T Mohan from Khmer Times Sexual Harassment - Open Letter
The author is my friend.
Although i respect every one’s opinion here let me tell you i know her personally and i’ve seen her in her worst.
Yeah she is beautiful but she doesnt use her beauty to get other’s attention.
She is a smart, independent, strong woman.
I am a witness of how excited she was when she got to work with that ugly guy’s company.
It has been her passion but she didnt pursue because of her parents.
Trust me
She doesnt neet that ugly guy’s money
She comes from a political family in the philippines and very much well known for being kind and generous.
They own a resort here and
Very much so she is a granddaughter of a judge.
But she chose to be responsible by working for her kids.
I dont see why would this old ugly guy claim that she is a whore?
Ive seen their exchange of messages.
My friend showed it to us during coffee when she got back from Cambodia.
It is sad that people still blame her when she is the victim in this situation.
she didnt offer herself to that old ugly guy.
Lets be clear with that.
May she find justice
Although i respect every one’s opinion here let me tell you i know her personally and i’ve seen her in her worst.
Yeah she is beautiful but she doesnt use her beauty to get other’s attention.
She is a smart, independent, strong woman.
I am a witness of how excited she was when she got to work with that ugly guy’s company.
It has been her passion but she didnt pursue because of her parents.
Trust me
She doesnt neet that ugly guy’s money
She comes from a political family in the philippines and very much well known for being kind and generous.
They own a resort here and
Very much so she is a granddaughter of a judge.
But she chose to be responsible by working for her kids.
I dont see why would this old ugly guy claim that she is a whore?
Ive seen their exchange of messages.
My friend showed it to us during coffee when she got back from Cambodia.
It is sad that people still blame her when she is the victim in this situation.
she didnt offer herself to that old ugly guy.
Lets be clear with that.
May she find justice
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It's disgraceful that you throw blame on someone just for being good looking. Proof that the Neanderthal mentality is still going strong.newnewnewbie wrote: ↑Tue Jun 18, 2019 2:55 pmAlright, so we're on dick attack.. ffs.. 30 years straight in business, I've seen the owners most recent wife schedule my beloved Friday afternoons for 'social meetings' to discuss various invented problems. I'm an engineer and programmer, I don't do politics at my working place. Why is she backstabbing a prospective employer like that. A quick lookup will also reveal her as a bit of a 'showgirl' already.
I am off, until my post account is below 1.0
Cheers, you can have it.
Romantic Cambodia is dead and gone. It's with McKinley in the grave.
I wont be happy either if i were in her shoes.
The ugly old guy twisted the story.
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I can't take it seriously, some prissy post modern narcissist going public about a few innuendos, so she could get some attention going, since the music carrier is in shambles, how about social gender liberator in Cambodia. Don't tell me it's much better on the BBC, with thousands wanting for the same office chair, as mr and ms. oh so very important news gatherer. Try it back in the West in that business, you might not even have better luck than here. She's not even that good looking, just annoying imho.
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‘So she could get some attention going’newnewnewbie wrote: ↑Tue Jun 18, 2019 8:31 pmI can't take it seriously, some prissy post modern narcissist going public about a few innuendos, so she could get some attention going, since the music carrier is in shambles, how about social gender liberator in Cambodia. Don't tell me it's much better on the BBC, with thousands wanting for the same office chair, as mr and ms. oh so very important news gatherer. Try it back in the West in that business, you might not even have better luck than here. She's not even that good looking, just annoying imho.
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I am not 100% sure that is the problem here. Judging by the WhatsApp messages, the guy hasn't got a leg to stand on, yet he still gets defended here.
it's not the 1950s anymore. Move with the times. What he is messaging to one of his staff is not acceptable. Whether she could've handled it better is a completely separate issue and an unimportant one at that.
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I totally agree, it happens in every country, IMHO she did the right thing by getting out, in many large and well run institutions in UK there are policies specific to these issues, such as harassment and bullying policy and a formal grievance procedure but I doubt if here that would mean anything.
Good luck to her anyway with whatever she decides to do next.
I've got a question from the audience.
What exactly does BBC stand for here?
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He writes "I heard you're in love" and then says "I apologize for last night its wrong on my part for my proposal . . . I don't want to hurt your relationship . . . I'm so sorry."ReasonstobefearfulP3 wrote: ↑Tue Jun 18, 2019 9:08 pm
I am not 100% sure that is the problem here. Judging by the WhatsApp messages, the guy hasn't got a leg to stand on, yet he still gets defended here.
Then after saying he was "so sorry" for his proposal he begs her twice to reconsider it.
How can he now claim with a straight face that she propositioned him?
Also, the OP left out two important screenshots that have been circulated by April to members of the local expat press (some of whom then sent it to me). Screenshots where he instructs her to delete the chat.
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It sure is like the 50's here a lot of places, and look, productivity is at a high, as opposed to the motherland, where endless social justice meetings with coffee and danish, quotas and gender politics are ruining it for the common working man, cause he's not your perfect valentine at the office, as seen on TV.ReasonstobefearfulP3 wrote:
it's not the 1950s anymore. Move with the times. What he is messaging to one of his staff is not acceptable. Whether she could've handled it better is a completely separate issue and an unimportant one at that.
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Firstly, I don't think productivity is any better here than in Europe.newnewnewbie wrote: ↑Tue Jun 18, 2019 9:46 pmIt sure is like the 50's here a lot of places, and look, productivity is at a high, as opposed to the motherland, where endless social justice meetings with coffee and danish, quotas and gender politics are ruining it for the common working man.ReasonstobefearfulP3 wrote:
it's not the 1950s anymore. Move with the times. What he is messaging to one of his staff is not acceptable. Whether she could've handled it better is a completely separate issue and an unimportant one at that.
Secondly, it doesn't excuse the fact that he is acting like a misogynistic predatory cunt & in trying to deny it now just looks like a fucking idiot.
It's not gender politics at play here, it just asking for people to be relatively decent human beings.
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British broadcasting corporation
Otherwise known as the,
British brainwashing corporation,
They just covered up for decades nonces working at the BBC and protected them to the extreme.
https://steemit.com/news/@an0nkn0wledge ... found-dead
https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/49016 ... e-ring-BBC
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There are very strong labor laws here and part of them deal with sexual harassment. I know quite a few people who have successfully sued large companies due to misconduct on the employer's part.
Romantic Cambodia is dead and gone. It's with McKinley in the grave.
Do a background check about her
If she did flirt with her former employers before khmer times.
why are some blaming her for being beautiful?
why are some blaming her for being outgoing?
That’s part of her job.
She needed to be friendly in order to make her own network.
If she did flirt with her former employers before khmer times.
why are some blaming her for being beautiful?
why are some blaming her for being outgoing?
That’s part of her job.
She needed to be friendly in order to make her own network.
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