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by brigsman » Sat Feb 23, 2008 1:10 pm
I wasnt going to reply to the pages of chinese whispers, inuendos, half truths and blatant lies that have graced this thread for more than a week now. I ddont see any reason why I should have to explain myself, my lifestyle or my relationship with my son to a bunch of anonymous cowards .With the honourable exception of , Jacked Camry who did walk in to my bar only to get thrown out, not one of you pathetic wankers have had the balls to repeat anyting to my face.
Let me be as clear as i can because i am not part of this site, and will not be posting again. My house is a bar, that bar is open. We rely on service and custom to make a liviing. That service and custom is in the public domain and therefore criticism of my staff, products, servicem decor etc is legitimate and encouraged. Even if you hate my place, you have the right to criticise us. You also have the right to not patronise my place, to tell others not to patronise my place. You are entitled to not like me, hate my guts if you wish. All this is fine and to be expected from anyone in the service industry.
You do not however ARE YOU LISTENING * YOU SMARMY TOAD, have to right, ON A PUBLIC FORUM to libel my bar, spread half arsed chinese whispers about my lifestyle choices or blatantly lie about my relationship with my son.
There are many reasons i chose, indeed choose, to live here, fundamental however is that I am free to live my life without anyone telling me what to do. Noone tells me how to live my life, noone tells me what to think, say, write, or put inside my body.
Well, someone does have that mandate, hes 8 years old,. and he is the only person i have to look in the eye. The only person i am accountable to.
I love that little boy amd im immensely proud of him. Insinuations that he is somehow neglected or uncared for are not only untrue but extremely bad for your health. (yes * that was a threat. libel me, my place or my son again and I am going to kick your teeth in, I kid you not. Is that clear you self righteous sack of snot? )
So im a junkie dad who neglects his son. You feel sorry for him, his life is so deprived right?
Heres an idea, why not ask him. As everyone who comes into contact with him comments, hes a very mature, super intelligent kid. He can speak for himself. Come in and talk to him. Judge for yourselves. I think you will find he is perfectly confident talking about the big bang theory, napoleons strategy at waterloo. what killed the dinosaurs ,evolution, quoting WB Yates or Edgar Alan poe. or discussing the young ones or south park.
While you are at it ask him what he thinks of *. He has a great memory and i bet he remembers how you had absolutely no time for him when you came to my bar. you coulnt even be polite to him as i recall, He remembers how you took sides with a waitress who i fired for beating the shit out of him one night. He thinks you hate him. I know because he once asked me why you didnt like him and why you were always nasty to him. "Heng shut the fuck up"being one of your more polite comments as i remember . I remember well because on more than one occasion i considered punching your lights out because of the way you screamed at my son.On a couple of occasions customers expressed surprise that i didnt.
Interesting that you are suddenly so concerned about my sons educational welfare . As far as i recall you expressed a desire to see him in school only to get him out of your face.
There is something pathetic about this entire thread frankly , pages and pages devoted to slagging me off in the most intimate detail. Its almost flattering, for christs sakes do you guys spend your evenings gossiping about me, "I heard" "did you hear that david..." Grt a life. I honestly dont give any of you a moments thought. (except when my character business are being publicly assassinated that is,)Not a flicker. thats because I DONT CARE!
Now my feelings about my attempted assassins fall into two branches.
First, my enemies, those who for their own reasons
are hoping to see me fall or actively trying to bring that about. I expect nothing less. They have their own agendas, fine. their 0wn sore history;s with me , who knows, maybe their bitterness is deserved. Im no angel for sure. .
Come on, put your back into it., do your worst. I have survived more shit than you can possibly imagine in this town and im still standing, It will take more than a bunch of cretins sniping under disguises, more than this little stitch up of a thread, to bring me down (in fact I think business is up since this thread started).
As i said, to be expected. However.....
there is a special place reserved in hell for those who attack me , smear me, try drive away customers while claiming to be doing so out of friendship.
* is one such cockroach. Out of the blue and for no apparent reason, he starts hurling accusations at me . ON A PUBLIC FORUM. He tries to drive my customers away by painting my bar as a sleezy, dangerous, drug den filled with shadowy characters hiding in shadows .He tries to ruin my reputation as a father and to financially hurt my family. He then claims he is acting OUT OF FRIENDSHIP? Jeez with friends like you etc. Hey *, heres an idea, why not walk up to me and say like "hey dave, can i have a chat. its none of my bus but......." . Oh no, thats too difficult, couldnt write a letter,? talk to my ex,? email me?, text?, phone? pm me? scrawl a message in fucking shaving foam on the bathroom mirror? oh. Nooo! You say absolutley NOTHING to my face. You just come into the bar as normal day after, day, week after week , ordinary stuff, you boriing the tits off everyone by talking about how great you are, us trying not to fall asleep.You complaining that we have no red label . You telling us about your latest female conquest, you telling us how great you are. Just business as normal and then vrooooooom. gone, you disappear, not a word for six months. Until you start calling my place a ""Crackhouse!"on a public forum.
* i have news for you, yuour not my friend ok, I never liked you, no one did or does, we indulge you cus we want you to spend money. Now fuck off and leave me alone.
Thats it, my final word, Thank you to everyone who gave pos comments on the place,or any comments on the place to be honest. esp nlmntts or whatever his name is and khmerhit, To the rest of you who have put the boot in, ALTOGETHER NOW
MIND YOUR OWN FUCKING BUSINESS.
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