Newbie , dating a Cambodian girl in the USA but signs pointing she was a bar girl
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Whether she is or is not is irrelevant. There are some warning signs that you need to guard your heart and wallet.
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Get rid.
Get on a plane come over and find yourself an actual nice woman.
Get on a plane come over and find yourself an actual nice woman.
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If she used to work in a bar would you dump her?
Does it matter so much to you what you imagine that she maybe used to do?
Does it matter so much to you what you imagine that she maybe used to do?
You can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl. Well, not always the case but your girl could be just like that.
Some of these girls can run rings around naive western lads, (not saying that's you) and can have a few guys on the go at any given time. I guess it depends how you roll, volunteering to be a girl's pet poodle or a high baller like gavinmac, who's been making Cambodian girls cry since ..um...forever!
Some of these girls can run rings around naive western lads, (not saying that's you) and can have a few guys on the go at any given time. I guess it depends how you roll, volunteering to be a girl's pet poodle or a high baller like gavinmac, who's been making Cambodian girls cry since ..um...forever!
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ផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 7:54 amIf she used to work in a bar would you dump her?
Does it matter so much to you what you imagine that she maybe used to do?
Obviously it does matter to him, otherwise he wouldn't have started a thread about it.
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There are scales of mattering. He could just be interested or at the other end of scale he could be horrified.Starving Pelican wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 8:18 amផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 7:54 amIf she used to work in a bar would you dump her?
Does it matter so much to you what you imagine that she maybe used to do?
Obviously it does matter to him, otherwise he wouldn't have started a thread about it.
I just wondered what would the implications be if he found out that what he suspects is true.
Indeed, all he needs is a smattering of anti-matteringផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 9:11 amThere are scales of mattering. He could just be interested or at the other end of scale he could be horrified.Starving Pelican wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 8:18 amផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 7:54 amIf she used to work in a bar would you dump her?
Does it matter so much to you what you imagine that she maybe used to do?
Obviously it does matter to him, otherwise he wouldn't have started a thread about it.
I just wondered what would the implications be if he found out that what he suspects is true.
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Case closed thencooldude123 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 20, 2022 8:29 pmAnother thing is she says/types mum instead of mom which I found odd
Exactly, sounds exactly like what some usurper royalist redcoat would type/say, OP should tool himself up with an AR-15 & Apache Gunship just to be safe.ReasonstobefearfulP3 wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 1:40 pmCase closed thencooldude123 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 20, 2022 8:29 pmAnother thing is she says/types mum instead of mom which I found odd
Meum est propositum in taberna mori,
ut sint Guinness proxima morientis ori.
tunc cantabunt letius angelorum chori:
"Sit Deus propitius huic potatori."
ut sint Guinness proxima morientis ori.
tunc cantabunt letius angelorum chori:
"Sit Deus propitius huic potatori."
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There’s some small lies she has told … the gifts from me which were not. Also she goes missing a lot, we video call every day/ night and there was some times when she goes missing for hours or even the whole night. I don’t want to admit it, but I think she is running rings around me. There was some guy I found on her social which I asked about but then she remove him as a friend right after I asked who the guy was. I know I sound crazy/paranoid but some things are just not adding upDylan Quint wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 8:08 amYou can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl. Well, not always the case but your girl could be just like that.
Some of these girls can run rings around naive western lads, (not saying that's you) and can have a few guys on the go at any given time. I guess it depends how you roll, volunteering to be a girl's pet poodle or a high baller like gavinmac, who's been making Cambodian girls cry since ..um...forever!
Matters a lot to me, this world didn’t exist to me until I researched into it by dating her. I have never been to Cambodia , you can say Cambodia came to me in the USA. The thing is I think she is playing me now with other guys , she goes missing a lotផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 9:11 amThere are scales of mattering. He could just be interested or at the other end of scale he could be horrified.Starving Pelican wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 8:18 amផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 7:54 amIf she used to work in a bar would you dump her?
Does it matter so much to you what you imagine that she maybe used to do?
Obviously it does matter to him, otherwise he wouldn't have started a thread about it.
I just wondered what would the implications be if he found out that what he suspects is true.
If you’re at the stage of getting her to remove FB friends or even questioning who they are I think it’s time you moved on.
Just be single. It’s great. (Which is probably what she tells everyone anyway)
Just be single. It’s great. (Which is probably what she tells everyone anyway)
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You are missing the point. She may never have worked in a bar, but her behaviour is screaming she’s a scammer for your (and others’) heart and money.cooldude123 wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 7:25 pmThere’s some small lies she has told … the gifts from me which were not. Also she goes missing a lot, we video call every day/ night and there was some times when she goes missing for hours or even the whole night. I don’t want to admit it, but I think she is running rings around me. There was some guy I found on her social which I asked about but then she remove him as a friend right after I asked who the guy was. I know I sound crazy/paranoid but some things are just not adding upDylan Quint wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 8:08 amYou can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl. Well, not always the case but your girl could be just like that.
Some of these girls can run rings around naive western lads, (not saying that's you) and can have a few guys on the go at any given time. I guess it depends how you roll, volunteering to be a girl's pet poodle or a high baller like gavinmac, who's been making Cambodian girls cry since ..um...forever!
Matters a lot to me, this world didn’t exist to me until I researched into it by dating her. I have never been to Cambodia , you can say Cambodia came to me in the USA. The thing is I think she is playing me now with other guys , she goes missing a lotផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 9:11 amThere are scales of mattering. He could just be interested or at the other end of scale he could be horrified.Starving Pelican wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 8:18 amផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 7:54 amIf she used to work in a bar would you dump her?
Does it matter so much to you what you imagine that she maybe used to do?
Obviously it does matter to him, otherwise he wouldn't have started a thread about it.
I just wondered what would the implications be if he found out that what he suspects is true.
You are struggling to accept that and now seem to need to identify if she has been a bargirl before you decide to break ties.
Break them. She’s clearly not what you want - because of her behaviour, not because of a job/ way of life she may have had in the past. You know it but, as is human nature, you still aren’t really seeing what’s right in front of your eyes - if you were, you wouldn’t have needed this thread.
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She was clearly a keeper, but now he's gone done fuct it up by getting suspicious.
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Romantic Cambodia is dead and gone. It's with McKinley in the grave.
Show your commitment through marriage. People make mistakes in their past, don’t hold it against them forever. She is past that life now and wants to settle down with her one true love.
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