I'm dating a Cambodian Woman in LYON - GoldDigger or no ?

[Lucky Lucan]

I thought it seemed reasonable enough, considering the lady in question never asked for money, but the ring thing sounded a bit ridiculous. Then this slight problem with immigration status comes up. It doesn't sound like the OP is rich enough to attract a gold-digger if he's worried about a few grand's worth of jewelry.

And I tried before to tell her I want sex immediately if no I stop all. She prefer tell me : ok stop.

You seem like a very well-rounded and empathetic individual who shows a deep care for this woman and a great understanding of Cambodian culture....

[guillaume382]

I thought it seemed reasonable enough, considering the lady in question never asked for money, but the ring thing sounded a bit ridiculous. Then this slight problem with immigration status comes up. It doesn't sound like the OP is rich enough to attract a gold-digger if he's worried about a few grand's worth of jewelry.

And I tried before to tell her I want sex immediately if no I stop all. She prefer tell me : ok stop.

You seem like a very well-rounded and empathetic individual who shows a deep care for this woman and a great understanding of Cambodian culture....

Are you kidding me ? Because Yes I talk bad to her, but this is because there are a lot of things strange for me. I would emphasize the fact that her sister want manage this wedding, ring price, buy ring in Cambodia, invite 90% people KHMER, my girlfriend never want come here, sister and my girlfriend fight a lot..

It is like my girlfriend pay for come here, and now she is in Jail.

[pedros]

I don't want that. And I think she lies a lot too.

she tell me she work for Cambodia, not personnal work like TUK TUK drivers.. She tells me she work 7h-11h.. 300$ a month.. and when she was sick, she earned the same, because Cambodia pay for her.
She tell me she eat BIO (good food) before, and she can pay person to help her to cook and clean home (father's home legacy)

Well a teacher would get around $2-300 a month depending on level and years of service, and they do get sick leave/moonlighting in other jobs payment + pension. But once you go off the books, that's all gone. You can't be a state teacher, leave the profession for a time and go.back into it again easily.

[gavinmac]

Who is paying for the brothers to fly to France for the wedding?

And why is the sister contributing 4000 euros to improve the ring? Do you have to pay her back for that?

[guillaume382]

I don't want that. And I think she lies a lot too.

she tell me she work for Cambodia, not personnal work like TUK TUK drivers.. She tells me she work 7h-11h.. 300$ a month.. and when she was sick, she earned the same, because Cambodia pay for her.
She tell me she eat BIO (good food) before, and she can pay person to help her to cook and clean home (father's home legacy)

Well a teacher would get around $2-300 a month depending on level and years of service, and they do get sick leave/moonlighting in other jobs payment + pension. But once you go off the books, that's all gone. You can't be a state teacher, leave the profession for a time and go.back into it again easily.

Yes I know now she can't go back and have a job. And I think if she go back now, she is very poor because unemployed !
So she doesn't lie.

[guillaume382]

Who is paying for the brothers to fly to France for the wedding?

And why is the sister contributing 4000 euros to improve the ring? Do you have to pay her back for that?

1/ I think her sister pay, and maybe her brothers participate a bit.. not sure.. She told me that her brothers will visite paris, and italie, and I think she wants me and her sister pay for them.
Because she tell me it is family. And she tell me that afterward if I go Cambodia, I can stay her brothers rooms and pay only a bit.... But !! She told me also, stay 2weeks in Cambodia needs like 5000€ !
Maybe I miss something !

2/ Someone tell me : I pay 5000 and sister pay 4000 = 9000. In Cambodia, it is possible to sell it like 90% of total price. That means that she can get 8100€ back. So she give her sister 4000€ back and 2100€ for her and 2100€ for sis. Maybe wrong, but someone tell me it is possible like this.

[pedros]

$9000 would get you a very nice holiday in cambodia with younger ladies who'd put out.

[MONEYBACKGUARANTEE]

I thought it seemed reasonable enough, considering the lady in question never asked for money, but the ring thing sounded a bit ridiculous. Then this slight problem with immigration status comes up. It doesn't sound like the OP is rich enough to attract a gold-digger if he's worried about a few grand's worth of jewelry.

And I tried before to tell her I want sex immediately if no I stop all. She prefer tell me : ok stop.

You seem like a very well-rounded and empathetic individual who shows a deep care for this woman and a great understanding of Cambodian culture....

I'm sorry but the "no sex before marriage because I'm conservative" thing becomes a bit ridiculous after a certain point; certainly after 30, and this woman is 34. It's one thing to play that game when you're a teenager but...34? Let's get real. If she was really that conservative, she'd already be married with kids and still in the homeland.

[guillaume382]

I thought it seemed reasonable enough, considering the lady in question never asked for money, but the ring thing sounded a bit ridiculous. Then this slight problem with immigration status comes up. It doesn't sound like the OP is rich enough to attract a gold-digger if he's worried about a few grand's worth of jewelry.

And I tried before to tell her I want sex immediately if no I stop all. She prefer tell me : ok stop.

You seem like a very well-rounded and empathetic individual who shows a deep care for this woman and a great understanding of Cambodian culture....

I'm sorry but the "no sex before marriage because I'm conservative" thing becomes a bit ridiculous after a certain point; certainly after 30, and this woman is 34. It's one thing to play that game when you're a teenager but...34? Let's get real. If she was really that conservative, she'd already be married with kids and still in the homeland.

You are totally right ! Someone tell me they marry very young, like 18. And have children young too.

Any ideas of how I can test her if she lies or no?

[MONEYBACKGUARANTEE]

Any ideas of how I can test her if she lies or no?

Guillaume, I think you already know the truth, deep down in your heart. Be very careful.

[guillaume382]

Any ideas of how I can test her if she lies or no?

Guillaume, I think you already know the truth, deep down in your heart. Be very careful.

Yes, and now I need to accept it !

[Lucky Lucan]

1/ I think her sister pay, and maybe her brothers participate a bit.. not sure.. She told me that her brothers will visite paris, and italie, and I think she wants me and her sister pay for them.
Because she tell me it is family. And she tell me that afterward if I go Cambodia, I can stay her brothers rooms and pay only a bit.... But !! She told me also, stay 2weeks in Cambodia needs like 5000€ !
Maybe I miss something !

It sounds like a good deal, if the brothers will let you stay in their wooden stilt house in the boonies for only a few hundred a week. Then you'll avoid the $2500 minimum a week it costs to stay in this overpriced country. You got yourself a keeper there.

[guillaume382]

1/ I think her sister pay, and maybe her brothers participate a bit.. not sure.. She told me that her brothers will visite paris, and italie, and I think she wants me and her sister pay for them.
Because she tell me it is family. And she tell me that afterward if I go Cambodia, I can stay her brothers rooms and pay only a bit.... But !! She told me also, stay 2weeks in Cambodia needs like 5000€ !
Maybe I miss something !

It sounds like a good deal, if the brothers will let you stay in their wooden stilt house in the boonies for only a few hundred a week. Then you'll avoid the $2500 minimum a week it costs to stay in this overpriced country. You got yourself a keeper there.

I'm french and maybe miss something. You mean good or bad thing ?

[logos]

The ring business sounds fishy and yes, it probably covers airfare for 2. The busybody elder sister should be told to mind her own business. She's in France and Cambodian nonsense doesn't apply.