by pablomiguelgarcia » Mon Aug 22, 2016 8:56 am
If he is not written into the family book they are not legally married. They can't even do that in the boonies no more.
I am personally against the institution of marriage, most are unable to keep their promises anyway long term,
and the whole 'ownership' thang creates tension in the home.
And how about if you are 50 and find someone at 38 you like?, why all the trouble? Could they have worded it differently, such as age difference can't be more than 20-30 years etc. Besides writing all these laws will not change the reality of the fact that financial wealth plays a huge part in so many relationships, especially between foreigners and females living in poorer nations.
It is troubling to think that any children derived from such relations have to bear a shameful title of coming from an 'illegitimate' marriage, and hence with a tainted family book will get in trouble for being a lesser individual when looking for jobs or a higher education later on in life.
If he is not written into the family book they are not legally married. They can't even do that in the boonies no more.
I am personally against the institution of marriage, most are unable to keep their promises anyway long term,
and the whole 'ownership' thang creates tension in the home.
And how about if you are 50 and find someone at 38 you like?, why all the trouble? Could they have worded it differently, such as age difference can't be more than 20-30 years etc. Besides writing all these laws will not change the reality of the fact that financial wealth plays a huge part in so many relationships, especially between foreigners and females living in poorer nations.
It is troubling to think that any children derived from such relations have to bear a shameful title of coming from an 'illegitimate' marriage, and hence with a tainted family book will get in trouble for being a lesser individual when looking for jobs or a higher education later on in life.