Newbie , dating a Cambodian girl in the USA but signs pointing she was a bar girl
Whatever you do, don't let her anywhere near a casino.
The slot machine manager will pimp her ass.
The slot machine manager will pimp her ass.
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are you just dating her or??cooldude123 wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 7:25 pmThere’s some small lies she has told … the gifts from me which were not. Also she goes missing a lot, we video call every day/ night and there was some times when she goes missing for hours or even the whole night. I don’t want to admit it, but I think she is running rings around me. There was some guy I found on her social which I asked about but then she remove him as a friend right after I asked who the guy was. I know I sound crazy/paranoid but some things are just not adding upDylan Quint wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 8:08 amYou can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl. Well, not always the case but your girl could be just like that.
Some of these girls can run rings around naive western lads, (not saying that's you) and can have a few guys on the go at any given time. I guess it depends how you roll, volunteering to be a girl's pet poodle or a high baller like gavinmac, who's been making Cambodian girls cry since ..um...forever!
Matters a lot to me, this world didn’t exist to me until I researched into it by dating her. I have never been to Cambodia , you can say Cambodia came to me in the USA. The thing is I think she is playing me now with other guys , she goes missing a lotផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 9:11 amThere are scales of mattering. He could just be interested or at the other end of scale he could be horrified.Starving Pelican wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 8:18 amផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 7:54 amIf she used to work in a bar would you dump her?
Does it matter so much to you what you imagine that she maybe used to do?
Obviously it does matter to him, otherwise he wouldn't have started a thread about it.
I just wondered what would the implications be if he found out that what he suspects is true.
why cant she run around, have u asked her to marry ya yet?
than it matters
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Yep I see it and it’s clearly not what I want. I broke it off, way too many red flags. May or may not have worked in a bar but like you said there are some signals that tell me something is amissviolet wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 10:45 pmYou are missing the point. She may never have worked in a bar, but her behaviour is screaming she’s a scammer for your (and others’) heart and money.cooldude123 wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 7:25 pmThere’s some small lies she has told … the gifts from me which were not. Also she goes missing a lot, we video call every day/ night and there was some times when she goes missing for hours or even the whole night. I don’t want to admit it, but I think she is running rings around me. There was some guy I found on her social which I asked about but then she remove him as a friend right after I asked who the guy was. I know I sound crazy/paranoid but some things are just not adding upDylan Quint wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 8:08 amYou can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl. Well, not always the case but your girl could be just like that.
Some of these girls can run rings around naive western lads, (not saying that's you) and can have a few guys on the go at any given time. I guess it depends how you roll, volunteering to be a girl's pet poodle or a high baller like gavinmac, who's been making Cambodian girls cry since ..um...forever!
Matters a lot to me, this world didn’t exist to me until I researched into it by dating her. I have never been to Cambodia , you can say Cambodia came to me in the USA. The thing is I think she is playing me now with other guys , she goes missing a lotផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 9:11 amThere are scales of mattering. He could just be interested or at the other end of scale he could be horrified.Starving Pelican wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 8:18 amផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 7:54 amIf she used to work in a bar would you dump her?
Does it matter so much to you what you imagine that she maybe used to do?
Obviously it does matter to him, otherwise he wouldn't have started a thread about it.
I just wondered what would the implications be if he found out that what he suspects is true.
You are struggling to accept that and now seem to need to identify if she has been a bargirl before you decide to break ties.
Break them. She’s clearly not what you want - because of her behaviour, not because of a job/ way of life she may have had in the past. You know it but, as is human nature, you still aren’t really seeing what’s right in front of your eyes - if you were, you wouldn’t have needed this thread.
There’s some small lies she has told … the gifts from me which were not. Also she goes missing a lot, we video call every day/ night and there was some times when she goes missing for hours or even the whole night. I don’t want to admit it, but I think she is running rings around me. There was some guy I found on her social which I asked about but then she remove him as a friend right after I asked who the guy was. I know I sound crazy/paranoid but some things are just not adding upPhuket2006 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:32 am[quote=cooldude123 post_id=<a href="tel:1051450">1051450</a> time=<a href="tel:1663763113">1663763113</a> user_id=55355]
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You can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl. Well, not always the case but your girl could be just like that.
Some of these girls can run rings around naive western lads, (not saying that's you) and can have a few guys on the go at any given time. I guess it depends how you roll, volunteering to be a girl's pet poodle or a high baller like gavinmac, who's been making Cambodian girls cry since ..um...forever!
[quote=ផោមក្លិនស្អុយ post_id=<a href="tel:1051434">1051434</a> time=<a href="tel:1663726281">1663726281</a> user_id=42429]
[quote="Starving Pelican" post_id=<a href="tel:1051433">1051433</a> time=<a href="tel:1663723129">1663723129</a> user_id=1609]
[quote=ផោមក្លិនស្អុយ post_id=<a href="tel:1051430">1051430</a> time=<a href="tel:1663721697">1663721697</a> user_id=42429]
If she used to work in a bar would you dump her?
Does it matter so much to you what you imagine that she maybe used to do?
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Obviously it does matter to him, otherwise he wouldn't have started a thread about it.
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There are scales of mattering. He could just be interested or at the other end of scale he could be horrified.
I just wondered what would the implications be if he found out that what he suspects is true.
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Matters a lot to me, this world didn’t exist to me until I researched into it by dating her. I have never been to Cambodia , you can say Cambodia came to me in the USA. The thing is I think she is playing me now with other guys , she goes missing a lot
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are you just dating her or??
why cant she run around, have u asked her to marry ya yet?
than it matters
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Funny but she asked me to marry her the first mont into dating… well she suggested it as we are both mid aged
don’t think so, she’s missing a lot
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Yep I see it and it’s clearly not what I want. I broke it off, way too many red flags. May or may not have worked in a bar but like you said there are some signals that tell me something is amiss
Aww sorry it wasn’t what you wanted. I hope you find someone that brings out the best in both of you
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My ex-Khmer gf has recently overdosed on social media.
She’s currently being Tweeted at Calmette.
She’s currently being Tweeted at Calmette.
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How long ago did her older sis marry the Yank?cooldude123 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 20, 2022 7:43 pm
Her older sis married a yank awhile ago and immigrated her. Yes they speak English, shes in her mid 30s , but very good looking still (can pass off as a 25 year old easily)
Because with current wait times, petitioning to bring a sibling over the USA takes about 15 years.
https://www.immigrationhelp.org/learnin ... sing-times
I think that may be 15 years after the initial family member gets citizenship, which can take about five years itself.
I've only glanced over these posts, but the most likely explanation for a young Cambodian woman being in the USA with an American last name is that she married an American dude. Or got engaged and arrived and never married the guy.
It's also possible they married but never completed the process of "adjusting status" for a green card which would make her out of status, i.e. in the US illegally.
Ask to see her passport under the guise of planning a trip to Cancun and see if the visa in it is really an F4 sibling visa or is it a K-1 fiancee visa or an CR-1 spouse visa. You can also check if the dates line up with when she says she arrived.
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A point I was trying to make above, in case it isn't clear, is that if older sister arrived in the USA after 2010 or so, and younger sister claims that older sister petitioned her for a green card and that's how she entered the USA, then younger sister is full of shit.
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Funny ... she said she doesn't have a passport , and said she can't fly because she didnt have a real ID. Everything is making sense, she is prob marrried to someone elsegavinmac wrote: ↑Fri Sep 23, 2022 10:40 pmHow long ago did her older sis marry the Yank?cooldude123 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 20, 2022 7:43 pm
Her older sis married a yank awhile ago and immigrated her. Yes they speak English, shes in her mid 30s , but very good looking still (can pass off as a 25 year old easily)
Because with current wait times, petitioning to bring a sibling over the USA takes about 15 years.
https://www.immigrationhelp.org/learnin ... sing-times
I think that may be 15 years after the initial family member gets citizenship, which can take about five years itself.
I've only glanced over these posts, but the most likely explanation for a young Cambodian woman being in the USA with an American last name is that she married an American dude. Or got engaged and arrived and never married the guy.
It's also possible they married but never completed the process of "adjusting status" for a green card which would make her out of status, i.e. in the US illegally.
Ask to see her passport under the guise of planning a trip to Cancun and see if the visa in it is really an F4 sibling visa or is it a K-1 fiancee visa or an CR-1 spouse visa. You can also check if the dates line up with when she says she arrived.
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cooldude123 wrote: ↑Sun Sep 25, 2022 1:17 am
Funny ... she said she doesn't have a passport , and said she can't fly because she didnt have a real ID. Everything is making sense, she is prob marrried to someone else
How did you meet the lass?
Have you read my articles 7 reasons why you should and shouldn't friend Cambodian women on Facebook?
https://www.khmer440.com/k/2012/10/7-re ... -facebook/
https://www.khmer440.com/k/2013/03/7-re ... -facebook/
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classicgavinmac wrote: ↑Sun Sep 25, 2022 10:04 amcooldude123 wrote: ↑Sun Sep 25, 2022 1:17 am
Funny ... she said she doesn't have a passport , and said she can't fly because she didnt have a real ID. Everything is making sense, she is prob marrried to someone else
How did you meet the lass?
Have you read my articles 7 reasons why you should and shouldn't friend Cambodian women on Facebook?
https://www.khmer440.com/k/2012/10/7-re ... -facebook/
https://www.khmer440.com/k/2013/03/7-re ... -facebook/
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gavinmac wrote: ↑Sun Sep 25, 2022 10:04 amcooldude123 wrote: ↑Sun Sep 25, 2022 1:17 am
Funny ... she said she doesn't have a passport , and said she can't fly because she didnt have a real ID. Everything is making sense, she is prob marrried to someone else
How did you meet the lass?
Have you read my articles 7 reasons why you should and shouldn't friend Cambodian women on Facebook?
https://www.khmer440.com/k/2012/10/7-re ... -facebook/
https://www.khmer440.com/k/2013/03/7-re ... -facebook/
Wish I read your stuff before I ever became involved lol. Funny but I met her on Facebook
This one put the nail in the coffin
Any photos of the girl traveling to any place other than Phnom Penh or her home village should be viewed with immediate suspicion. Travel is an expensive luxury for most Cambodians. Young Cambodian women generally can’t afford to go anywhere unless they are being supported by a white dude. So even if there’s no white dude in that photo of a Cambodian woman standing in front of the Petronas Towers, it just means that her white boyfriend took the photo.
Tons of photos of her in Japan / Singapore
And ya .. who the hell is taking the photo
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cooldude123 wrote: ↑Sun Sep 25, 2022 5:54 pm
Tons of photos of her in Japan / Singapore
And ya .. who the hell is taking the photo
It's unusual for them to go to Japan as those visas aren't so easy to get. That suggests she might have had a Japanese boyfriend.
Keep in mind that "bargirl" in Cambodia doesn't mean she was shagging dozens of guys for money every month.
Even if she was a bargirl, she may have only been shagging a couple of guys a month in exchange for gifts, dinners, cash, etc.
Or she may have just been a professional lady drink guzzler/flirt/boyfriend hunter who didn't shag any guys for money at all.
If you want to PM me her Facebook handle I'll tell you if I recognize her as a bargirl and from what kind of bar.
I'll keep it in confidence, sharing it only with my friend jm if necessary, as he also has an encyclopedic knowledge of 30ish year old Cambodian bargirls.
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Sent you a PM Gavingavinmac wrote: ↑Mon Sep 26, 2022 2:17 amcooldude123 wrote: ↑Sun Sep 25, 2022 5:54 pm
Tons of photos of her in Japan / Singapore
And ya .. who the hell is taking the photo
It's unusual for them to go to Japan as those visas aren't so easy to get. That suggests she might have had a Japanese boyfriend.
Keep in mind that "bargirl" in Cambodia doesn't mean she was shagging dozens of guys for money every month.
Even if she was a bargirl, she may have only been shagging a couple of guys a month in exchange for gifts, dinners, cash, etc.
Or she may have just been a professional lady drink guzzler/flirt/boyfriend hunter who didn't shag any guys for money at all.
If you want to PM me her Facebook handle I'll tell you if I recognize her as a bargirl and from what kind of bar.
I'll keep it in confidence, sharing it only with my friend jm if necessary, as he also has an encyclopedic knowledge of 30ish year old Cambodian bargirls.
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