Drunk Westerner skips bill, pulls gun (Mark Aspinall “Mishmash” from England)
Whats the real backstory here windy?
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I may write a book instead though I am not sure if I have any writing skills to speak of, if I finally get to be reunited with Mark. It has been a painful and traumatic journey for me and writing about it may perhaps help my relationship with Mark to heal and recover. Our separation has been traumatic for both of us but I still strongly feel that we are meant to take care of each other and be together forever.Lucky Lucan wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 10:18 pmNo, write a book. It would be a wonderful timeless romance spanning the decades which would appeal to a very wide audience.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:56 pmThank you for your encouragement.tuk-tukfish wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:09 pmDon't listen to these idiots, Wendy, your words are clearly lost on these fools.
Persue your happiness I say. Perhaps you would consider starting blog about your journey back to Mark's heart?
My last reunion with Mark was at the Bangkok international Airport in the year of 2010 after four years of separation. It was really magical to back in his loving arms again.
I would be the happiest person in the world if I finally get to have another reunion that would hopefully last forever with him soon.
I definitely would consider starting a blog about my search for Mark and my many
challenging journey to get back in touch with him.
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Wendy already has a publicist and the gravy train has well and truly left the station. I'll thank you to stop badgering my client.Lucky Lucan wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 10:18 pmNo, write a book. It would be a wonderful timeless romance spanning the decades which would appeal to a very wide audience.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:56 pmtuk-tukfish wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:09 pmDon't listen to these idiots, Wendy, your words are clearly lost on these fools.
Persue your happiness I say. Perhaps you would consider starting blog about your journey back to Mark's heart?
Thank you for your encouragement.
My last reunion with Mark was at the Bangkok international Airport in the year of 2010 after four years of separation. It was really magical to back in his loving arms again.
I would be the happiest person in the world if I finally get to have another reunion that would hopefully last forever with him soon.
I definitely would consider starting a blog about my search for Mark and my many
challenging journey to get back in touch with him.
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Wendy, diving straight into a novella is illadvised. I recommend the blog because it's a good opportunity to hone in your writing skills and get feedback from an online audience whose feedback will bve useful when you pen your final draft.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 5:39 amI may write a book instead though I am not sure if I have any writing skills to speak of, if I finally get to be reunited with Mark. It has been a painful and traumatic journey for me and writing about it may perhaps help my relationship with Mark to heal and recover. Our separation has been traumatic for both of us but I still strongly feel that we are meant to take care of each other and be together forever.Lucky Lucan wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 10:18 pmNo, write a book. It would be a wonderful timeless romance spanning the decades which would appeal to a very wide audience.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:56 pmThank you for your encouragement.tuk-tukfish wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:09 pmDon't listen to these idiots, Wendy, your words are clearly lost on these fools.
Persue your happiness I say. Perhaps you would consider starting blog about your journey back to Mark's heart?
My last reunion with Mark was at the Bangkok international Airport in the year of 2010 after four years of separation. It was really magical to back in his loving arms again.
I would be the happiest person in the world if I finally get to have another reunion that would hopefully last forever with him soon.
I definitely would consider starting a blog about my search for Mark and my many
challenging journey to get back in touch with him.
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I really have no intention of continuing on thisGuru Meditation wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 8:43 pmThe question remains, what is your purpose with continuing this thread?wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:04 pmYou are just trying to ignore the fact that many of them here were trying to silence me directly or indirectly, not to mention their abusive tendencies here. They have don’t have to react in that nasty manner even if they don’t understand my problems or refused to understand my predicament. They are just trying to find fault with me and calling names which is just unacceptable and uncivilised. There is no need to make it worse for me.
I don’t enjoy replying to nasty comments especially in predominantly intolerant Asian community because it tend to be extremely oppressive and one often get bullied excessively just for having a disagreeable opinion, get verbally abused and threatened with all sorts of consequences.
Most if not all reactions are seen by you as hostile and or threatening. Yet you just continue to explain that you really want to get back together with him. Since you are not asking for help with anything, or outside perspectives, and certainly do not seem to appreciate any reactions, your purpose in continuing the thread seems rather unclear. Why continue to post when met with reactions you do not appreciate, since it does not seem that there are any reactions here that add value to you?
I'm not trying to silence you with my questions, I am just curious as to what drives you, since there doesn't seem to be any direction indicating you are trying to find a way forward.
It's a free world and so on, but stating I don't like how I am treated here, and then continuing doing what triggers this reaction seems so utterly counterintuitive and pointless, one could even see it as an act of unintentional self-harm.
Regardless, I hope you manage to find some happiness. Believe it or not, I'm not trying to mock you, I am just surprised that you continue to put yourself in a situation that you do not seem to appreciate, and end up in a weird loop where it all seems to be a constant repetition with what seems like a total lack of progress. You certainly do not seem to be getting closer to any goal using your current strategy of (repeatedly) expressing your undying love to a crowd that doesn't seem to get you.
thread after getting so many extremely abusive replies and nasty presumptions.
I only wish to clarify certain matters and hopefully Mark will get to read some of my postings and realised I am seriously seeking a reconciliation with him and seriously wish to help him in any way possible as I still love him very much and he is still legally and hopefully forever my husband, regardless how far apart we may be from each other at this moment.
I agree with you that there seems to be lack of progress and seems to be quite futile to continue hoping for a response from Mark. But I never give up the hope that one day Mark will return to my life and we can continue to share our dreams together and the many adventures in life like many other normal couple. Mark has given me so much happiness and I will continue to confidently and bravely hope for many more happy and special moments with him when we get back together again. Sometimes we may be upset with other but we always have so much fun and adventures when we’re together. That is another reason why I wish we will regain our marital relationship soon.
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I will certainly have you as my publicist if I get to write about it. Perhaps, we can work on it.tuk-tukfish wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 5:54 amWendy already has a publicist and the gravy train has well and truly left the station. I'll thank you to stop badgering my client.Lucky Lucan wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 10:18 pmNo, write a book. It would be a wonderful timeless romance spanning the decades which would appeal to a very wide audience.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:56 pmtuk-tukfish wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:09 pmDon't listen to these idiots, Wendy, your words are clearly lost on these fools.
Persue your happiness I say. Perhaps you would consider starting blog about your journey back to Mark's heart?
Thank you for your encouragement.
My last reunion with Mark was at the Bangkok international Airport in the year of 2010 after four years of separation. It was really magical to back in his loving arms again.
I would be the happiest person in the world if I finally get to have another reunion that would hopefully last forever with him soon.
I definitely would consider starting a blog about my search for Mark and my many
challenging journey to get back in touch with him.
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I agree with you. I am not ready to write a book at this point either.tuk-tukfish wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 5:59 amWendy, diving straight into a novella is illadvised. I recommend the blog because it's a good opportunity to hone in your writing skills and get feedback from an online audience whose feedback will bve useful when you pen your final draft.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 5:39 amI may write a book instead though I am not sure if I have any writing skills to speak of, if I finally get to be reunited with Mark. It has been a painful and traumatic journey for me and writing about it may perhaps help my relationship with Mark to heal and recover. Our separation has been traumatic for both of us but I still strongly feel that we are meant to take care of each other and be together forever.Lucky Lucan wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 10:18 pmNo, write a book. It would be a wonderful timeless romance spanning the decades which would appeal to a very wide audience.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:56 pmThank you for your encouragement.tuk-tukfish wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:09 pmDon't listen to these idiots, Wendy, your words are clearly lost on these fools.
Persue your happiness I say. Perhaps you would consider starting blog about your journey back to Mark's heart?
My last reunion with Mark was at the Bangkok international Airport in the year of 2010 after four years of separation. It was really magical to back in his loving arms again.
I would be the happiest person in the world if I finally get to have another reunion that would hopefully last forever with him soon.
I definitely would consider starting a blog about my search for Mark and my many
challenging journey to get back in touch with him.
I think starting off with a blog will be better too, though I am not sure about starting a website at this moment.
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Is the question directed to me?No one wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 5:32 amWhats the real backstory here windy?
Please do not direct a question to me if your intention is to mock me by intentionally misspelling my name.
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It is really nasty of you to suggest that.violet wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 4:15 amGiven that her password is probably some variant of wendyandmark4eva, it wouldn’t surprise me if some larrkin has taken over the account.Prahok wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:43 pmIt's the absence of empathy and the lack of diversity in responses that makes me think this is a bot. It's not a bad effort by whoever put it together, however it gets into a loop on various topics.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:25 pmThat is your presumption. If I do have too many bad experience in Asia and the likes of you, hate me for no reason, that is not my problem. I should not be forced to like anyone either.
In fact, maybe someone should do that
My password is my private business.
You should be ashamed of yourself for trying to imply all sorts of untruth with regard my password.
You have no respect for my privacy.- you are are trying to rudely intrude and trying making all sorts of false, scary presumptions again.
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You are just perpetuating your own self importance to give so-called advice like many expats in this horrible cesspit. Cambodia is just another oppressive part of Asia - full of hostile, arrogant, abusive, intolerant, opportunist locals that pounce on us at the slightest opportunity. But to see expats behaving likewise is just so soul destroying.HGRaid wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 5:23 pmEleven years you've been like this? That's sad.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:56 pmThank you for your encouragement.
My last reunion with Mark was at the Bangkok international Airport in the year of 2010 after four years of separation. It was really magical to back in his loving arms again.
Say what you like but I gave you the honest truth, anyone saying "start a blog" are trolling you for entertainment - people preying on your mental illness for fun, delightful people.
I'm done anyway, you are way too far gone it seems.
You don’t know the whole story nor myself or Mark personally and yet you are making all sorts of nasty presumptions. You are just mentally unfit to classify anyone’s mental status. I know the harsh world can be full of irrationally harsh people but I would not let irrational people like yourself to push your mentally unsound presumption on me.
Regardless, whether I start a blog or not, as a means to record my journey in life, it is really my own private business. I think rude abusive interfering and annoying people like yourself that seems to have no shame in bullying people like myself who appear to be weak that should be banned.
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It’s really very sad, genuinely, that a person is incapable of correctly identifying which people care and which do not. It makes them very vulnerable in the world.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 8:12 amYou are just perpetuating your own self importance to give so-called advice like many expats in this horrible cesspit. Cambodia is just another oppressive part of Asia - full of hostile, arrogant, abusive, intolerant, opportunist locals that pounce on us at the slightest opportunity. But to see expats behaving likewise is just so soul destroying.HGRaid wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 5:23 pmEleven years you've been like this? That's sad.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:56 pmThank you for your encouragement.
My last reunion with Mark was at the Bangkok international Airport in the year of 2010 after four years of separation. It was really magical to back in his loving arms again.
Say what you like but I gave you the honest truth, anyone saying "start a blog" are trolling you for entertainment - people preying on your mental illness for fun, delightful people.
I'm done anyway, you are way too far gone it seems.
You don’t know the whole story nor myself or Mark personally and yet you are making all sorts of nasty presumptions. You are just mentally unfit to classify anyone’s mental status. I know the harsh world can be full of irrationally harsh people but I would not let irrational people like yourself to push your mentally unsound presumption on me.
Regardless, whether I start a blog or not, as a means to record my journey in life, it is really my own private business. I think rude abusive interfering and annoying people like yourself that seems to have no shame in bullying people like myself who appear to be weak that should be banned.
My empathy is back for a moment, but the reader, based on historical information, will misconstrue and twist it. So, I’m wasting my empathy.
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I'm still going with 'bot'. Anytime the conversations flows from two centralised issues - Mark Good, Asians Bad, the bot adopts a generalised defensive position that doesn't actually address anything said but tries to bring the conversation back to these central topics.violet wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 9:14 amIt’s really very sad, genuinely, that a person is incapable of correctly identifying which people care and which do not. It makes them very vulnerable in the world.
My empathy is back for a moment, but the reader, based on historical information, will misconstrue and twist it. So, I’m wasting my empathy.
It's why people feel they are talking to a wall as the bot cannot adopt an empathetic position unless the position correlates positively with its own two themes. No doubt this comment will elicit a defensive response from the bot.
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You are certainly falsely accusing me something that I am not just because you don’t like certain of my opinion. I think you further the myth because of your irrational hatred and irrational intolerance for my viewpoint.Prahok wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 9:26 amI'm still going with 'bot'. Anytime the conversations flows from two centralised issues - Mark Good, Asians Bad, the bot adopts a generalised defensive position that doesn't actually address anything said but tries to bring the conversation back to these central topics.violet wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 9:14 amIt’s really very sad, genuinely, that a person is incapable of correctly identifying which people care and which do not. It makes them very vulnerable in the world.
My empathy is back for a moment, but the reader, based on historical information, will misconstrue and twist it. So, I’m wasting my empathy.
It's why people feel they are talking to a wall as the bot cannot adopt an empathetic position unless the position correlates positively with its own two themes. No doubt this comment will elicit a defensive response from the bot.
It is you that comes to your own conclusion, that you seems to constantly harped on to disparage me. I think your absence of empathy for me is very obvious, another thing that you are so keen to constantly accuse me. I don’t see the point of replying to hateful people like yourself who rather tell lies to disparage me rather than in search of truth. You have no respect and no empathy for my opinions or me and you constantly exaggerate them with no truth in them. I can only guess you may have ulterior motives in attacking me in such a irrational manner. I do not need to accept your lies, insults and offensive remarks about me.
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Brick wall is right. I think that is why I get so frustratedPrahok wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 9:26 amI'm still going with 'bot'. Anytime the conversations flows from two centralised issues - Mark Good, Asians Bad, the bot adopts a generalised defensive position that doesn't actually address anything said but tries to bring the conversation back to these central topics.violet wrote: ↑Mon Nov 29, 2021 9:14 amIt’s really very sad, genuinely, that a person is incapable of correctly identifying which people care and which do not. It makes them very vulnerable in the world.
My empathy is back for a moment, but the reader, based on historical information, will misconstrue and twist it. So, I’m wasting my empathy.
It's why people feel they are talking to a wall as the bot cannot adopt an empathetic position unless the position correlates positively with its own two themes. No doubt this comment will elicit a defensive response from the bot.
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