LOL@GMJS-440, if I owned..I'd ban Violet ..I know calm the fuck down hear me out, Its a jungle in here and she , the only active female in this leir? is protective of any other bitches come near .yeh Shes the bitch of this Jungle And I love her...so get fucked.GMJS-440 wrote:I thought BSCW was a Miggles sock to get forum traffic up
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BSCW is very coarse and obviously sexually charged. He is not a hater though and doesn't attack much, he just likes to engage people and draw them in. He works well enough when he is kept in one place as in the bat cave, because people that do not have an issue with him can go there and play in it, and the rest of us do not have to see the circus.
He is a useful idiot. I don't think he harms any more than he brings benefit, but, if shit draws flies, he can offer a place for the crazies to take the edge off.
If I owned this forum, I would put him firmly in his place, and any time he ventures out, give him a quick reminder by banning his ass for a time as was the protocol with Scoobie.
It is not BSCW though that makes this place less than it could be. As Pu Li said, he came here for a positive experience and didn't find it; instead a bunch of crusty haters which soured him. I'm sure that's the more typical sentiment, and the powers that be should take note. If no one said that this place was what he had hoped it to be, that doesn't mean it couldn't become that, for the sake of greater good.
He is a useful idiot. I don't think he harms any more than he brings benefit, but, if shit draws flies, he can offer a place for the crazies to take the edge off.
If I owned this forum, I would put him firmly in his place, and any time he ventures out, give him a quick reminder by banning his ass for a time as was the protocol with Scoobie.
It is not BSCW though that makes this place less than it could be. As Pu Li said, he came here for a positive experience and didn't find it; instead a bunch of crusty haters which soured him. I'm sure that's the more typical sentiment, and the powers that be should take note. If no one said that this place was what he had hoped it to be, that doesn't mean it couldn't become that, for the sake of greater good.
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RickyBobby, you signed up , what .3 weeks ago?..Im not suggesting you are (deleted by admin) but you seem to know a hell of a lot. I like you.
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Thx mate. Straight up, you're fine. None of us are perfect, and those that can admit it are better than the rest.Jep wrote:RickyBobby, you signed up , what .3 weeks ago?..Im not suggesting you are (deleted by admin) but you seem to know a hell of a lot. I like you.
Some are here for the pure sport of it. They enjoy the intellectual game of one upmanship and while they are intelligent, its used the wrong way, like that of psychopaths. If I owned this forum, I would cut them out like the cancer they are, with no warning or explanation. These people already know who they are, and I will not stroke their ego's by naming them.
What is a forum supposed to be? What is its purpose? What culture brings the greatest benefit to the most users? If the Admin/Owners can find the answers to these questions and take the steps to implement them, they will have made K440 great again.
Sure, its fun to engage with people especially those who are a bit dorky and can be easily provoked. Shits-n-giggles for the provocateur. For the rest, they just go somewhere else where they don't have to play that game. That's what happened here.
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Right? But it could be. People like you need to speak more. Thanks for sharing.Pu Li wrote:I joined this forum four years ago because I wanted to visit Cambodia. Living in China it would be a breeze to fly in for a few days and I thought I might get some good advance advice about a visit,
Four years on and having that much experience of posters on here on a day to day basis, fucking wild horses wouldn't get me over the border.
The 440 way is to shit on everyone, all day, in the best quantities you can muster. Even dead fellers get it.
There's some exceptions but not enough to sustain a useful, informative and above all friendly cyber community.
That Batshit bloke wants serious psychological attention. So do several, albeit in a shrinking quantity, others.
This isn't a nice place to be if you don't know everyone. Pack it in and start a WeChat group or something. Don't advertise as being a helpful, open and informative website,
It isn't.
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Jep wrote:LOL@GMJS-440, if I owned..I'd ban Violet ..I know calm the fuck down hear me out, Its a jungle in here and she , the only active female in this leir? is protective of any other bitches come near .yeh Shes the bitch of this Jungle And I love her...so get fucked.GMJS-440 wrote:I thought BSCW was a Miggles sock to get forum traffic up
Violet is a valued member of this forum, by me and many others. She has tried hard to play the game, but then got some cracks in her Armour, and tired of it all. She just wants to be real, and has often shown her vulnerabilities. I am glad she's here and I don't know why she persists; I suspect because she is intrigued with how to 'do this forum' and why it seems to work so well for some, it goes so wrong for others. That is the fun part to watch the train wrecks, and it is entertaining, but it promotes troll like behavior.
Violet can fight her own battles and hold her own, but if I owned this forum, I would give her a bit of protection by setting up some boundaries that would benefit all the good people like her so they can be free to post and engage more without it being so combative.
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Ricky Bobby, do you think the other forum has asked itself the same questions? I know different people have different experiences and perspectives and, therefore, when faced with the same questions may have different answers, but how different could they be?
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Pu Li has been a member on here for more than 2 years, posting 400 times which averages nearly 1 post every 2 days.RickyBobby wrote: As Pu Li said, he came here for a positive experience and didn't find it; instead a bunch of crusty haters which soured him.
I'm not sure how long it takes for someone to realise whether a particular forum is suited to their needs or not, but I would think most people do not spend 2 years getting 'soured' by 'crusty haters', in their endeavours to find a 'positive experience' on a dysfunctional internet forum.
As lacking as many say, there is a mine of information on this site via the front page and the search function.
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ADMIN: I know you are reading this forum and that's great.
Please consider making a poll;
Why I come to this forum.
Please consider making a poll;
Why I come to this forum.
- Information
Entertainment
Morbid Fascination
Trolling
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^ OtherRickyBobby wrote:ADMIN: I know you are reading this forum and that's great.
Please consider making a poll;
Why I come to this forum.
Or whatever categories you would find to be useful information. The future of this forum is promoting continued engagement with new people as people fall off you need new blood too. How many have testified that they have been lurking for 2 years without a single post? Why haven't they engaged? I think the answer is obvious.
- Information
Entertainment
Morbid Fascination
Trolling
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I do not know TOF so much, but I am a fixer. My mind likes to ponder problems and solutions. I see a real problem here, and thus an opportunity. TOF was a split from this one, and set up to fix some problems that persisted here. They divorced certain people and behaviors, so I suspect that they fixed some of that, but not so sure, and its not my focus to dwell on it.violet wrote:Ricky Bobby, do you think the other forum has asked itself the same questions? I know different people have different experiences and perspectives and, therefore, when faced with the same questions may have different answers, but how different could they be?
This thread is an opportunity for this community to come together and make some improvements here, which I think anyone left here should welcome. Those that want nothing to change are part of the problem point blank.
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Why be vague? Other is when the list has already been made and you cant find a relevant box to tick? You have a lot more to offer than that. In fact, you are not at this point limited to a list, so why not give me a paragraph please?violet wrote:^ OtherRickyBobby wrote:ADMIN: I know you are reading this forum and that's great.
Please consider making a poll;
Why I come to this forum.
Or whatever categories you would find to be useful information. The future of this forum is promoting continued engagement with new people as people fall off you need new blood too. How many have testified that they have been lurking for 2 years without a single post? Why haven't they engaged? I think the answer is obvious.
- Information
Entertainment
Morbid Fascination
Trolling
Other
Why are you here Violet?
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I come here for:
*Answers to various questions on a variety of subjects, some of which are specific to Cambodia
*To interact with people who aren't focussed on stuff of little interest to me, because I'm not so good at interacting face to face
*To be some real among what has been some bullshit
*To avoid being chased off by a certain group of posters
*To learn
*To vent
*To get some enjoyment
*To avoid dealing with other things in life
*To fill time
*To maybe connect with some people I wouldn't otherwise connect with
*To be reminded that I am alive, because I don't get out much
Impatient, RB....here is your answer. Why was I vague, because I have continually been reminded that sharing too much about myself on here and other forms of social media is a very stupid thing to do if you value your privacy, sanity and health. As everyone already knows, there's little point in me stopping now.
*Answers to various questions on a variety of subjects, some of which are specific to Cambodia
*To interact with people who aren't focussed on stuff of little interest to me, because I'm not so good at interacting face to face
*To be some real among what has been some bullshit
*To avoid being chased off by a certain group of posters
*To learn
*To vent
*To get some enjoyment
*To avoid dealing with other things in life
*To fill time
*To maybe connect with some people I wouldn't otherwise connect with
*To be reminded that I am alive, because I don't get out much
Impatient, RB....here is your answer. Why was I vague, because I have continually been reminded that sharing too much about myself on here and other forms of social media is a very stupid thing to do if you value your privacy, sanity and health. As everyone already knows, there's little point in me stopping now.
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Thanks Violet. Share away and its fine, especially here in this thread where it is being solicited and valued.violet wrote:I come here for:
INFORMATION
*Answers to various questions on a variety of subjects, some of which are specific to Cambodia
*To learn
SOCIAL INTERACTION
*To interact with people who aren't focused on stuff of little interest to me, because I'm not so good at interacting face to face
*To vent
*To be reminded that I am alive, because I don't get out much
INTRIGUE
*To be some real among what has been some bullshit
*To maybe connect with some people I wouldn't otherwise connect with
ENTERTAINMENT
*To get some enjoyment
DISTRACTION
*To avoid dealing with other things in life
*To fill time
RESOLVE
*To avoid being chased off by a certain group of posters
Impatient, RB....here is your answer. Why was I vague, because I have continually been reminded that sharing too much about myself on here and other forms of social media is a very stupid thing to do if you value your privacy, sanity and health. As everyone already knows, there's little point in me stopping now.
Have I categorized your list properly? If not, please fix it, and I will go back and do the same so as not to misrepresent you.
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