Blackmail by Cambodian woman
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Blackmail by Cambodian woman
I have a major problem that I need help with.
I taught in Thailand from 2001-04 before returning home to work and then got married in 2008. My wife and I have two kids. Last year i visited thailand without my wife on work trip and also went to Cambodia for one week.
I met a girl at the beer garden in Pnom Penh and took her to Sihanoukville for a few days. We got along well and I added her on facebook. I have many facebook friends including Thai women and its no prob. At the end I gave this girl $50 per day then she asked for $100 per day (saying $50 for daytime and $50 for nighttime every day) but she accepted $50 total per day and seemed OK with that.
I’m home six weeks and get message from her out of the blue saying I owe her $200. I ignored it.
Last week I got a very threatening message from her asking for $1,000 or else she will message my family on FB and tell them we had sex and send them her photos of us from the beach. The photos are not porn but in one photo she sent she is sitting in my lap in a bikini and hugging on me at the beach and if my wife sees that I am fucked. Another photo is a selfie she took in my hotel room and my luggage is behind her with my shirt on top of it.
She knows I am married and has seen photos of my kids and wife on FB. She also knows the names and facebook profiles of my wife, my mom and two brothers and one of my sisters because we have same last name.
I unfriended her and blocked her but she made a new account and sent my family’s names again and told me she will message them photos soon. I wrote back and offered her the $200 and asked how to send it but now she is saying it must be $3,000 because I waste her time or she will message them!
Someone may be helping her write the messages now. Her English in the new account is better and different from before and now she is calling me “Sir” and the last message mentioned God and had the word adultery and her English is not that good.
What should I do? If I send $3,000 she will just ask for more right? It will not end. I never heard of this happening in Thailand. Please help with any ideas.
I taught in Thailand from 2001-04 before returning home to work and then got married in 2008. My wife and I have two kids. Last year i visited thailand without my wife on work trip and also went to Cambodia for one week.
I met a girl at the beer garden in Pnom Penh and took her to Sihanoukville for a few days. We got along well and I added her on facebook. I have many facebook friends including Thai women and its no prob. At the end I gave this girl $50 per day then she asked for $100 per day (saying $50 for daytime and $50 for nighttime every day) but she accepted $50 total per day and seemed OK with that.
I’m home six weeks and get message from her out of the blue saying I owe her $200. I ignored it.
Last week I got a very threatening message from her asking for $1,000 or else she will message my family on FB and tell them we had sex and send them her photos of us from the beach. The photos are not porn but in one photo she sent she is sitting in my lap in a bikini and hugging on me at the beach and if my wife sees that I am fucked. Another photo is a selfie she took in my hotel room and my luggage is behind her with my shirt on top of it.
She knows I am married and has seen photos of my kids and wife on FB. She also knows the names and facebook profiles of my wife, my mom and two brothers and one of my sisters because we have same last name.
I unfriended her and blocked her but she made a new account and sent my family’s names again and told me she will message them photos soon. I wrote back and offered her the $200 and asked how to send it but now she is saying it must be $3,000 because I waste her time or she will message them!
Someone may be helping her write the messages now. Her English in the new account is better and different from before and now she is calling me “Sir” and the last message mentioned God and had the word adultery and her English is not that good.
What should I do? If I send $3,000 she will just ask for more right? It will not end. I never heard of this happening in Thailand. Please help with any ideas.
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deepintrouble wrote:I have a major problem that I need help with.
I taught in Thailand from 2001-04 before returning home to work and then got married in 2008. My wife and I have two kids. Last year i visited thailand without my wife on work trip and also went to Cambodia for one week.
I met a girl at the beer garden in Pnom Penh and took her to Sihanoukville for a few days. We got along well and I added her on facebook. I have many facebook friends including Thai women and its no prob. At the end I gave this girl $50 per day then she asked for $100 per day (saying $50 for daytime and $50 for nighttime every day) but she accepted $50 total per day and seemed OK with that.
I’m home six weeks and get message from her out of the blue saying I owe her $200. I ignored it.
Last week I got a very threatening message from her asking for $1,000 or else she will message my family on FB and tell them we had sex and send them her photos of us from the beach. The photos are not porn but in one photo she sent she is sitting in my lap in a bikini and hugging on me at the beach and if my wife sees that I am fucked. Another photo is a selfie she took in my hotel room and my luggage is behind her with my shirt on top of it.
She knows I am married and has seen photos of my kids and wife on FB. She also knows the names and facebook profiles of my wife, my mom and two brothers and one of my sisters because we have same last name.
I unfriended her and blocked her but she made a new account and sent my family’s names again and told me she will message them photos soon. I wrote back and offered her the $200 and asked how to send it but now she is saying it must be $3,000 because I waste her time or she will message them!
Someone may be helping her write the messages now. Her English in the new account is better and different from before and now she is calling me “Sir” and the last message mentioned God and had the word adultery and her English is not that good.
What should I do? If I send $3,000 she will just ask for more right? It will not end. I never heard of this happening in Thailand. Please help with any ideas.
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The problem with the world is stupidity. I'm not saying there should be a capital punishment for stupidity, but why don't we just take the safety labels off of everything and let the problem solve itself?
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I knew a guy who did similar things, but he always had fake e-mails and FB profiles as well as burner phones. As soon as the thing ended the girls were blocked and deleted.
I don't really want to ask, "How could you have been so stupid?" but ...
The only way to deal with extortion is to come clean. You are right that this girl will always keep bleeding you for money with threats. She's obviously not honorable. I wonder however if you can find out about Cambodian extortion laws and threaten her with it. (still hard to do much from abroad, not to mention nothing moves legally without a lot of $$) I know in the US it is very illegal. Did you keep records of the chats before you deleted them?
Too bad you don't have nudes of her to fight fire with fire.
I don't really want to ask, "How could you have been so stupid?" but ...
The only way to deal with extortion is to come clean. You are right that this girl will always keep bleeding you for money with threats. She's obviously not honorable. I wonder however if you can find out about Cambodian extortion laws and threaten her with it. (still hard to do much from abroad, not to mention nothing moves legally without a lot of $$) I know in the US it is very illegal. Did you keep records of the chats before you deleted them?
Too bad you don't have nudes of her to fight fire with fire.
The problem with the world is stupidity. I'm not saying there should be a capital punishment for stupidity, but why don't we just take the safety labels off of everything and let the problem solve itself?
Classic Khmer440 fodder from a first time poster which suggests BS to me.
However, if this is indeed a genuine appeal for help, I will offer you this. I have absolutely no sympathy for you whatsoever, and the pain you are going to endure by fucking around on your wife won't be enough punishment as far as I'm concerned. I do feel for your wife though for having married such a weak, selfish cunt who has now put in jeopardy the future happiness of his children. You're a piss of shit and can go fuck your self for betraying your family in such a way. May your torment be long and painful. May your wife realize soon what a cunt you are and be able to bring into her and your children's life a gender role model that understands what it actually takes to be a man
However, if this is indeed a genuine appeal for help, I will offer you this. I have absolutely no sympathy for you whatsoever, and the pain you are going to endure by fucking around on your wife won't be enough punishment as far as I'm concerned. I do feel for your wife though for having married such a weak, selfish cunt who has now put in jeopardy the future happiness of his children. You're a piss of shit and can go fuck your self for betraying your family in such a way. May your torment be long and painful. May your wife realize soon what a cunt you are and be able to bring into her and your children's life a gender role model that understands what it actually takes to be a man
"That was probably Londo...He is always shitty." - Marvin
I would tell your wife that she needs an AIDS test, pack a suitcase, take whatever cash there is available, and move to Moldovia. Open a factory making knee length t-shirts with 'Keep This Over It' written upside down on the front, and resort to onanism.
Otherwise you should be fine.
Otherwise you should be fine.
Fookin 'ell. We've got Catholics on here?Londo wrote:Classic Khmer440 fodder from a first time poster which suggests BS to me.
However, if this is indeed a genuine appeal for help, I will offer you this. I have absolutely no sympathy for you whatsoever, and the pain you are going to endure by fucking around on your wife won't be enough punishment as far as I'm concerned. I do feel for your wife though for having married such a weak, selfish cunt who has now put in jeopardy the future happiness of his children. You're a piss of shit and can go fuck your self for betraying your family in such a way. May your torment be long and painful. May your wife realize soon what a cunt you are and be able to bring into her and your children's life a gender role model that understands what it actually takes to be a man
What's a piss of shit? Some kind of bowel cancer?
You don't know that his wife isn't being spit roasted by the pizza delivery dude and next doors gardener boy. Don't be so judgemental.
It's only sex. That's why you're here.
I suspect you're right, but anyway I suggest anyone in that same situation pay up. And when the next demand for hush money comes he pay that too. And then pay again and continue to pay. That's the best solution for this numpty troll or any whoremongering married doofus who adds whores to his Facebook page.Londo wrote:Classic Khmer440 fodder from a first time poster which suggests BS to me.
"The final straw actually involved my mortal enemy vladimir, who you may or may not know is an insufferable, overposting asshat."
Agree with Londo and PPP. If you are married and have kids, don't cheat, full stop. It doesn't even matter if blackmail is involved, you don't do that.
If I were in your shoes, I would confess to my wife and ask her forgiveness. If she refuses, that is her right. If she accepts, she could help with repairing your other relationships.
You always have to live with the consequences of your actions.
If I were in your shoes, I would confess to my wife and ask her forgiveness. If she refuses, that is her right. If she accepts, she could help with repairing your other relationships.
You always have to live with the consequences of your actions.
If you don't know where you're going, any road takes you there.
I know a religion that preaches something similar.Londo wrote:Classic Khmer440 fodder from a first time poster which suggests BS to me.
However, if this is indeed a genuine appeal for help, I will offer you this. I have absolutely no sympathy for you whatsoever, and the pain you are going to endure by fucking around on your wife won't be enough punishment as far as I'm concerned. I do feel for your wife though for having married such a weak, selfish cunt who has now put in jeopardy the future happiness of his children. You're a piss of shit and can go fuck your self for betraying your family in such a way. May your torment be long and painful. May your wife realize soon what a cunt you are and be able to bring into her and your children's life a gender role model that understands what it actually takes to be a man
Didn't know you followed Sharia Law.
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Another very good reason to tighten down your FB and especially your friends list.
The problem with the world is stupidity. I'm not saying there should be a capital punishment for stupidity, but why don't we just take the safety labels off of everything and let the problem solve itself?
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My friend list is private. My wife and sister commented on some of my photos and also my wife has photos of us on her page.
The blackmailer has Filipino or Nigerian friends helping her. Don't pay up and come clean, or get a divorce.
Or escalate. Threaten her to find her again and send her a pic of a mutilated girl or something to make her think it wouldn't be a good idea to fuck with you. it must be credible. If you're a big softie, or perceived as such, you're fucked.
Or escalate. Threaten her to find her again and send her a pic of a mutilated girl or something to make her think it wouldn't be a good idea to fuck with you. it must be credible. If you're a big softie, or perceived as such, you're fucked.
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If I was you, I would do a preemptive strike if you feel that your wife would go crazy. Go see a lawyer and set things up so that when TSHTF you are prepared. Perhaps move money and accounts around as necessary. Stall the girl, even if you need to tell her you are going to send the money. You could tell your wife you are separating and then move out before she boots you first. This will give you the upper-hand and not having to be on the defensive.
If the issue comes up, it doesn't have to be the main issue of the breakup and you can tell her on your own terms.
If you do split up, it sort of disarms the whole thing, you can tell the girl you are getting a divorce and you don't care.
If the issue comes up, it doesn't have to be the main issue of the breakup and you can tell her on your own terms.
If you do split up, it sort of disarms the whole thing, you can tell the girl you are getting a divorce and you don't care.
The problem with the world is stupidity. I'm not saying there should be a capital punishment for stupidity, but why don't we just take the safety labels off of everything and let the problem solve itself?
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I think that the best thing to do with extortion is to not even acknowledge it even once, and to obliterate the person out of your life. Then, just in case, batten down the hatches and prepare for a possible storm.
The problem with the world is stupidity. I'm not saying there should be a capital punishment for stupidity, but why don't we just take the safety labels off of everything and let the problem solve itself?
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