This is how weird I am . . .Bar Steward wrote:Wasabi, I don't think your point is about balls, you're advocating tolerance, thick skin, an easygoing don't care attitude.
If it's about balls, then it's about having the balls to stand up for standards of respect and civilized behavior. You wouldn't stand for the guard grabbing your wife's tits for example, unless you were a total wimp, so why put up with verbal abuse either.
The civilized thing to do is absolutely report it to the management etc.
Any guy gets physical with me or grabs anybody I know, he gets lit up faster than the Hindenburg. (Unless of course if I've determined that the guy is beyond my physical stomp-ass capabilities, he gets a freebie tittie squeeze and a friendly smile from me) But how many times have you seen a REALLY capable guy abusing his power? In my experience, it's always some dumb ass body-builder or fat-ass 300 lb heffer type after a few whiskeys who do this.
Verbal abuse from a scum strangers shouldn't even register. Verbal abuse from a wife . . . well, that's another matter.
Yeah well, I guess it is more about thick skin . . .