I'm dating a Cambodian Woman in LYON - GoldDigger or no ?
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Just trying to explain you her behaviour because you say you don't understand her.guillaume382 wrote:you mean she is maybe a good girl not here for money and papier ??Marinaris wrote:Because that's cambodian culture, you do not simply reject your own blood.guillaume382 wrote:When I read you all, I note that I'm blind, because I love her deeply.
I think the best to do is to run away from this.
But I don't understand why her sister and her are fighting a lot and why my girlfriend tell me family very important for her.
I ask her to come with me because her sister ask her cooking, cleaning home, raising her nephew.. and more... but she tells me NO !
She tell me I do good for FRANCE but bad for KHMER. Her sister is her sister, and nobody can change this.
A lot of red flags, and things I don't understand
And yes, she's doing the chores because she's younger, her sister doesn't ask her to pay a rent, it doesn't mean she can be a freeloader, so she repays her big sister by helping her at home. This is not prison, this is just how cambodian are.
Cultural gap is another white flag.
As for her being a good girl, there's too much incoherence on what she's preaching and saying but only you know her therefore can "judge" if she's honest or not.
I'll make it easy for you Guillaume. Plus that might repeal the troll suspicions - or confirm them
Quelques questions et clarifications
1. tu mentionnes qu'elle a une fille ? Erreur de traduction ? "she has a daughter"
2. Comment vous etes vous rencontrés ?
3. Ca fait un an que vous etes ensemble et il ne sést encore quasi rien passé ? Perso j'ai du mal a croire ca. Des lors ou on est considere comme fiances , la porte est ouverte. Si elle pretend le contraire, cést pas bon signe.
4. Si cést du serieux pour toi et que tu veux en savoir plus sur sa famille au cambodge j 'ai des amis qui y habitent et qui peuvent contacter sa famille. Tu peux me contacter en MP.
Quelques questions et clarifications
1. tu mentionnes qu'elle a une fille ? Erreur de traduction ? "she has a daughter"
2. Comment vous etes vous rencontrés ?
3. Ca fait un an que vous etes ensemble et il ne sést encore quasi rien passé ? Perso j'ai du mal a croire ca. Des lors ou on est considere comme fiances , la porte est ouverte. Si elle pretend le contraire, cést pas bon signe.
4. Si cést du serieux pour toi et que tu veux en savoir plus sur sa famille au cambodge j 'ai des amis qui y habitent et qui peuvent contacter sa famille. Tu peux me contacter en MP.
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You guys are a bunch of unoriginal idiots who just shout "Troll!" whenever someone posts here about an unusual relationship with a Cambodian woman.
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OP,guillaume382 wrote:
She tell me she was never marry before, and hence she had never had sex before. Since october she and I never have sex.
The only thing I do is touch her, and lick her... maybe 4 times, no more. In very private.
I can kiss her when we are alone, and she take my hand a lot of time when we walk outside. It is often me asking for kiss her.
She tells she is very shy. For example, she doesn't want show me to KHMER people before marry.
2 times it happened that KHMER people comes (she doesn't know before, because she tells me KHMER no take appointment) and she ask me to hide in bedroom.
At sister's home, she is busy with her nephew because he is 2years old. She cooks a lot and she clean a lot too.
When I'm at home, she doesn't want me to kiss her because she is shy and KHMER tradition not like this. (I can kiss, but a bit and when sister or bro-in-law are not near).
She cares me a lot, and prepare cooking very nicely. But this is hard to see she is such shy near people.
She told me when we marry I can do all with her (sex, kiss, hugs, walk a lot out, etc...).
Now we plan to marry in July (10 months we are dating at this moment) and this is fast for French people. Do you think KHMER girl marry fast ?
She wants a ring like 9000€ (I pay 5000€ and her sister 4000€). I think good if sister pay yes, but I think this is a lot for marry. All KHMER want ring like this ?
I paid 2000€ for ring (February), and her sister do in Cambodia. But now she needs 3000€ more for finish it (need one diamond 1carat).
I take my ring and her ring (not finish) and I ask jeweler the price in France. He told me, my ring is 700€ and her ring (not finish) 2500€ - 3000€.
So she doesn't lie. She tells me the truth. But maybe the price in Cambodia not the same ??? maybe a bit $ ??
The big problem I have with this story, is the fact that her sister angry a lot with me, because I ask ring and ask her I want see bill before pay more.
I ask sister I want take ring and ask jeweler the price. So her sister and I were "fighting". Bad words, and more.
So I decided to go back my home and leave her home but I stayed near the door, and I heard my girlfriend and sister scream and my girldfriend cry.
So I knocked at door, and warn off that I will call police because my girlfriend is like in jail. I ask my girlfriend to follow me but she doesn't want.
I stayed there a lot of time, arguing a lot, talking to sister and my girlfriend.
Then I go back to my car, but her sister call to me on phone, and she was very calm (first time since 3months..).
She told me I need believe her, and stop ask a lot like this. Her ring cost a lot, and I need respect her due to her age (me 30 and her 38).
She told me her sister isn't in jail, and I no need call police because she love her sister...
Next day I met her sister, and we walk out and talk a lot (1 hour). She told me the same. Her sister is not in jail. She screams a lot but she loves her a lot.
Because this is family.. Now I see my girlfriend very sad, and brother in law too. Her sister wants all people do like she wants.
When I talk to brother in law, He never tells me I'm wrong. Whatever I say her wife is bad, she loves money, etc.. etc.. Maybe he is like a ghost now accepting all too.
I precise my girlfriend doesn't ask me for money, but only a good ring. And she wants we save money a lot.
She tells me that KHMER people who come to wedding participate a lot, and she tells me we don't waste money on food.
Sorry, I write a lot.. Thank you for your "help".
Thanks for yours replies.
Guillaume.
You must be absolutely gagging for it with all that no sex before marriage stuff dude.
Until you've come to a decision on whether or not to commit to marriage, can't you just try for abit up the Häagen-Dass just to keep you going mate?
"I don't care what the people are thinking, i ain't drunk i'm just drinking"
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It must be a French thing, this older lady business. I know a nice youngish Frog guy who married a Khmer 8 or 10 years older than him and moved her and daughter from her 1st marriage to Perpignon or somewhere.
Then the current presidente seems to have similar tastes.
Then the current presidente seems to have similar tastes.
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I precise this is not a TROLL. This relationship is unusual, so I ask you what do you think about it...
I am a good man, with a decent job. I'm serious, and believe in marriage.. But I don't want someone play with my feeling..
I Hope you guys understand, and yes maybe I lost my mind..
I made an error in my explications before.. She has 3 brothers and 1 SISTER.
Sorry about it. And yes she says she never had sex before
I am a good man, with a decent job. I'm serious, and believe in marriage.. But I don't want someone play with my feeling..
I Hope you guys understand, and yes maybe I lost my mind..
I made an error in my explications before.. She has 3 brothers and 1 SISTER.
Sorry about it. And yes she says she never had sex before
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How was she able to move from Cambodia to France 3 years ago? What kind of visa?
Is she in France now or back in Cambodia? You say her visa is expired, right?
Is she in France now or back in Cambodia? You say her visa is expired, right?
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1/ She comes here to meet her sister. Her sister get married with a french man here. Sister 38 - Brother-in-law 48gavinmac wrote:How was she able to move from Cambodia to France 3 years ago? What kind of visa?
Is she in France now or back in Cambodia? You say her visa is expired, right?
2/ she is in france since 2014. Her visa is a touristic one. and yes it is expired since at least 3 years
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So she is living in France illegally? If you marry her will she then be able to convert to legal status and become a legal French resident?
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guillaume382 wrote:gavinmac wrote:How was she able to move from Cambodia to France 3 years ago? What kind of visa?
Is she in France now or back in Cambodia? You say her visa is expired, right?
2/ she is in france since 2014. Her visa is a touristic one. and yes it is expired since at least 3 years
That doesn't sound good. Will marriage magic away that issue under french law?
It actually sounds like you hold the cards here. All she's holding is her poom-poom.
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Yes she is living there illegally, and after she can convert to legal status after 5 years living with me.gavinmac wrote:So she is living in France illegally? If you marry her will she then be able to convert to legal status and become a legal French resident?
Our laws change a lot because some people has abused !
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I do good with her, why she doesn't let me have sex with her.. Yes because she knows marriage is important for her and she want to trade sexpedros wrote:guillaume382 wrote:gavinmac wrote:How was she able to move from Cambodia to France 3 years ago? What kind of visa?
Is she in France now or back in Cambodia? You say her visa is expired, right?
2/ she is in france since 2014. Her visa is a touristic one. and yes it is expired since at least 3 years
That doesn't sound good. Will marriage magic away that issue under french law?
It actually sounds like you hold the cards here. All she's holding is her poom-poom.
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