Drunk Westerner skips bill, pulls gun (Mark Aspinall “Mishmash” from England)
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How do you come to the conclusion that anybody is trying to prevent this reunion?wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 5:27 pm
It think it is really unfair on me and really unjustified that their entire biased community in Cambodia is trying to prevent me from seeking a reunion with Mark, my husband, due to their own biased selfish self interest in Cambodia. Furthermore you are wrong in not acknowledging the too many abusive and subtlety threatening comments hurled towards me.
I don’t have to pander to their failure to understand me. I am not their slave. I am just a lone individual who wish to seek my Mark.
Some pointing out that they don't think it is the best approach can hardly be seen as that they are preventing you to reach your goals.
By continuing to repeat yourself ad nauseam, you make an active choice to get reactions, since you seem to feel that all reactions are hurtful, one can only wonder why you continue. Not meant as trying to silence you, just pointing out the obvious, that if you post opinions people will react, and If you don't like the reactions the only one that can stop this situation that you seem to feel as painful is you.
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You are just trying to ignore the fact that many of them here were trying to silence me directly or indirectly, not to mention their abusive tendencies here. They have don’t have to react in that nasty manner even if they don’t understand my problems or refused to understand my predicament. They are just trying to find fault with me and calling names which is just unacceptable and uncivilised. There is no need to make it worse for me.Guru Meditation wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 5:53 pmHow do you come to the conclusion that anybody is trying to prevent this reunion?wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 5:27 pm
It think it is really unfair on me and really unjustified that their entire biased community in Cambodia is trying to prevent me from seeking a reunion with Mark, my husband, due to their own biased selfish self interest in Cambodia. Furthermore you are wrong in not acknowledging the too many abusive and subtlety threatening comments hurled towards me.
I don’t have to pander to their failure to understand me. I am not their slave. I am just a lone individual who wish to seek my Mark.
Some pointing out that they don't think it is the best approach can hardly be seen as that they are preventing you to reach your goals.
By continuing to repeat yourself ad nauseam, you make an active choice to get reactions, since you seem to feel that all reactions are hurtful, one can only wonder why you continue. Not meant as trying to silence you, just pointing out the obvious, that if you post opinions people will react, and If you don't like the reactions the only one that can stop this situation that you seem to feel as painful is you.
I don’t enjoy replying to nasty comments especially in predominantly intolerant Asian community because it tend to be extremely oppressive and one often get bullied excessively just for having a disagreeable opinion, get verbally abused and threatened with all sorts of consequences.
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Of course you have to disparage me with more hate from the likes of you. Don’t you think there is already enough hate from them? People like you just interested to spread more hate for me just because of my small opinions. I don’t have to be afraid from scaremongering people like you anymore.
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Disparaging? Only if you no longer carry those rather simplistic views that grouped everyone from Japan to Tajikistan under one broad brush-stroke of cultural and personal disdain. If indeed you no longer do, then good for you.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:10 pmOf course you have to disparage me with more hate from the likes of you. Don’t you think there is already enough hate from them? People like you just interested to spread more hate for me just because of my small opinions. I don’t have to be afraid from scaremongering people like you anymore.
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That is your presumption. If I do have too many bad experience in Asia and the likes of you, hate me for no reason, that is not my problem. I should not be forced to like anyone either.Prahok wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:21 pmDisparaging? Only if you no longer carry those rather simplistic views that grouped everyone from Japan to Tajikistan under one broad brush-stroke of cultural and personal disdain. If indeed you no longer do, then good for you.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:10 pmOf course you have to disparage me with more hate from the likes of you. Don’t you think there is already enough hate from them? People like you just interested to spread more hate for me just because of my small opinions. I don’t have to be afraid from scaremongering people like you anymore.
You seems to have this attitude it is okay for them to hate me, alienate me, discriminate me for no reason but not okay to criticise them even the slightest. Of course you would not dare to point out too many of them are spreading hate for tolerant, meek people like myself. But you would only pick on me just because I was rightly critical of them.
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wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:25 pmThat is your presumption. If I do have too many bad experience in Asia and the likes of you, hate me for no reason, that is not my problem. I should not be forced to like anyone either.
It's the absence of empathy and the lack of diversity in responses that makes me think this is a bot. It's not a bad effort by whoever put it together, however it gets into a loop on various topics.
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Now you are trying to imply I am bot. What’s next? What a nasty person you are or would you like it if I accuse you of being a bot as well, whatever that means. You yourself do not have any empathy for me and yet you are trying to imply I lack empathy!Prahok wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:43 pmwendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:25 pmThat is your presumption. If I do have too many bad experience in Asia and the likes of you, hate me for no reason, that is not my problem. I should not be forced to like anyone either.
It's the absence of empathy and the lack of diversity in responses that makes me think this is a bot. It's not a bad effort by whoever put it together, however it gets into a loop on various topics.
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The question remains, what is your purpose with continuing this thread?wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:04 pmYou are just trying to ignore the fact that many of them here were trying to silence me directly or indirectly, not to mention their abusive tendencies here. They have don’t have to react in that nasty manner even if they don’t understand my problems or refused to understand my predicament. They are just trying to find fault with me and calling names which is just unacceptable and uncivilised. There is no need to make it worse for me.
I don’t enjoy replying to nasty comments especially in predominantly intolerant Asian community because it tend to be extremely oppressive and one often get bullied excessively just for having a disagreeable opinion, get verbally abused and threatened with all sorts of consequences.
Most if not all reactions are seen by you as hostile and or threatening. Yet you just continue to explain that you really want to get back together with him. Since you are not asking for help with anything, or outside perspectives, and certainly do not seem to appreciate any reactions, your purpose in continuing the thread seems rather unclear. Why continue to post when met with reactions you do not appreciate, since it does not seem that there are any reactions here that add value to you?
I'm not trying to silence you with my questions, I am just curious as to what drives you, since there doesn't seem to be any direction indicating you are trying to find a way forward.
It's a free world and so on, but stating I don't like how I am treated here, and then continuing doing what triggers this reaction seems so utterly counterintuitive and pointless, one could even see it as an act of unintentional self-harm.
Regardless, I hope you manage to find some happiness. Believe it or not, I'm not trying to mock you, I am just surprised that you continue to put yourself in a situation that you do not seem to appreciate, and end up in a weird loop where it all seems to be a constant repetition with what seems like a total lack of progress. You certainly do not seem to be getting closer to any goal using your current strategy of (repeatedly) expressing your undying love to a crowd that doesn't seem to get you.
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No, write a book. It would be a wonderful timeless romance spanning the decades which would appeal to a very wide audience.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:56 pmThank you for your encouragement.tuk-tukfish wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 3:09 pmDon't listen to these idiots, Wendy, your words are clearly lost on these fools.
Persue your happiness I say. Perhaps you would consider starting blog about your journey back to Mark's heart?
My last reunion with Mark was at the Bangkok international Airport in the year of 2010 after four years of separation. It was really magical to back in his loving arms again.
I would be the happiest person in the world if I finally get to have another reunion that would hopefully last forever with him soon.
I definitely would consider starting a blog about my search for Mark and my many
challenging journey to get back in touch with him.
Romantic Cambodia is dead and gone. It's with McKinley in the grave.
wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:51 pmNow you are trying to imply I am bot. What’s next? What a nasty person you are or would you like it if I accuse you of being a bot as well, whatever that means. You yourself do not have any empathy for me and yet you are trying to imply I lack empathy!Prahok wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:43 pmWhy don’t you contact the brother in uk to get more informationwendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:25 pmThat is your presumption. If I do have too many bad experience in Asia and the likes of you, hate me for no reason, that is not my problem. I should not be forced to like anyone either.
It's the absence of empathy and the lack of diversity in responses that makes me think this is a bot. It's not a bad effort by whoever put it together, however it gets into a loop on various topics.
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Given that her password is probably some variant of wendyandmark4eva, it wouldn’t surprise me if some larrkin has taken over the account.Prahok wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:43 pmIt's the absence of empathy and the lack of diversity in responses that makes me think this is a bot. It's not a bad effort by whoever put it together, however it gets into a loop on various topics.wendyaspinall wrote: ↑Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:25 pmThat is your presumption. If I do have too many bad experience in Asia and the likes of you, hate me for no reason, that is not my problem. I should not be forced to like anyone either.
In fact, maybe someone should do that
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