wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:16 pm
I don’t consider them as well meaning advice in any way. It is more like childish insults and threatening abusive comments to anyone that they don’t like for reasons best known to them.
I guess they have been too long in Asia. This type of behaviour is very common in Asia.
I have seen some harsh comments about your mental state, that I understand might feel hurtful, but I don't think I have seen anything that could rationally be considered threatening or abusive.
You keep making more or less the same statements repeatedly, each time somebody is commenting in any way, you appear to be shocked and insulted that people can't see it your way.
In the end, I guess you have to accept that if an entire community fails to see things your way, continuing to reiterate the same points won't change this. So you either have to try to figure out how to get your point across by trying to explain things differently, let go of the topic in that grouping seeing them as hopelessly unable to understand you, or consider that the reason nobody gets your perspective might indicate that the perspective itself might be flawed, and thus it would make sense to carefully consider a re-evaluation of this whole situation.
Given your history on this topic, I assume the last alternative is out of the question. After all this time your explanations have not made others realize the validity of your point of view, so that kind of only leaves you with one rational approach. Decide that trying to explain the validity of your devotion is a wasted effort on this forum, and focus on other means to reach your goals. Perhaps writing Harlequin novels, you seem to know a lot about ever-lasting love and devotion. That would potentially give you an appreciating following!