How much should I be paying for a girlfriend / wife in Cambodia?
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Divorced twice, and separate bank accounts both times, so zero.
But here in Japan the norm in marriages is for the man to hand over 100%, and then get a pittance for pocket money every week.
Japanese women are great to date, but after marriage the only screwing going on is what they do to your income.
But here in Japan the norm in marriages is for the man to hand over 100%, and then get a pittance for pocket money every week.
Japanese women are great to date, but after marriage the only screwing going on is what they do to your income.
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to all u that claim nothing,
'so if u married in the west, would u not give ur wife, gf money for food, clothes, entertainment, buy her presents?
if all she did was stay home?? how is it any different just cause ur in asia
ur all full of shit if u say you give nothing;
MY gf works and her money is her money, I still give her some which goes to help her youngest sister plus cover her visa expense.
'so if u married in the west, would u not give ur wife, gf money for food, clothes, entertainment, buy her presents?
if all she did was stay home?? how is it any different just cause ur in asia
ur all full of shit if u say you give nothing;
MY gf works and her money is her money, I still give her some which goes to help her youngest sister plus cover her visa expense.
"We are turning into a nation of whimpering slaves to Fear—fear of war, fear of poverty, fear of random terrorism, or suddenly getting locked up in a military detention camp on vague charges of being a Terrorist sympathizer." HST
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Speaking of precision in word use...Phuket2006 wrote:to all u that claim nothing,
'so if u married in the west, would u not give ur wife, gf money for food, clothes, entertainment, buy her presents?
if all she did was stay home?? how is it any different just cause ur in asia
ur all full of shit if u say you give nothing;
MY gf works and her money is her money, I still give her some which goes to help her youngest sister plus cover her visa expense.
The OP didn't say 'give,' he said "pay."
You don't pay cash to a woman to have her be your girlfriend,
Because if you are paying her cash to be with you - she is not your girlfriend.
Because if you are paying her cash to be with you - she is not your girlfriend.
I refuse to go out with nothing more than a whimper followed by a small farting sound and a shit stain on my bed sheets..
Just thought I'd share that with you.
Just thought I'd share that with you.
It was pretty much the norm in SHV which is no surprise but not my cup of Mekong whiskey.
I did have a GF couple of years back who, when she lost her job, did ask for me to 'help' by giving her what she had been getting ($160 p/m) till she found another one. As she was looking after her elderly mother, I didn't mind and it was only for 3 months till she was back in work.
I did have a GF couple of years back who, when she lost her job, did ask for me to 'help' by giving her what she had been getting ($160 p/m) till she found another one. As she was looking after her elderly mother, I didn't mind and it was only for 3 months till she was back in work.
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scoffer wrote:You don't pay cash to a woman to have her be your girlfriend,
Because if you are paying her cash to be with you - she is not your girlfriend.
Semantics;
what do you call a girl that has been living with you and your not married?
Partner, my other half, my better half, someone i share the toothpaste with, someone i just fuck,
etc
"We are turning into a nation of whimpering slaves to Fear—fear of war, fear of poverty, fear of random terrorism, or suddenly getting locked up in a military detention camp on vague charges of being a Terrorist sympathizer." HST
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Not semantics. You pay prostitutes. You give to your wife/partner/gf.Phuket2006 wrote:Semantics;scoffer wrote:You don't pay cash to a woman to have her be your girlfriend,
Because if you are paying her cash to be with you - she is not your girlfriend.
what do you call a girl that has been living with you and your not married?
Partner, my other half, my better half, someone i share the toothpaste with, someone i just fuck,
etc
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girlfriend
noun
sweetheart, lover, partner, significant other, girl, woman; fiancée; informal steady, (main) squeeze, boo, GF; dated lady friend, ladylove, betrothed;
Alright, main squeeze it is.
girlfriend
noun
sweetheart, lover, partner, significant other, girl, woman; fiancée; informal steady, (main) squeeze, boo, GF; dated lady friend, ladylove, betrothed;
Alright, main squeeze it is.
Phuket2006 wrote:scoffer wrote:You don't pay cash to a woman to have her be your girlfriend,
Because if you are paying her cash to be with you - she is not your girlfriend.
Semantics;
what do you call a girl that has been living with you and your not married?
Partner, my other half, my better half, someone i share the toothpaste with, someone i just fuck,
etc
My comment was you don't pay a woman to be your girlfriend,
The Emphasis was on making a "cash payment" to have her associate with you.
I have always been happy to share with (to quote you ) my " Partner, my other half, my better half, someone i share the toothpaste with, someone i just fuck ".
She is not a woman I am paying money to in order for her to be my girlfriend.
I refuse to go out with nothing more than a whimper followed by a small farting sound and a shit stain on my bed sheets..
Just thought I'd share that with you.
Just thought I'd share that with you.
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Is it any different in America and most of the west, where they get everything when they divorce you?On The Buses wrote:Divorced twice, and separate bank accounts both times, so zero.
But here in Japan the norm in marriages is for the man to hand over 100%, and then get a pittance for pocket money every week.
Japanese women are great to date, but after marriage the only screwing going on is what they do to your income.
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If you can't trust your partner with everything, why did you marry her?
There's an inherent racism in this thread. We would gladly give control of all finances to our spouses back home, most of whom would be white, but when they are Khmer/brown Asian we have to set a limit?
If you have to ask, RUN.
There's an inherent racism in this thread. We would gladly give control of all finances to our spouses back home, most of whom would be white, but when they are Khmer/brown Asian we have to set a limit?
If you have to ask, RUN.
ירי ילדים והפצצת אזרחים דורש אומץ, כמו גם הטרדה מינית של עובדי ההוראה.
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Yes, the OP is racist. Noboby would point at a white woman and ask her white husband how much he paid for her.vladimir wrote:If you can't trust your partner with everything, why did you marry her?
There's an inherent racism in this thread. We would gladly give control of all finances to our spouses back home, most of whom would be white, but when they are Khmer/brown Asian we have to set a limit?
If you have to ask, RUN.
And misogyny in those that try to blur the difference between paying a prostitute and sharing/giving to a wife/gf.
...as much as I hate to use those words in today's environment in which they are so wildly overused.
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I like to think of it as an inherent honesty. I would/ could ask the same question in England or Australia for instance. I didn't know I had to be of a certain color to ask such things. That would be racist wouldn't it?vladimir wrote:If you can't trust your partner with everything, why did you marry her?
There's an inherent racism in this thread. We would gladly give control of all finances to our spouses back home, most of whom would be white, but when they are Khmer/brown Asian we have to set a limit?
If you have to ask, RUN.
Apart from Chuck the science killer, I expect the other 2 votes for a 1000 + are true. I know one of them is anyway.
In fact, I realize too late that I should have added even larger amounts to the poll.
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there is a thread on pattaya addicts u all should read,
its about a dutch guy who PAYS his Khmer GF $20/day and covers all her expenses while they stay in Pattaya and travel every three months to PP to get new visas, and is proud of it
Jerry's Cambodian adventures ... ongoing, 246 pages and going strong, http://www.pattaya-addicts.com/forum/to ... g/page-246
You'd be absolutely amazed at the number of guys that think he is some kind of god and living the life
its about a dutch guy who PAYS his Khmer GF $20/day and covers all her expenses while they stay in Pattaya and travel every three months to PP to get new visas, and is proud of it
Jerry's Cambodian adventures ... ongoing, 246 pages and going strong, http://www.pattaya-addicts.com/forum/to ... g/page-246
You'd be absolutely amazed at the number of guys that think he is some kind of god and living the life
"We are turning into a nation of whimpering slaves to Fear—fear of war, fear of poverty, fear of random terrorism, or suddenly getting locked up in a military detention camp on vague charges of being a Terrorist sympathizer." HST
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