Filipina Girlfriend Says We're Over if I Go to Cambodia Alone
I liked it better before, suggesting a threesome was an awesome idea. Quits or double.
What a reprehensible and immoral suggestion by PPP! Gosh
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Yeah.... I'm not sure why I got name-dropped as the poster child for open relationships...Miguelito wrote:violet wrote:There are women/men who are happy with an open relationship.... Joon for example.
Hmm, is that so?
I don't even do "relationships" as it is conventionally understood.
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The OP has always dreamed of going the Cambodia, his girl has always dreamed of going to France. Why not do both together? Might take longer to save up, but if both you truly love each other, it could be the best answer. You could impress her with your Khmer language skills and knowledge of the culture and she could impress you with her French.
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My apologies. I was referring to where you have written onnhere that you would be OK with an open relationship. Perhaps I have incorrectly recalled the nuance of the comment. I will try to find it. I also was under the impression from comments on here that you do 'do' relationships. Relationships. Short, long whatever. I wasn't referring to marriage. Even one night is referred to a one night relationshipJoon wrote:Yeah.... I'm not sure why I got name-dropped as the poster child for open relationships...Miguelito wrote:violet wrote:There are women/men who are happy with an open relationship.... Joon for example.
Hmm, is that so?
I don't even do "relationships" as it is conventionally understood.
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violet wrote:My apologies. I was referring to where you have written on here that you would be OK with an open relationship. Perhaps I have incorrectly recalled the nuance of the comment. I will try to find it. I also was under the impression from comments on here that you do 'do' relationships. Relationships. Short, long whatever. I wasn't referring to marriage. Even one night is referred to a one night relationshipJoon wrote:Yeah.... I'm not sure why I got name-dropped as the poster child for open relationships...Miguelito wrote:violet wrote:There are women/men who are happy with an open relationship.... Joon for example.
Hmm, is that so?
I don't even do "relationships" as it is conventionally understood.
yeah, maybe I misread/remembered incorrectly based on whatever G&T read or based on G&T's comment.
http://www.khmer440.com/chat_forum/view ... start=6924Joon wrote:I honestly don't know where you got that from since I very rarely talked openly and publicly about my marriage, and even less on K440.Gin&Tonic wrote:As for you Joon. I remember when you first came along Khmer440. You said something like you were happy with your open relationship with your husband because he was a good father to your child(ren). Is that still the case?
However, I did mention something about commitment on CEO, and that didn't mean it was all happy-clappy.
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Dump her. Don't be a dummy.merchantsmutual wrote:She seems to have trust issues, but after a year and a half of studying Khmer, I finally have a chance to visit Cambodia, and it seems to be affecting her very deeply. She says I cannot travel there alone under any circumstances. How can I convince her that it's really NBD? For various reasons, she cannot travel as well.
If you don't know where you're going, any road takes you there.
That is terrible advice. If you are going to do it, do NOT tell her. She is Filipina, not a trendy arts liberal who watches Andy Warhol movies. Anyway it sounds too late - if you stay in the US you are fucked (you will be really pissed off); if you go you are fucked (she will be really pissed off). Just go.violet wrote:I will also say grow some balls but from a slightly different perspective. Be respectful also.
What I mean is... if you are going to come to Cambodia and have sexual relations with others while in a relationship with someone, tell them that is what you are going to do. Don't be a coward and do it behind her/his back. If you are unable to be that open and honest, she/he doesn't deserve you either. If the person chooses to leave you because that behaviour does not sit well with them, that is best for you and it is best for them.
What is the point of a relationship where you cannot be you and you have to lie/deceive/omit information? That prohibits you from having a relationship that is best for you and it prohibits your partner from the same. There are women/men who are happy with an open relationship.... Joon for example. Find someone like that if that is what you want, but don't be a sneeky, cowardly dick who has sex on the side knowing the more 'permanent' partner would not be happy with the situation if they knew about it.
Of course you could also tell her you are staying with me - then you are guaranteed not to have sex with a nubile young thing. Do you like television?
That's no big deal, Violet. I was just curious as to why I got name-dropped, but I guess that it is due to perceptions and assumptions built on my expressed opinions on this forum, especially as I agree with you on that following bit:violet wrote:violet wrote:My apologies. I was referring to where you have written on here that you would be OK with an open relationship. Perhaps I have incorrectly recalled the nuance of the comment. I will try to find it. I also was under the impression from comments on here that you do 'do' relationships. Relationships. Short, long whatever. I wasn't referring to marriage. Even one night is referred to a one night relationshipJoon wrote:Yeah.... I'm not sure why I got name-dropped as the poster child for open relationships...Miguelito wrote:violet wrote:There are women/men who are happy with an open relationship.... Joon for example.
Hmm, is that so?
I don't even do "relationships" as it is conventionally understood.
yeah, maybe I misread/remembered incorrectly based on whatever G&T read or based on G&T's comment.
http://www.khmer440.com/chat_forum/view ... start=6924Joon wrote:I honestly don't know where you got that from since I very rarely talked openly and publicly about my marriage, and even less on K440.Gin&Tonic wrote:As for you Joon. I remember when you first came along Khmer440. You said something like you were happy with your open relationship with your husband because he was a good father to your child(ren). Is that still the case?
However, I did mention something about commitment on CEO, and that didn't mean it was all happy-clappy.
I also did say on this forum that I adhere to "relationship anarchy", that is different from "open relationship," which I do not mind but is not for me (because I don't want to be "in a relationship"as it is traditionally conceived, anyway.)What is the point of a relationship where you cannot be you and you have to lie/deceive/omit information? That prohibits you from having a relationship that is best for you and it prohibits your partner from the same. There are women/men who are happy with an open relationship
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I enjoy both of your perspectives on life... especially because you seem to be secure enough within yourselves to express your thoughts and feelings.Joon wrote:That's no big deal, Violet. I was just curious as to why I got name-dropped, but I guess that it is due to perceptions and assumptions built on my expressed opinions on this forum, especially as I agree with you on that following bit:violet wrote:violet wrote:My apologies. I was referring to where you have written on here that you would be OK with an open relationship. Perhaps I have incorrectly recalled the nuance of the comment. I will try to find it. I also was under the impression from comments on here that you do 'do' relationships. Relationships. Short, long whatever. I wasn't referring to marriage. Even one night is referred to a one night relationshipJoon wrote:Yeah.... I'm not sure why I got name-dropped as the poster child for open relationships...Miguelito wrote:violet wrote:There are women/men who are happy with an open relationship.... Joon for example.
Hmm, is that so?
I don't even do "relationships" as it is conventionally understood.
yeah, maybe I misread/remembered incorrectly based on whatever G&T read or based on G&T's comment.
http://www.khmer440.com/chat_forum/view ... start=6924Joon wrote:I honestly don't know where you got that from since I very rarely talked openly and publicly about my marriage, and even less on K440.Gin&Tonic wrote:As for you Joon. I remember when you first came along Khmer440. You said something like you were happy with your open relationship with your husband because he was a good father to your child(ren). Is that still the case?
However, I did mention something about commitment on CEO, and that didn't mean it was all happy-clappy.
I also did say on this forum that I adhere to "relationship anarchy", that is different from "open relationship," which I do not mind but is not for me (because I don't want to be "in a relationship"as it is traditionally conceived, anyway.)What is the point of a relationship where you cannot be you and you have to lie/deceive/omit information? That prohibits you from having a relationship that is best for you and it prohibits your partner from the same. There are women/men who are happy with an open relationship
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violet wrote:posting on this forum? not many, as has already been stated, howeverracontuer wrote:" There are women/men who are happy with an open relationship" Maybe another topic, but how many men are cool with there GIRLFRIEND shagging other dudes? I could not imagine....violet wrote:I will also say grow some balls but from a slightly different perspective. Be respectful also.
What I mean is... if you are going to come to Cambodia and have sexual relations with others while in a relationship with someone, tell them that is what you are going to do. Don't be a coward and do it behind her/his back. If you are unable to be that open and honest, she/he doesn't deserve you either. If the person chooses to leave you because that behaviour does not sit well with them, that is best for you and it is best for them.
What is the point of a relationship where you cannot be you and you have to lie/deceive/omit information? That prohibits you from having a relationship that is best for you and it prohibits your partner from the same. There are women/men who are happy with an open relationship.... Joon for example. Find someone like that if that is what you want, but don't be a sneeky, cowardly dick who has sex on the side knowing the more 'permanent' partner would not be happy with the situation if they knew about it.
a) K440 active posters do not accurately reflect the wider world.
b) yes, I understand that hiccup, however.... there are FEMALES who are may accept it (if you have enough dosh .... think Melania Trump) ... 'happy' as in they will turn a blind eye. I believe Joon would not be ok with a biased open relationship.
c) Felg had two girls living with him (and having sex with him) ... there's always the bi-angle to an open relationship
d) I could go on but can't be arsed
Sure there are exceptions... But a truly open relationship, few and far between is my opinion... One imagines a few percent of either sex could get down with it...
"What is the point of a relationship where you cannot be you and you have to lie/deceive/omit information."
Same as living your own life. Be honest with yourself first. If you don't do that, all your relationships will fail.
Same as living your own life. Be honest with yourself first. If you don't do that, all your relationships will fail.
If you don't know where you're going, any road takes you there.
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True that. Relationships fail repeatedly for other reasons too.David L wrote:"What is the point of a relationship where you cannot be you and you have to lie/deceive/omit information."
Same as living your own life. Be honest with yourself first. If you don't do that, all your relationships will fail.
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