Creepy or not?
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Creepy or not?
Our family has a regular meal at a well-known Riverside restaurant which we usually always thoroughly enjoy. Unfortunately, in the last fortnight, something has been upsetting our meals.
The first time, I just thought it was a Barang father with his adopted daughter doing a little homework and playing on the iPad. I didn't pay it too much mind at the time (I've read the threads on here about fathers and daughters etc being victimised unjustly) but I couldn't help noticing that he was all over her, mentally and physically.
About a week later at roughly the same time (early evening), he arrived alone, and sat down. The same girl (approximately 10 y.o.) emerged from the kitchen and assumed her regular position, standing between his legs, and straddling him at times. With his arms engulfing her on both sides, he proceeded to tutor her, talking closely into her ear and touching her unnecessarily at every opportunity. He was so engaged with the girl he seemed oblivious to his surroundings. His excitement was so palpable I felt creeped out.
So he appears to be her tutor and is clearly not her father. The way he was touching her was OTT for a father-daughter relationship, and beyond the pale of all human decency for a tutor-student relationship.
I don't want to go there for another meal with my wife and kid and watch the same show all over again. Maybe I'm over-reacting, but my wife agrees with me. What do you think? What would you do? Creepy or not?
The first time, I just thought it was a Barang father with his adopted daughter doing a little homework and playing on the iPad. I didn't pay it too much mind at the time (I've read the threads on here about fathers and daughters etc being victimised unjustly) but I couldn't help noticing that he was all over her, mentally and physically.
About a week later at roughly the same time (early evening), he arrived alone, and sat down. The same girl (approximately 10 y.o.) emerged from the kitchen and assumed her regular position, standing between his legs, and straddling him at times. With his arms engulfing her on both sides, he proceeded to tutor her, talking closely into her ear and touching her unnecessarily at every opportunity. He was so engaged with the girl he seemed oblivious to his surroundings. His excitement was so palpable I felt creeped out.
So he appears to be her tutor and is clearly not her father. The way he was touching her was OTT for a father-daughter relationship, and beyond the pale of all human decency for a tutor-student relationship.
I don't want to go there for another meal with my wife and kid and watch the same show all over again. Maybe I'm over-reacting, but my wife agrees with me. What do you think? What would you do? Creepy or not?
Don't mention the Giant Panda in the room.
I wouldn't be able to enjoy my meal with that creepy shit going on so would need to approach him and briefly discuss violet's violence /violent violence concept with him.
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You should probably proceed carefully, if at all.
There's a decent chance you are over reacting and he is the child's father.
Was he touching the child intimately, or just using more physical contact than you are comfortable with? If the former I would call the abuse hotline and make a report. If the latter Id leave them be.
There's a decent chance you are over reacting and he is the child's father.
Was he touching the child intimately, or just using more physical contact than you are comfortable with? If the former I would call the abuse hotline and make a report. If the latter Id leave them be.
OK,
This is a difficult situation as we have to rely on your perceptions of what is going on and how you express it.
I've never met Marvin so cannot post a first hand experience of how he sees and interacts with the world around him.
However from his posts and discussions on this forum I'd says he's a well rounded person who will call a spade a spade.
I don't have this knowledge, but other posters will provide the information on who to contact if you honestly believe something is wrong.
If you can, take a photo or two and then give the info to others to investigate.
If it's on riverside, then I'm sure several other members will be able to identify the establishment you were eating at and also pass comment on what is happening.
This is a difficult situation as we have to rely on your perceptions of what is going on and how you express it.
I've never met Marvin so cannot post a first hand experience of how he sees and interacts with the world around him.
However from his posts and discussions on this forum I'd says he's a well rounded person who will call a spade a spade.
I don't have this knowledge, but other posters will provide the information on who to contact if you honestly believe something is wrong.
If you can, take a photo or two and then give the info to others to investigate.
If it's on riverside, then I'm sure several other members will be able to identify the establishment you were eating at and also pass comment on what is happening.
I refuse to go out with nothing more than a whimper followed by a small farting sound and a shit stain on my bed sheets..
Just thought I'd share that with you.
Just thought I'd share that with you.
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Totally creepy. I have a 5yo daughter and the situation decribed makes me sick in the stomach.
That being said it isn't uncommon for a little girl to fall in love with a "caring" male stranger even if she can feel something is at odd. It is normally up to the parents to react so WTF are they doing ?
I don't know how I would react as a witness to such a situation but surely couldn't stand the show
That being said it isn't uncommon for a little girl to fall in love with a "caring" male stranger even if she can feel something is at odd. It is normally up to the parents to react so WTF are they doing ?
I don't know how I would react as a witness to such a situation but surely couldn't stand the show
Barang_doa_slae wrote:Totally creepy. I have a 5yo daughter and the situation decribed makes me sick in the stomach.
That being said it isn't uncommon for a little girl to fall in love with a "caring" male stranger even if she can feel something is at odd. It is normally up to the parents to react so WTF are they doing ?
I don't know how I would react as a witness to such a situation but surely couldn't stand the show
"WTF are her parents doing" was my first thought.
And where does their responsibility and involvement in this become a contributing factor.
I refuse to go out with nothing more than a whimper followed by a small farting sound and a shit stain on my bed sheets..
Just thought I'd share that with you.
Just thought I'd share that with you.
Based on what ?Marvin wrote:.
So he appears to be her tutor and is clearly not her father. ?
What......exactly......does being all over someone mentally actually look like ?
Maybe he is seperated from the mother who works in the kitchen and takes the kid to work.
Maybe he takes the small time he has with her to help her learn.
Maybe he is just affectionate and maybe you grew up hugging a lump of coal ( jokes )
Why don't you get your ( khmer ? ) missus to casually engage the other staff one day ;
" oh he seems to love his daughter so much....where is her mother ?"
Cue;
" Mother is the chef / dishwasher / waitress"
or
"oh that is not his daughter , he just likes her / tutors her "
Right now there is a lot of ASSumption going on.
Last edited by ricecakes on Sun Jun 04, 2017 1:20 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Rated R for Ricecakes
Just for the sake of the discussion, lets assume that original perceptions are correct.
The actions of the parents in allowing and promoting this abuse to occur leaves me gasping for air.
They would be first on my hit list.
The actions of the parents in allowing and promoting this abuse to occur leaves me gasping for air.
They would be first on my hit list.
I refuse to go out with nothing more than a whimper followed by a small farting sound and a shit stain on my bed sheets..
Just thought I'd share that with you.
Just thought I'd share that with you.
In reply to Ricecakes and Jackal.
I fully understand your reply.
I have two step children in Cambodia.
If they were in Oz,
I'd take them to the beach, the local pool or just walks in town and show them affection by hugs, kisses.
I'd hold their hand as we walked down the street.
Doing that in Cambodia has led to frowns and other comments that have lead to a few sharp words in the street with a final "FUCK OFF YOU STUPID WHITE CUNT ...., " issued by me.
That's why I said in my initial comment, it's difficult to reply as different people have different perceptions of what is going on.
But I will back Marvin on this, I doubt he is the type of person to imagine what is going on.
I fully understand your reply.
I have two step children in Cambodia.
If they were in Oz,
I'd take them to the beach, the local pool or just walks in town and show them affection by hugs, kisses.
I'd hold their hand as we walked down the street.
Doing that in Cambodia has led to frowns and other comments that have lead to a few sharp words in the street with a final "FUCK OFF YOU STUPID WHITE CUNT ...., " issued by me.
That's why I said in my initial comment, it's difficult to reply as different people have different perceptions of what is going on.
But I will back Marvin on this, I doubt he is the type of person to imagine what is going on.
I refuse to go out with nothing more than a whimper followed by a small farting sound and a shit stain on my bed sheets..
Just thought I'd share that with you.
Just thought I'd share that with you.
Marvin, what kind of age group was the guy?Marvin wrote:Our family has a regular meal at a well-known Riverside restaurant which we usually always thoroughly enjoy. Unfortunately, in the last fortnight, something has been upsetting our meals.
The first time, I just thought it was a Barang father with his adopted daughter doing a little homework and playing on the iPad. I didn't pay it too much mind at the time (I've read the threads on here about fathers and daughters etc being victimised unjustly) but I couldn't help noticing that he was all over her, mentally and physically.
About a week later at roughly the same time (early evening), he arrived alone, and sat down. The same girl (approximately 10 y.o.) emerged from the kitchen and assumed her regular position, standing between his legs, and straddling him at times. With his arms engulfing her on both sides, he proceeded to tutor her, talking closely into her ear and touching her unnecessarily at every opportunity. He was so engaged with the girl he seemed oblivious to his surroundings. His excitement was so palpable I felt creeped out.
So he appears to be her tutor and is clearly not her father. The way he was touching her was OTT for a father-daughter relationship, and beyond the pale of all human decency for a tutor-student relationship.
I don't want to go there for another meal with my wife and kid and watch the same show all over again. Maybe I'm over-reacting, but my wife agrees with me. What do you think? What would you do? Creepy or not?
I ask, because this sounds like someone I saw sitting at Captain Chim's here in the Pot about 2 weeks ago. Young Khmer girl maybe 8-10 years old, Older man, probably into his 60's - skinny white guy.
She was playing on his iPhone/smartphone and he was being super touchy-feely with her. Creeped the hell out of me and some friends.
We got the staff to stop serving him.
Def from out of (our) town.
Yep, cos there is definitely no pervs from "the pot"drifter wrote: Def from out of (our) town.
Rated R for Ricecakes
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