I'm a Canadian considering marrying a Cambodian
I'm a Canadian considering marrying a Cambodian
Hey,
My cousin married a Cambodian girl and brought her here and he seems pretty happy. His wife has a sister in Cambodia who she wants me to marry and bring to Canada.
I don't have any trouble getting women but now that I'm getting in to my 30's it's hard to find a woman who hasn't had kids. Also I find most women have totally unrealistic expectations for finding someone. I run my own business and make enough to support someone with what I made as well as me but most women are all about looks and I'm by no means a looker. Basically I'm getting tired of being shut down by women who are nothing but babysitters or cashiers.
It seems like everyone I talk to has good experiences with marrying someone from Asia and bring them over. My old Italian barber had brought a Thai woman over and I asked him how he's liking it he said "It's beautiful, she cuts my toe nails, she gives me blow job, beautiful!"
But what worries me is my cousin isn't the sharpest tool in the shed, he's also not doing so well with money right now and in effect has nothing to lose if she breaks up with him. I wonder if it's working because he's really simple and if I had a Cambodian bride I'd be afraid she'd take half my business if she broke up with me. Given that I'm really not a looker (I have a weight problem and psoriasis) I'd be afraid she'd get here, see me and want a divorce right away.
I'm basically using this year to decide what I want to do. See if there's an apocalypse and if there's not then decide if I want to go through with it. I talk to her on facebook and on skype. She's very nice but there's a language barrier when she started talking to me on facebook she started saying "I love you do you love me" right out of the gate which says to me she wants to get the fuck out of Cambodia. It was kind of a turn off.
At any rate, should I keep trying to find a western girl or give up and grab her?
My cousin married a Cambodian girl and brought her here and he seems pretty happy. His wife has a sister in Cambodia who she wants me to marry and bring to Canada.
I don't have any trouble getting women but now that I'm getting in to my 30's it's hard to find a woman who hasn't had kids. Also I find most women have totally unrealistic expectations for finding someone. I run my own business and make enough to support someone with what I made as well as me but most women are all about looks and I'm by no means a looker. Basically I'm getting tired of being shut down by women who are nothing but babysitters or cashiers.
It seems like everyone I talk to has good experiences with marrying someone from Asia and bring them over. My old Italian barber had brought a Thai woman over and I asked him how he's liking it he said "It's beautiful, she cuts my toe nails, she gives me blow job, beautiful!"
But what worries me is my cousin isn't the sharpest tool in the shed, he's also not doing so well with money right now and in effect has nothing to lose if she breaks up with him. I wonder if it's working because he's really simple and if I had a Cambodian bride I'd be afraid she'd take half my business if she broke up with me. Given that I'm really not a looker (I have a weight problem and psoriasis) I'd be afraid she'd get here, see me and want a divorce right away.
I'm basically using this year to decide what I want to do. See if there's an apocalypse and if there's not then decide if I want to go through with it. I talk to her on facebook and on skype. She's very nice but there's a language barrier when she started talking to me on facebook she started saying "I love you do you love me" right out of the gate which says to me she wants to get the fuck out of Cambodia. It was kind of a turn off.
At any rate, should I keep trying to find a western girl or give up and grab her?
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That is a false dichotomy. You have other options: other cambodians, Russian mail order brides, immigrants living in Canada, etc...Wiffler wrote:At any rate, should I keep trying to find a western girl or give up and grab her?
Marriage is a life prospect (at least it is supposed to be), so don't jump at your first opporunity regardless of how old you feel yourself to be getting.
If you are looking for a serious life partner, I woudl suggest you look for an Indian. You can find yourself a nice, intelligent, English speaking Indian woman. Unlike the Cambodian woman your are considering, you will not have to worry much that the Indian woman is looking for a free passport and dibs on your business (or whether or not she is an ex-prostitute, for that matter). There are a lot of sites were you can look to find a good Indian wife.
Seriously, save yourself a hassle and check them out first, before you do something rash. You are young and have your business, you can land a good Indian wife.
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Yeah but at least with this Cambodian girl she has family ties here where as some total strange woman would probably be more likely to be problematic.
I actually see an Indian girl from time to time but I'm kind of turned off by the fact that she washes her ass after taking a shit rather than wipe with toilet paper. Seems to me when I go down on her there could be some water/poo water around the area down there and it freaks me out. Also she's not as hot as the Cambodian.
I actually see an Indian girl from time to time but I'm kind of turned off by the fact that she washes her ass after taking a shit rather than wipe with toilet paper. Seems to me when I go down on her there could be some water/poo water around the area down there and it freaks me out. Also she's not as hot as the Cambodian.
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Wiffler wrote:Yeah but at least with this Cambodian girl she has family ties here where as some total strange woman would probably be more likely to be problematic.
I actually see an Indian girl from time to time but I'm kind of turned off by the fact that she washes her ass after taking a shit rather than wipe with toilet paper. Seems to me when I go down on her there could be some water/poo water around the area down there and it freaks me out. Also she's not as hot as the Cambodian.
India is a nation of a billion+ people, some even use toilet paper.
Seriously, I lived in India for a few years. There are many Indian women that are extremely westernized. I did not listen to Iron Maiden until an Indian woman sat me down and had me listen to them. You can find the full range, from serious professionals to greatful dead fans. Also, there are plenty of Indians that have family living in Canada: you guys have some very loose immigrations standards: at least compared to the US.
As for looks, there are a massive number of hot women in India. Even if you have a preference for the east asian look, you still have options. Indian women in the North Eastern region (such as nagaland) can often pass for south east asians. Another bonus, due to the prevalance of arranged marriage, many Indian women place more emphasis on traits such as moral character, emotional compatability, similarity of interests.
Also, there are a lot of attractive and intelligent women in India who (by Indian standards) are unmarriable. These women are either born into a low caste, have a humanities degree, or a Mangliks. (A manglik is someone who is born on an inauspicious date and thus has a "bad" horoscope.) I knew several such women, they are often forced to marry someone well below their economic or social status and tend to lose the westernized lifestyle they are used to.
As I said, you could easily land an attractive, intelligent Indian woman who is compatable with you. You don't need to compromise.
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Its a case by case basis surely. As only the OP knows either women only he can really comment. We can't speak for 600 million Indian women.LaudJohn wrote:totally wrongconnecticuter wrote:[you will not have to worry much that the Indian woman is looking for a free passport
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what if she has an engineering degree--does this make her eligible?
These women are either born into a low caste, have a humanities degree, or a Mangliks. (A manglik is someone who is born on an inauspicious date and thus has a "bad" horoscope.)
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Engineers, Scientists, MBA holders, computer scientists, IIT and IIM grads are at the very top of eligibility. Also, "fair" skin and high caste.khmerhit wrote:what if she has an engineering degree--does this make her eligible?
These women are either born into a low caste, have a humanities degree, or a Mangliks. (A manglik is someone who is born on an inauspicious date and thus has a "bad" horoscope.)
A woman with a humanities degree, dark skin, low caste (or intercaste), manglik have a much much harder time. Also, Indians marry into "a family". Thus, if a woman has a family member that has a questionable past then her prospects are lowered. For example, if a woman's father left her mother as a child, her marriage prospects sink. Likewise, if her sister is caught having a boyfriend prior to marriage, the prospects again decline. The brother failed his college course... damn, marriage options get reduced.
There are plenty of women in India who are simply looking for a good partner who will grant them the respect and autonomy they deserve (not a passport, or stealing someones business) and are edged out of the marriage market for local reasons irrelevant to a non-Indian.
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I just thought of other groups of women in a sour situation. Widows have a very hard time remarrying even if they are very young. So it is not uncommon to find a widow in her 20's or 30's with little to no chance of remarriage. The same goes with divorce and annullments. A woman could be married for just 6 months and then seek a divorce or an annulment due to cruelty, if it granted she is going to have a very hard time finding a new partner (with or without kids in the picture). Finally, there are women whose family cannot afford the dowery expected within certain communities. Thus, they either are unmarriable or they have to seriously lower their standards and marry into a very poor family/uneducated family.
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Alright well I'm not in to Indian girls, I'm also not going to cambodia to try to pick a lady out. I wouldn't consider an arranged marriage outside of the fact that this girl is somewhat already in twined in to my family.
I'd rather not have to go to Cambodia at all, odds are I'd go and get killed in an auto accident.
I'd rather not have to go to Cambodia at all, odds are I'd go and get killed in an auto accident.
Wiffler wrote:Yeah but at least with this Cambodian girl she has family ties here
where as some total strange woman would probably be more likely to be problematic.[/b
]I actually see an Indian girl from time to time but I'm kind of turned off by the fact that she washes her ass after taking a shit rather than wipe with toilet paper. Seems to me when I go down on her there could be some water/poo water around the area down there and it freaks me out. Also she's not as hot as the Cambodian.
From the womans point of view, Some total strange man would probably be likely to be problematic too.
Especially if he so uneducated as to believe that the ancient Egyptions and Chinese invented paper to be used to wipe bums .
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This is the clincher. The bad news is Cambodians, like Indians, like most people in the world, also don't do that dirty habit that you're so enthralled by. Stick to bog-roll country ladies.Wiffler wrote:I actually see an Indian girl from time to time but I'm kind of turned off by the fact that she washes her ass after taking a shit rather than wipe with toilet paper.
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Whoa whoa whoa, so you're saying Cambodian girls do the self bidet method to clean out their asshole and don't use toilet paper?andyinasia wrote:This is the clincher. The bad news is Cambodians, like Indians, like most people in the world, also don't do that dirty habit that you're so enthralled by. Stick to bog-roll country ladies.Wiffler wrote:I actually see an Indian girl from time to time but I'm kind of turned off by the fact that she washes her ass after taking a shit rather than wipe with toilet paper.
Wiffler wrote: I actually see an Indian girl from time to time but I'm kind of turned off by the fact that she washes her ass after taking a shit rather than wipe with toilet paper. Seems to me when I go down on her there could be some water/poo water around the area down there and it freaks me out.
Dont you like licking poo? Why dont you start chewing on the bits off poo stuck to her hairs, you'll soon love the taste and want more and more.
This wiffler waffling on about the joys of toilet paper-he cant be serious.
I have met some canadians lately who I dubbed the vancouver hillbillies.
Wiffler could easily be one of them.
I have met some canadians lately who I dubbed the vancouver hillbillies.
Wiffler could easily be one of them.
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