by YoungBarang » Sun Jan 12, 2020 9:22 pm
Ok, here's the story:
I am under 30, came here on a international project.
Main reason to be in Cambodia was never to date local girls. Work, experience, sell my ass for more money back home. That was it.
Until last week.
Met a nice, cute, local lady my age. Asked her out, she agreed.
Went out, she proposed to split bills, excellent English, smart, funny, living alone.
BUT! Zero progress towards meaningful physical contact - no hugs, no kisses (any type), no hands-holding, nope.
Don't get me wrong, I am not into it for the touching and the sex only, but I am coming from a country where a lot of physical contact takes place even when not romantically involved with someone.
So, 4 questions:
1. Is the entire no-physical-contact-thingy normal here? Or she is just not that much into me and is saving (my face?) by being too polite and not refusing going out with me.
2. Would asking and talking about these things be perceived as pushy? I don't want it to be read as "I am asking, so, you know, you can tell me when we will fuck". I don't have that much time in Cambodia left (and she knows) but I want to know how far I can expect this to go and I am not missing something out.
3. Should I press for physical contact on date 2 (yes, there will be #2). Does being more aggressive help in general?
4. What are your experiences with physical contact with "normal" (not for rent) females in Cambodia - at what point you started doing what?
Sorry if I sound like a dating noob, but here, I feel all my dating and relationship knowledge is useless and I would like to explore the opportunity to the fullest and fucking shit up does not help with this.
Ok, here's the story:
I am under 30, came here on a international project.
Main reason to be in Cambodia was never to date local girls. Work, experience, sell my ass for more money back home. That was it.
Until last week.
Met a nice, cute, local lady my age. Asked her out, she agreed.
Went out, she proposed to split bills, excellent English, smart, funny, living alone.
BUT! Zero progress towards meaningful physical contact - no hugs, no kisses (any type), no hands-holding, nope.
Don't get me wrong, I am not into it for the touching and the sex only, but I am coming from a country where a lot of physical contact takes place even when not romantically involved with someone.
So, 4 questions:
1. Is the entire no-physical-contact-thingy normal here? Or she is just not that much into me and is saving (my face?) by being too polite and not refusing going out with me.
2. Would asking and talking about these things be perceived as pushy? I don't want it to be read as "I am asking, so, you know, you can tell me when we will fuck". I don't have that much time in Cambodia left (and she knows) but I want to know how far I can expect this to go and I am not missing something out.
3. Should I press for physical contact on date 2 (yes, there will be #2). Does being more aggressive help in general?
4. What are your experiences with physical contact with "normal" (not for rent) females in Cambodia - at what point you started doing what?
Sorry if I sound like a dating noob, but here, I feel all my dating and relationship knowledge is useless and I would like to explore the opportunity to the fullest and fucking shit up does not help with this.