slavedog wrote:I don't know shit about you either but I wouldn't mind betting Lucan isn't far off the mark.
Well he pretty much told us as much himself, and some of his old acquaintances filled in some gaps.
fantasticplanet wrote:Dude, no contest, Filipina. I have an 11 year old son with my Cambodian ex. While we were in Cambodia, she gambled all my money away and then threatened to kill the baby and periodically disappeared with him to get her way. I barely managed to get out of the country with him because I had taken care of all his paperwork. Despite this, I later got her a visa and she came to America. She stayed with us for about 6 months before disappearing. We got legally divorced in America in 2014. And yes, she wasn’t no ‘good girl ‘. I was on Asiandating.com last year and started taking to a nice enough Cambodian ‘good girl ‘ but she needed $10,000 to marry her!
Then I started looking at Filipinas. I got lots of interest, and they weren’t hookers either. I eventually narrowed it down to one and then flew over there to spend time with her. We stayed together for a month and it was just wonderful. I am 45, she’s 33, she’s a widow with 4 kids, I am divorced with just the 1, but it is the kiss of death with American women, they don’t want anything to do with another woman ‘s baby. And of course she’s much better looking than me too, but I am still really appreciated and treated with respect. After living in Cambodia, China, and America, the Philippines was just amazing. People are just genuinely friendly and kind there. It was just what I needed after the cultural warfare of the 2016 election. Now I am in the process of getting visas for her and her kids. Should be by the end of the summer. Simple choice-live in peace, harmony, and love with a Christian Filipina or be exploited and abused by one of the daughters of Pol Pot.
fantasticplanet wrote:The bottom line is, whatever nationality of SE Asian bride you choose, don’t choose a hooker. And that is really the most important advice we can give this guy if he is a SE Asia newbie. To be honest, the $10,000 dowry was what pushed me into making that very bad decision in the past, but no more. My Filipina girl is a housewife, she was before her old man died, then she was dependent on overseas relatives, and then me. I am in contact with her through Facebook everyday. She is a church going, practicing Catholic. Snoop Dogg said it best, you can’t make a ho a housewife. But seriously, although the environment and the people bear superficial resemblances between Cambodia and the Philippines, they couldn’t be more different as people. Cambodians, like mainland Chinese, are deeply traumatized by communism, and are just not people that I choose to have in my life anymore. I wish them the best, but they are all dangerous. These are low trust societies, where everyone is backstabbing each other all the time. Philippines really wasn’t like that for me at all last summer. I have the highest opinion of them.
Peaceman wrote:Now lets consider the personal hypocrisy. You tell us you helped your son';s mother, a Cambodian bar girl, to immigrate to the US where she now lives, and now you intend to do the same to a Philippina girl who you met online. So that is two people you have helped immigrate to the US. At the same time you are applauding a President who is so hard line on immigration that he is tearing children from the arms of their mothers and locking them in cages. A President who wants to build a wall across the Southern border and who has smeared immigrants as rapists and criminals. Do you not see the hypocrisy here , You imported a Cambodian prostitute to live in the US and yet you support a President who is literally ripping immigrant families apart at the border.