Would you date a middle class khmer girl who doesnt want to have sex?
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Some girls don't want dogs, that's all. Their handlers don't want dogs either. So deal with it.
If you are.honest about, fair enough. There are plenty of fishy-smelling girls in the sea.
Hygiene and education are so absent here, perhaps abstinence is best. Swooning girls don't know what to think. I blame puberty.
If you are.honest about, fair enough. There are plenty of fishy-smelling girls in the sea.
Hygiene and education are so absent here, perhaps abstinence is best. Swooning girls don't know what to think. I blame puberty.
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No I didn't. Unfortunately my whole post is gone as I forgot my new phone doesn't have clipboard (to save multiple copy-pastes). What I said is that lot's of girls who have had boyfriends are jaded. It went something like this: "Lot's of these girls [who've had boyfriends] I've met are jaded, so I started switching to girls who hadn't had boyfriends (now I get to make them jaded, yay!)."Joon wrote:I didn't say you ruined it for them. You did state (jokingly or not) that you made a number of them jaded and "playing your cards right", "seduction" are just another way of saying they somehow were persuaded to have their first sexual experience with you. I don't know what convinced them. Maybe they were mistaken, maybe they were just too consumed with desire, maybe you're just one helluva swell guy, maybe you just outright lied. In any case, what you wrote just came off as bragging.
Also, a woman who doesn't want sex with her dates is not necessarily a virgin. Maybe she precisely gave away her virginity to a guy who persuaded/seduced her and vanished and has trust issues since then.
I didn't use the past tense, rather present simple in a joking way, with the "yay!" and all. I never said I'd actually made any of them jaded, simply that by being the first, they wouldn't have any emotional baggage. The comment acknowledges the risk of making them jaded myself (in a joking manner, sorry if you're being triggered).
Not sure why "playing your cards right" offends you either. Ask any guy who's somewhat honest and he'll tell you that some level, the end goal is sleeping with the woman. Always. It's a biological survival tool. A deep, meaningful relationship is only a bonus outcome that comes afterwards. Surely even your ex husband will admit to this. Was there "seduction" on his (and your) part at any point during the relationship, especially at the beginning? I'm sure there was. It's part of it. Maybe you wanted to wait X number of dates before sleeping with him, but he got you (or you got him) earlier because of "seduction"? Is that "persuasion"? Are seduction and persuasion interchangeable? Is you following your instinct and desire after a few kisses make him a rapist or something? You seem to be alluding that I tricked them or somehow coerced them. C'mon, c'est pas sorcier. Arrache-moi pas la tête.
Sorry if you felt it came off as bragging. I simply answered the OP's question by giving my opinion. He asked if he should date a middle-class girl who doesn't want to have sex. I informed him that sex is always a possibility, even with girls who originally say otherwise. What he does with that information is up to him. Most foreigners won't give such a girl (virgin anyways) a chance because they're: 1-too much trouble as foreigners won't even consider marriage until much later, 2-terrible in bed at first 3-various other reasons. I'm simply saying that the "she doesn't want to have sex" is a Khmer facade that can be fairly easily worked around if he's willing to be serious. The last part of my post clearly stated that if he was only interested in sex, he should move on as there are plenty of other options, ranging from bargirls to the average girl who's been married or has had a boyfriend and as such, is willing to have sex. I certainly don't condone taking a Khmer girl's virginity frivolously and said as much. If he's willing to get to know her well and thinks the relationship has a future, then he shouldn't let the "no sex" be a blockade as they can work that out together later on once she knows him better.
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You guys ever spit on a girl's back during doggy style to make her think you just came but when she turns around you blast her right in the face?
Anyone who doesn't like Capitalism is a pathetic loser. God bless the USA and no place else.
Yeah, DM sounds like a real catch.
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This thread has gone "FULL RETARD!".
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Doesn't work here as all Asian are expecting it. Why do you think Teletubby has squinty eyes?DetroitMuscle wrote:You guys ever spit on a girl's back during doggy style to make her think you just came but when she turns around you blast her right in the face?
My posts are just jokes, maybe they're rude, offensive, and politically incorrect. They're not my opinion, viewpoint, idea, or judgement, but they're just fucking jokes so lighten up.
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Why are the gods such vicious cunts?
Where is the god of tits and wine?
Why are the gods such vicious cunts?
Where is the god of tits and wine?
Well, the post is gone now but I'll trust you and admit that I read too fast and that your comment was really just tongue-in-cheek.LexusSchmexus wrote:No I didn't. Unfortunately my whole post is gone as I forgot my new phone doesn't have clipboard (to save multiple copy-pastes). What I said is that lot's of girls who have had boyfriends are jaded. It went something like this: "Lot's of these girls [who've had boyfriends] I've met are jaded, so I started switching to girls who hadn't had boyfriends (now I get to make them jaded, yay!)."
I didn't use the past tense, rather present simple in a joking way, with the "yay!" and all. I never said I'd actually made any of them jaded, simply that by being the first, they wouldn't have any emotional baggage. The comment acknowledges the risk of making them jaded myself (in a joking manner, sorry if you're being triggered).
Kudos to you for not ruining the first times for your ex-girlfriends!
I don't blame men for pursuing sex. I completely understand that a man going into any kinds of close relationship with a woman will be driven insane by his libido. And most women likely are just as craving but we get called out or names for it.LexusSchmexus wrote:Not sure why "playing your cards right" offends you either. Ask any guy who's somewhat honest and he'll tell you that some level, the end goal is sleeping with the woman. Always. It's a biological survival tool. A deep, meaningful relationship is only a bonus outcome that comes afterwards.
However, if we're talking about a virgin girl/woman who never had relationships before not to mention close physical contacts with boys/men, HER wishes and the time she needs are to be respected. There's a very fine line between accompanying her in this determining moment (discuss and understand her worries) and talk her into accepting it (cue scumbag Khmer boys telling their girlfriends they would have sex if they truly loved them).
The point is moot because neither of us were virgins. We both had already some kind of sexual experience (myself more than him) and we both wanted it, it was just a matter of opportunity and... getting away with it as RobW eloquently put it.LexusSchmexus wrote:Surely even your ex husband will admit to this. Was there "seduction" on his (and your) part at any point during the relationship, especially at the beginning? I'm sure there was. It's part of it. Maybe you wanted to wait X number of dates before sleeping with him, but he got you (or you got him) earlier because of "seduction"? Is that "persuasion"? Are seduction and persuasion interchangeable? Is you following your instinct and desire after a few kisses make him a rapist or something? You seem to be alluding that I tricked them or somehow coerced them. C'mon, c'est pas sorcier. Arrache-moi pas la tête.
My first time with my first boyfriend though was to my terms and we did it about a month after we started our relationship.
Well, you're assuming the OP is a man... There's a post that suggests otherwise and that could put the question under a whole new light.LexusSchmexus wrote:Sorry if you felt it came off as bragging. I simply answered the OP's question by giving my opinion. He asked if he should date a middle-class girl who doesn't want to have sex. I informed him that sex is always a possibility, even with girls who originally say otherwise. What he does with that information is up to him.
If a woman comes and says "My friend/I want to date but I don't want to have sex", do you tell her "yes, you do, you just need a little convincing"?
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Yawnnnnnnnnn
Anyone who doesn't like Capitalism is a pathetic loser. God bless the USA and no place else.
Just tell us about the time you got double-teamed.DetroitMuscle wrote:Yawnnnnnnnnn
with the motherJoon wrote:Just tell us about the time you got double-teamed.DetroitMuscle wrote:Yawnnnnnnnnn
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In prisonJoon wrote:Just tell us about the time you got double-teamed.DetroitMuscle wrote:Yawnnnnnnnnn
My posts are just jokes, maybe they're rude, offensive, and politically incorrect. They're not my opinion, viewpoint, idea, or judgement, but they're just fucking jokes so lighten up.
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