Marmite. You would not believe the shit that goes down in a custody case. It's all about 'win' and get the children and all the money, or 'lose' and live as a pauper just working to pay to ex wife and children.Pu Li wrote:You have clearly never been involved in a custody case.Marmite wrote:I can live with that. It's nowhere near as self indulgent as kidnapping a child for two years because I feel hard done by, or killing myself at a school and leaving behind a wife and child who relied on me to support and love them.
Self-indulgent? He killed himself because he's self-indulgent? Do you know how absurd that reads?
How did the child feel? Daddy or told to live with Mummy? It's for the best......from a fucking social worker. Have you met any? Few males.
I'd quit while you're behind mate.
How old are your kids?
I assume you are rational. If so, then you cannot compare your judgement and what you think is correct with those actions of a suicidal man.
Furthermore, I do not believe it criminally possible to kidnap your own child. This was almost certainly a story put out by the mother. The child was not abducted or held against her will. For all we know she chose to be with her dad. One can't believe what is said or written, especially when we only have the mother's side.