Khmer girl Illegally adopted my child away.
Khmer girl Illegally adopted my child away.
I'm from Norway and 1 year ago I went to cambodia And made a local girl pregnant. (yes I should have used a condom). I was in Norway at the time of the birth.
Long story short. She ended up giving away/selling the child at birht to a couple living in France. They faked the birth sertificate putting the French couple as parents. They took the child with them to France.
I want to be the father of my child, do I even have a chance to get him back? What do I do??
Long story short. She ended up giving away/selling the child at birht to a couple living in France. They faked the birth sertificate putting the French couple as parents. They took the child with them to France.
I want to be the father of my child, do I even have a chance to get him back? What do I do??
Do you have any written evidence, like your name on the birth certificate?
Alternatively have you done a declaration of paternity at your embassy prior to the birth?
If not you're wasting your time.
Alternatively have you done a declaration of paternity at your embassy prior to the birth?
If not you're wasting your time.
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ive had 2 and been there for both deliveries and ensured i was entered as the father on the hospital paperwork with the agreement of the mother as required by the hospital.
as for your problem, nothing or locate the child and commence dna based evidence legal action in the country of citizenship, now france.
youre going to need a lot of money being a forriner in france and french barristers and interpreters are very expensive.
how will you communicate with a french speaking child?
i suggest counselling in the meantime and wait until the child is an adult then make your direct approaches.
as for your problem, nothing or locate the child and commence dna based evidence legal action in the country of citizenship, now france.
youre going to need a lot of money being a forriner in france and french barristers and interpreters are very expensive.
how will you communicate with a french speaking child?
i suggest counselling in the meantime and wait until the child is an adult then make your direct approaches.
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Devils advocate;
How could they possible fake the BC and make a french lady the mom?
How do you know its urs? Just her word?
In fact how do you know this is what she did if your not there?
How could they possible fake the BC and make a french lady the mom?
How do you know its urs? Just her word?
In fact how do you know this is what she did if your not there?
Sounds like she’s found the strings to tug on and wind you up.
It’s working.
I doubt very much they faked a birth certificate and put a barangs name as the mother.
It’s working.
I doubt very much they faked a birth certificate and put a barangs name as the mother.
pew, pew, pew, pew!
The couple is Khmer living in France.
They are friend of the mother and have been helping her for a few years with one of her other child. They can not have children themself. And when she didn't have money for the hospital stay, they offered her to pay all expenses if they could have the child. At least that's what she is telling me..
I have been doubting it for along time trying and trying to prove everything is a lie. It seems like she is telling the truth.
I don't know who they are so I would need to do some investigation to find out. I quess a visit to the hospital will get me the answer?
They are friend of the mother and have been helping her for a few years with one of her other child. They can not have children themself. And when she didn't have money for the hospital stay, they offered her to pay all expenses if they could have the child. At least that's what she is telling me..
I have been doubting it for along time trying and trying to prove everything is a lie. It seems like she is telling the truth.
I don't know who they are so I would need to do some investigation to find out. I quess a visit to the hospital will get me the answer?
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Why do you believe this to be true? Do you have some evidence this happened other than the Cambodian mother telling you this?
Do you know the names of the French couple?
If so, why not go and knock on the door and explain the situation and ask for your child back? And if they refuse, sue them in a French court?
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- hello, sorry to bother you so late, can I have my daughter back please?If so, why not go and knock on the door and explain the situation and ask for your child back? And if they refuse, sue them in a French court?
- by all means, would you like her clothes and toys as well?
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Oh, I don't think it would work, but it would be a cool thing to do. Or stand outside their apartment building in Paris holding up signs protesting that they stole your child, just shaming them in front of all their neighbors.logos wrote: ↑Fri Dec 27, 2019 2:11 pm- hello, sorry to bother you so late, can I have my daughter back please?If so, why not go and knock on the door and explain the situation and ask for your child back? And if they refuse, sue them in a French court?
- by all means, would you like her clothes and toys as well?
The French love a good protest.
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Can I call the hospital and they will give me information about the name of the child and the parents?
I only know the date of the birth, and the name of the real mother.
I only know the date of the birth, and the name of the real mother.
Can I call the hospital and they will give me information about the name of the child and the parents?
I only know the date of the birth, and the name of the real mother.
I only know the date of the birth, and the name of the real mother.
No! Have you never heard of patient confidentiality?
How do you even know that the child is yours in the first place, could be the child of any of the other foreign customers, or local boyfriend, she went unprotected with.
Sorry to say, but you have zero chance of gaining custody of this child.
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I'm not a negative person, I encourage people all the time...it's usually to f**k off! But, whatever.
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Well I'm wondering where the guy has been in the meantime and why he was absent at the time of birth? Has he been in contact with the mother or supported her medical bills/living expenses etc?
Romantic Cambodia is dead and gone. It's with McKinley in the grave.
I'm wondering if he even knows whether it's a boy or a girlPSD_Kiwi wrote: ↑Fri Dec 27, 2019 8:44 pmNo! Have you never heard of patient confidentiality?
How do you even know that the child is yours in the first place, could be the child of any of the other foreign customers she went unprotected with.
Sorry to say, but you have zero chance of gaining custody of this child.
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