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I actually had/have a kind of relationship with a Khmer man in America, where I am now. We're very close friends. He likes me, but he has a wife and kid in Battambang, which is obviously a moral line I would never cross, so we continue to be close friends. If he wasn't married though, I'd be all over that. He's sweet, handsome, caring, wise, and VERY woke. No, I haven't physically been in Cambodia yet, I just talk with a lot of Khmers. I'm obviously going to make several extended trips there before I decide on anything in regards to relocating there. I just can't with Western men anymore. You have no idea the things that have happened to me. Even Western men who claim to be conservative and masculine turn out to be pussies. I was born in the wrong place in the wrong time. I should have lived in the 50s or something. I actually am a Christian, but would be willing to convert to Buddhism, as they essentially have very similar values (Islam is out of the question.) I have heard that domestic violence is a significant occurrence there, but after what I've been through, it wouldn't even be a deal-breaker at this point. Not to be self-serving, but I do look at Cambodian citizenship through marriage as a perk. I understand and respect completely that many Khmer men would not be willing to upset their parents by dating outside their race - Cultural Marxism is usually not a good thing, but my culture is doomed and I'm just a rat trying to flee a sinking ship at this point. I mean, do you SEE what's going on in America? Riots over every little thing Trump does, the rise of Antifa, schools have become indoctrination centers...the list goes on. I consider myself Alt-Right, and the Alt-Right are trying to fix things over here, but we're greatly outnumbered. America can not be made "great" again. It's like trying to put fake boobs and a face lift on an aging celebrity at this point, it's just not going to work. I can't raise children in a place like this.
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So you would be willing to live in an abusive relationship with a Khmer man because you think all men in the west are pussy boy cucks with no masculinity or morals anymore and you just cant deal with that anymore. Could it be that maybe you have just made bad partner choices in the past and what makes you think you will not do the same in Cambodia? Sorry to break it to you but this romanticization of Khmer culture might be shattered once you actually know what you are talking about. If you think everything is totally fucked up in the west... well welcome to the jungle.Solomon Gumball wrote:... I have heard that domestic violence is a significant occurrence there, but after what I've been through, it wouldn't even be a deal-breaker at this point...
You're a subservient, Alt-right Trump supporter, OP?
Try harder to trigger this forum's members.
Try harder to trigger this forum's members.
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OP, pay no attention to those trying to put you down for their own sense of self-worth. You are different and unique, as are all the members of the forum. Don't get brainwashed by their group think mentality.
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Yeah... I think so.Starving Pelican wrote:I'm calling troll.
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A valid call for both the OP and our resident hapless groom.Starving Pelican wrote:I'm calling troll.
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That's where we diverge - I think NKOTB is genuine. He's carried it on for too long and even posted pics of himself. Plus, Asian guys tend to be a lot more naive and tend to play the "my Girlfriend is a traditional good girl who follows me around" song without irony.Joon wrote:A valid call for both the OP and our resident hapless groom.Starving Pelican wrote:I'm calling troll.
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Most khmer men are useless at just about everything. So as well as carrying out your role as wife and mother - cooking, cleaning, caring for the kids etc - you will also have to carry out most of what in the west we would consider the husband's duties - choosing a suitable place to live, choosing a car, taking care of household finances, planning for you retirement, etc etc etc.
TheGrimReaper wrote: ↑Mon Sep 02, 2019 1:45 pmSlavedog, you do not belong on this forum as you talk too much sense.
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Waiting for hubby at 2 am to come home from the Karaoke, risking being infected with AIDS.slavedog wrote:Most khmer men are useless at just about everything. So as well as carrying out your role as wife and mother - cooking, cleaning, caring for the kids etc - you will also have to carry out most of what in the west we would consider the husband's duties - choosing a suitable place to live, choosing a car, taking care of household finances, planning for you retirement, etc etc etc.
Seriously, they are of course not all like that but I have many Khmer friends, married and with kids, that head for the KTV 1-2 a week. And it is not just for singing.
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OP has got to be a troll or rose-tinted spec wearing naive as all fuck idiot. Khmer men are conservative family-values type guys? Ha ha. Sure they are when they're not busy being unfaithful. Come and take a peek beneath the veneer.Solomon Gumball wrote:The bar has become set so low on Western civilization all I can hope for in a western man at this point is that he's not a cuckhold or turns into a tranny (this has happened to me). In all seriousness though, I just don't want a man who's poisoned by liberalism, Marxism, and post-modern feminism. In Khmer culture, conservatism and family values are still the norm. The importance of the nuclear family. Marriage between one man and one woman with divorce being a last resort, not a first resort. Men and women having different, but equally important roles and places. An overall simpler life.
gavinmac is spot on, OP should be relabelled newchickontheblock.
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Yes. Many Khmer chaps will see nothing wrong in spending $100 a week on 'singing' with their mates, whilst sending your offspring to $100 per month school.Hanno wrote:Waiting for hubby at 2 am to come home from the Karaoke, risking being infected with AIDS.slavedog wrote:Most khmer men are useless at just about everything. So as well as carrying out your role as wife and mother - cooking, cleaning, caring for the kids etc - you will also have to carry out most of what in the west we would consider the husband's duties - choosing a suitable place to live, choosing a car, taking care of household finances, planning for you retirement, etc etc etc.
Seriously, they are of course not all like that but I have many Khmer friends, married and with kids, that head for the KTV 1-2 a week. And it is not just for singing.
TheGrimReaper wrote: ↑Mon Sep 02, 2019 1:45 pmSlavedog, you do not belong on this forum as you talk too much sense.
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