by Stefan Struik » Sat Feb 27, 2021 8:28 am
Guest wrote: ↑Thu Feb 25, 2021 10:00 pm
Stefan Struik wrote: ↑Sun Feb 14, 2021 8:31 am
Hi, my name is Stefan Struik. I can see the potential of Cambodia and I have seen the dark side underneath the surface. I have spent 8 months in the most remote and primitive prison of Cambodia in Mondulkiri. But thanks to my colleagues, staff, workers who all supported me and thanks also to the guards, the directors, and the prisoners themselves I managed to survive. On this platform I was accused of being a child torturer, pedophile, I think I even killed three children I read somewhere and I was apparently to the information on this forum a member of an occult satanic sect. I can't blame people for having too little information and I can't blame people for having a lot of fantasy. But I would ask anyone on this forum to be careful with making judgments, especially when this is only based on assumptions and not on facts.
I don't think your a paedo or satanist, murderer, etc. You just came across as a bit cold and dodged all my questions about helping the tortured child. My concern is not about a 50-year-old man and what the general public opinion of him is. Has always been about the child, my son is 4 years old and my daughter will be 2 in May. At these ages, they are so wonderful. One thing is the best thing in the world, another is the worst and they show their happy and sad emotions at a high level. Had my lover done something bad without my knowledge to a child on my property I would feel very stupid and guilty. I would try as best as I can to help the child and family. I mean for the rest of my life I would be helping. Education, therapy, child care, food, etc. I wouldn't try and act like it has fa to do with me and is time now to move on. My worry is that you won't help him and you will spend more on young prostitutes in 2021 than you will on helping the victim for the rest of your life. Even if you don't want to help the victim, just do it and I think people will see you in a better light. So far you haven't answered any questions about continuing to help the victim, but I bet you spent plenty on young men you have sex with haven't you.
Sorry, I didn't check this forum for a while. Thought that it was mentioned already a few times but quickly checking I can't find it except for one time where the amount was not mentioned correctly. To answer your question: After I was released, I voluntarily also paid $25,000 to the family. Strangely enough, the judges had strongly advised me not to do it, because it could be interpreted by the outside world as me being guilty. But I nevertheless decided to pay because I felt it was my mistake that I had brought the boy unknowingly in danger by allowing my ex-boyfriend to stay at the farm on several occasions. As an extra note: he stayed there also when I was not present and in those cases, he brought a girl with him. Staff members of a Thai irrigation company who stayed there as well during installation told me after the process that they always were wondering if my ex-boyfriend was indeed gay, because for them it seems as if he brought a Vietnamese girlfriend every time I was not present. And as a last extra note: In the process, both parents testified in front of the judges that I was not to blame and that they also were convinced I was not aware of the horrible crime of my ex-boyfriend against the poor boy.
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[quote="Stefan Struik" post_id=1025556 time=1613266274 user_id=54592]
Hi, my name is Stefan Struik. I can see the potential of Cambodia and I have seen the dark side underneath the surface. I have spent 8 months in the most remote and primitive prison of Cambodia in Mondulkiri. But thanks to my colleagues, staff, workers who all supported me and thanks also to the guards, the directors, and the prisoners themselves I managed to survive. On this platform I was accused of being a child torturer, pedophile, I think I even killed three children I read somewhere and I was apparently to the information on this forum a member of an occult satanic sect. I can't blame people for having too little information and I can't blame people for having a lot of fantasy. But I would ask anyone on this forum to be careful with making judgments, especially when this is only based on assumptions and not on facts.
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I don't think your a paedo or satanist, murderer, etc. You just came across as a bit cold and dodged all my questions about helping the tortured child. My concern is not about a 50-year-old man and what the general public opinion of him is. Has always been about the child, my son is 4 years old and my daughter will be 2 in May. At these ages, they are so wonderful. One thing is the best thing in the world, another is the worst and they show their happy and sad emotions at a high level. Had my lover done something bad without my knowledge to a child on my property I would feel very stupid and guilty. I would try as best as I can to help the child and family. I mean for the rest of my life I would be helping. Education, therapy, child care, food, etc. I wouldn't try and act like it has fa to do with me and is time now to move on. My worry is that you won't help him and you will spend more on young prostitutes in 2021 than you will on helping the victim for the rest of your life. Even if you don't want to help the victim, just do it and I think people will see you in a better light. So far you haven't answered any questions about continuing to help the victim, but I bet you spent plenty on young men you have sex with haven't you.
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Sorry, I didn't check this forum for a while. Thought that it was mentioned already a few times but quickly checking I can't find it except for one time where the amount was not mentioned correctly. To answer your question: After I was released, I voluntarily also paid $25,000 to the family. Strangely enough, the judges had strongly advised me not to do it, because it could be interpreted by the outside world as me being guilty. But I nevertheless decided to pay because I felt it was my mistake that I had brought the boy unknowingly in danger by allowing my ex-boyfriend to stay at the farm on several occasions. As an extra note: he stayed there also when I was not present and in those cases, he brought a girl with him. Staff members of a Thai irrigation company who stayed there as well during installation told me after the process that they always were wondering if my ex-boyfriend was indeed gay, because for them it seems as if he brought a Vietnamese girlfriend every time I was not present. And as a last extra note: In the process, both parents testified in front of the judges that I was not to blame and that they also were convinced I was not aware of the horrible crime of my ex-boyfriend against the poor boy.