play, play play and they change dicks more a punters intended for the day. Would you want to know your good girl wasn't?
Example: Foreign dude has a "good girl" girlfriend. She is sweet, is highly educated, speaks great English, funny, fun...but...her legs are in the air as often as she can swing it. She uses amazing skills at creating various accounts, rotating them often, to find short timers to play with because all her friends do it, it is fun, and she is young. She doesn't do it for money, although the occasional gift is appreciated. Would you want to know?
A situation I have been in also. I knew she was unfaithful but similarly had no proof, I also knew others knew and others suspected to the extent I did. Khmers knew, barangs suspected.Recently I found out one of my ex SO's was making a fool outta me...I knew this, but had no proof. I always want to know because I like to reevaluate my decisions, see my errors, and learn from them. I have no desire to confront her years later...why bother...but it is always good to know your suspicions were not unfounded. Thing is, it led me to Morticia, so in the end it worked out great...but had Morticia not entered my life, would I have still made the same bad decisions over and over? I would want to know.
Have a few beers with your mate ( or a group of friends ) and ask your hypothetical questions.
You will soon learn what he thinks and you can go from there.
Good luck.
You will soon learn what he thinks and you can go from there.
Good luck.
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I have already discussed some of this with Morticia and she supports whatever decision I come to.
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Why are the gods such vicious cunts?
Where is the god of tits and wine?
Why are the gods such vicious cunts?
Where is the god of tits and wine?
A cuckold can be enlightened anonymously, thus making you void of any backlash. Not everyone wants to know the truth.
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Truth at any cost, Felge, coz the cost of a lie is always much higher in the long run.Felgerkarb wrote:I could probably get the proof, but I would have to play along in a false flag type situation...could get messy.
You know the answer already.
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d) shall he wreck someone for his former behavior ?batshitcrazyweirdo wrote:I'm a bit confused by Felger's question. Is it multiple choice?
a) Would you want to know if she slept with someone?
b) Would you want to know who she slept with?
c) Both?
I was gonna put d, but then I will get in trouble.
If that someone is a kh440 reader, he must be shitting his pants...
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I know a guy. Don't like him. I think he may even be friends with a few posters here.
Anyway. He is nuts. After getting messed up by one (walkabout loitering) woman he fell in love with a (shanghai bar employed) woman.
He has since moved back to his home country.
In the last 12 months or so I saw her profile on Tinder. Now I hear she has a "secret" boyfriend whom she regularly goes out with, clubbing etc and even planning a trip to Cambodia which she will be officially going solo.
Should I tell him. I did send him a screenshot of the Tinder profile but fuck him. His inaction on that means he doesn't care or doesn't want to know.
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Anyway. He is nuts. After getting messed up by one (walkabout loitering) woman he fell in love with a (shanghai bar employed) woman.
He has since moved back to his home country.
In the last 12 months or so I saw her profile on Tinder. Now I hear she has a "secret" boyfriend whom she regularly goes out with, clubbing etc and even planning a trip to Cambodia which she will be officially going solo.
Should I tell him. I did send him a screenshot of the Tinder profile but fuck him. His inaction on that means he doesn't care or doesn't want to know.
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I think I know to whom you refer, and we all assume he knows. She took a shopping trip across country to meet her bf and used her friends as cover...Gin&Tonic wrote:I know a guy. Don't like him. I think he may even be friends with a few posters here.
Anyway. He is nuts. After getting messed up by one (walkabout loitering) woman he fell in love with a (shanghai bar employed) woman.
He has since moved back to his home country.
In the last 12 months or so I saw her profile on Tinder. Now I hear she has a "secret" boyfriend whom she regularly goes out with, clubbing etc and even planning a trip to Cambodia which she will be officially going solo.
Should I tell him. I did send him a screenshot of the Tinder profile but fuck him. His inaction on that means he doesn't care or doesn't want to know.
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Why are the gods such vicious cunts?
Where is the god of tits and wine?
Why are the gods such vicious cunts?
Where is the god of tits and wine?
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Yup.gavinmac wrote:I'd want to know that the girl who got away was a whore so I could stop pining for her.
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I would definitely want to know. I think most people would want to know regardless of the discomfort aspect.
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