violet wrote:Tano wrote:Sex should be freely exchanged between two people not because there is some form of material interest involved on either side, but because the parties feel attracted to one another in that way.
Girls do not seek reward in terms of money from males who are perceived by them as BEING ABLE TO LIVE WITHOUT THEM easily. When women sense that from a male - they offer sex without strings.
Again, it is simple, but most guys miss this part. In other words.. do not be beguiled by a female, and she is yours.
Confidence in Self is all it takes.
I've re-read these sentences a number of times and can't quite work out what you are saying. Translation anyone?
My take on this post is a follows:
People will have a relationship with you for one of two reasons.
1) To obtain financial support / security,,,. A need to secure their future by associating with some one who is a good provider. They are attracted to you because they can manipulate your need for company and your willingness to exchange their company for long term support being both financial and physical.
2) You don't display a need for their company and cannot be managed / manipulated into exchanging sex support, in this instance because they have nothing to gain from spending time with you, their motives, should they choose to spend time with you, are because they are attracted to you and not to secure a financial or ongoing support or financial gain.
I refuse to go out with nothing more than a whimper followed by a small farting sound and a shit stain on my bed sheets..
Just thought I'd share that with you.