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Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby spitthedog » Thu Apr 19, 2018 5:54 pm

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I have a question for you.

If a barang is living in the KOW with a khmer lady who is much much younger than him (say maybe 25 years plus), and the lady has a young child from a previous marriage, is the young child much more likely to be spoiled by the new father in law to the point the child is ruined and becomes abit of a me me me child?

Also when the child has been abandoned by her biological father is it common for the child to be abit needy in various different ways with the newly adopted father?

The way i see it, such a massive age difference between khmer lady and barang dude partner can often be explained in various different ways ;

a) The lady never had a father figure around when she was growing up.
b) She has been in previous abusive relationships and prefers older calmer, more stable men.
c) The barang is loaded, or & plus the above.
d) The barang is still quite hansum.
e) The barang has a massive cock.
f) Related to b) - She sees the barang as someone who can provide everything her child needs without leaving her.
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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby Spigzy » Thu Apr 19, 2018 5:58 pm

I can only confirm c, d, and e sorry. Interesting other theories though.
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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby kiiniaew » Thu Apr 19, 2018 6:09 pm

c and f: nobody 25 years older will be considered "hansum". No matter how massive your cock is, it ain't worth the gossip she hears as you walk around as "couple".

Now if you would look at an old Khmer lady with a young toy boy the answer would be a simple "e". If the toy boy is clever he will make sure the lady will qualify as a "c" ..... :thumbsup:
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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby McPhisto » Thu Apr 19, 2018 6:37 pm

g) she is considered tainted by Khmer society and and Grandpa Longnose is her last desperate attempt to grab onto a low branch whilst falling out of the tree of life, before slamming into the ground via isolation, abuse and poverty.

or

h) she just likes the older barang guy for treating her decently and not pummeling her senseless and stomping her on the floor in an abusive, drunken rage The Chicken-style.
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Postby gavinmac » Thu Apr 19, 2018 7:13 pm

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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby YaTingPom » Thu Apr 19, 2018 8:05 pm

McPhisto wrote:g) she is considered tainted by Khmer society and and Grandpa Longnose is her last desperate attempt to grab onto a low branch whilst falling out of the tree of life, before slamming into the ground via isolation, abuse and poverty.

or

h) she just likes the older barang guy for treating her decently and not pummeling her senseless and stomping her on the floor in an abusive, drunken rage The Chicken-style.

What, like that barang/farang did In Thailand to his wife you mean?

There’s a 26 year age gap between my wife and I. She is a lucky wench because I am indeed hansum.
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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby McPhisto » Thu Apr 19, 2018 8:14 pm

YaTingPom wrote:There’s a 26 year age gap between my wife and I.

"YaTingPom" must translate to "last branch" in local vocab.
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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby Lucky Lucan » Thu Apr 19, 2018 8:40 pm

spitthedog wrote:
Also when the child has been abandoned by her biological father is it common for the child to be a bit needy in various different ways with the newly adopted father?



I have no personal experience of this but have heard of a whole lot of abandoned wives & children. They are usually left in abject poverty so the child is sent to live with relations while the mother either goes to Thailand or gets a job in the capital. So I'd imagine the kid might be left feeling a bit "needy". I knew a guy here who went from being a motodop to a tuk-tuk driver to getting sponsored to get a degree, and eventually landing a relatively well-paid job working for a NGO as a plantation manager. As soon as he got this better job he was chasing after a new wife, while he still lived away from home and threw miserable amounts of money at his wife and 2 kids. When I talked to him about it he couldn't see any issue. Many of the middle-aged guys I know here have second wives while their original family struggles in the boonies. None of them have ever expressed the slightest care that their offspring are not being cared for. I've met plenty of westerners who have behaved similarly, but at least in those countries there is a legally-enforceable child-support system in place.
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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby YaTingPom » Thu Apr 19, 2018 9:25 pm

McPhisto wrote:
YaTingPom wrote:There’s a 26 year age gap between my wife and I.

"YaTingPom" must translate to "last branch" in local vocab.

If you want it to, yes. Yes it does. >pat on head<
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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby LaudJohn » Thu Apr 19, 2018 11:18 pm

YaTingPom wrote:
McPhisto wrote:g) she is considered tainted by Khmer society and and Grandpa Longnose is her last desperate attempt to grab onto a low branch whilst falling out of the tree of life, before slamming into the ground via isolation, abuse and poverty.

or

h) she just likes the older barang guy for treating her decently and not pummeling her senseless and stomping her on the floor in an abusive, drunken rage The Chicken-style.

What, like that barang/farang did In Thailand to his wife you mean?

There’s a 26 year age gap between my wife and I. She is a lucky wench because I am indeed hansum.


I know YTP and his wife.

I can confirm that he is indeed hansun (but not in a gay way), and his wife tells me that his cock is bigger than mine so it must be big.
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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby Lucky Lucan » Thu Apr 19, 2018 11:21 pm

LaudJohn wrote:...his wife tells me that his cock is bigger than mine so it must be big.


Nah, it just means it's not tiny. 8-)
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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby LaudJohn » Thu Apr 19, 2018 11:23 pm

Lucky Lucan wrote:
LaudJohn wrote:...his wife tells me that his cock is bigger than mine so it must be big.


Nah, it just means it's not tiny. 8-)


Lol. !!!!!
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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby Starving Pelican » Fri Apr 20, 2018 7:56 am

Lucky Lucan wrote:
LaudJohn wrote:...his wife tells me that his cock is bigger than mine so it must be big.


Nah, it just means it's not tiny. 8-)


Yeah, rice cakes volunteered the same information when he was sozzled.
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Re: Issues of massive age gap difference between barang dudes & khmer ladies

Postby YaTingPom » Fri Apr 20, 2018 1:12 pm

LaudJohn wrote:
I know YTP and his wife.

I can confirm that he is indeed hansun (but not in a gay way), and his wife tells me that his cock is bigger than mine so it must be big.

Noted.
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