1 Year Traveling In Cambodia — It’s Been The Best Time Of My Life
1 Year Traveling In Cambodia — It’s Been The Best Time Of My Life
The stunning Bong Thom Forest in Siem Reap Province, Cambodia. Photo by Rob Hourmont
2nd June 2023
Rob Hourmont
Here’s my account of my first year traveling in and experiencing Cambodia and its people.
I arrived in Cambodia’s capital, Phnom Penh, in late December 2021. I had no idea what to expect — my expectations were low after spending 3 disappointing years in Bali.
I came to Cambodia at the time as it was the only country in Southeast Asia that opened its borders for international travel while the pandemic was still ongoing.
The government had the foresight to make it easy for international travelers to enter, unlike its neighboring countries, which still upheld quarantines or complicated and expensive procedures.
I’m in the 12th month of my first year in Cambodia, and I have no plans other than staying.
It’s the best country I’ve visited and lived in — I’ve lived in 7 countries on 3 continents over the past 4 decades. I’ve also traveled to many other countries for business or pleasure.
I think that qualifies me as a seasoned international traveler and an experienced expat.
My Cambodia Uncovered story so far
I’m not close to finishing exploring Cambodia — I’ve only scratched the surface to better understand the country and its people.
That’s the main element of establishing a successful and happy life in any country — grasping its culture, practices, traditions, how things tick, and how to interact with people.
You can only function well as an ex-pat in any country if you understand and practice those basics.
Unfortunately, many ex-pats worldwide don’t bother — instead, they remain in their bubbles with each other and don’t care about the country they’re living in or how its people see them.
And that’s why expats are often unpopular, particularly in SE Asia.
Stage 1. Phnom Penh
I knew nothing about the city, where to go, and what to do. So I just threw myself right into the heat of the action.
From what I’d read, it was supposed to be a dirty, overcrowded, disorganized, and somewhat dangerous city.
Of course, like all cities in SE Asia and most of the world, it does suffer from trash issues in some areas, but it’s not at all bad.
Positives:
The central residential areas are clean
Traffic is never that bad
Fantastic international and local restaurants at affordable prices
Great nightlife with live music or DJs
Easy to get around by Tuk-Tuk, taxi, or motorbike
Quality supermarkets, lots of organic meat and vegetable suppliers
Easy-going, friendly ex-pats and locals
International Airport
Negatives:
Not enough green space or parks for walking and relaxing
In Summary
Phnom Penh is a hustling and bustling, easy-to-live in fast-paced city.
There’s a good mix of ex-pats, and the Khmer people are extraordinarily helpful, polite, and friendly.
It’s one of the coolest cities I’ve lived in.
Stage 2. Kampot
After spending 8 months in Phnom Penh, I started longing the country life and wanted to explore nature. So, I packed my bags and moved south to the popular, eclectic little town of Kampot.
Kampot’s is so compact it’s more like a big village than a town. Nestled along a small river, it’s a quiet place. Only a few tourists were to be seen when I was there.
It’s an easy-going, super low-key place where you can get on with life and not care about anything else in the world.
There’s plenty of exploring around Kampot — Mount Bakor offers excellent walking trails and views. There are several waterfalls, cages, and creeks to visit nearby.
Kep, a quaint little fishing village famous for its crab market, is only a 30-minute drive away and definitely worth a day or two’s stay.
Positives:
Peaceful and laid back
Nice nature day trips
Kep Beach is close by
Friendly ex-pats and very pleasant locals
Sporting activities
Negatives:
Not much going
It can get a little boring
Everybody knows everybody and their business
In Summary
Kampot is a lovely place to visit for a few days to explore nature and culture.
There are a few top-rate hotels and resorts to spend a wonderful vacation, and plenty of affordable guest houses if you’re on a budget.
Kampot is an excellent place to retire if you want to live in nature and have peace and quiet.
Stage 3. Siem Reap
I knew the famous Cambodian temples are located in Siem Reap Province, and I’d heard they’re quite spectacular.
But, Siem Reap wasn’t on my radar. I went to Kampot instead, seeking nature.
What a mistake that was! Siem Reap caught me off guard and blew my mind.
More on that in a moment — first, the backstory as to why I went there in the first place.
I must thank Facebook for this coincidence. I don’t know how, but over the prior few weeks, I became a Facebook friend of a woman living in Siem Reap.
I’d see her FB work posts every other day while I was sitting alone and bored in Kampot.
She was an interesting person — I don’t usually look for people on Facebook, but this time I did.
I went for the long shot, and it paid off. Photo by Rathana Thong
One day I said to myself:
“Rob, you are here in Kampot, bored out of your skull. She’s up north in Siem Reap. Go there, try to meet her, and explore Siem Reap. You’ve got nothing to lose, whether she meets you or not.”
The next day I was on the bus to Siem Reap.
I went in the far-fetched hope of meeting a girl and for something special to happen.
A very long shot, but I took it anyway.
Long story short: We met. We met again and again and eventually developed a wonderful relationship.
Back to Siem Reap.
When I drove into town with the Tuk-Tuk, I was amazed at what I saw — a beautiful, well-groomed colonial city center with a lovely, tree-lined river gently flowing through it.
I didn’t expect it to be so pretty.
And not just that — the people were much happier, open, and friendlier than anywhere else I’d been.
My first walk through town, exploring its streets, markets, bars, cafes, and restaurants, told me this was the place for me to be.
After only 3 days, I decided to settle down and make Siem Reap my new home.
Positives:
A compact, busy yet stress-free, and peaceful small city
Happy, friendly locals and ex-pats
Vast choice of excellent international and local food
Gorgeous resorts with beautiful pools to work from and relax
Angkor, with its temples and grounds, is magnificent and mind-boggling
Lovely hiking in Kulen Mountain
Elephant Forest
Beautiful waterfalls
Sports: Golf, Wakeboarding, Tennis, Badminton, Archery, and more
A massive lake with a floating village
International airport
Lots of day and nighttime activities
In Summary
Siem Reap beats any city I’ve lived in throughout the world hands down.
It’s a beautiful place to visit for a short or extended vacation and the perfect spot for ex-pats of any age group to live, work or retire.
Final Thoughts
Next on my exploring calendar:
Sihanoukville, the Islands, Mondulkiri Province, the Mountains, and the Elephant Sanctuaries.
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Yes, after 18 years living here I have finally figured out why I am so unpopular, and it's all because of my lack of appreciation for forests.And that’s why expats are often unpopular, particularly in SE Asia.
The stunning Bong Thom Forest in Siem Reap Province, Cambodia. Photo by Rob Hourmont
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Romantic Cambodia is dead and gone. It's with McKinley in the grave.
Goddamn tree huggers.
(Or Middle-Aged Man Brags About FInding A Cambodian Woman On Facebook)
Haven't been to Siem Reap for a long time, so maybe it's changed RE: the excessive number of beggars, the tourist hoardes and hustlers, and the paedo types.
The weather must still be terrible- one of the hottest, dustiest most uncomfortable environments going in these parts.
Haven't been to Siem Reap for a long time, so maybe it's changed RE: the excessive number of beggars, the tourist hoardes and hustlers, and the paedo types.
The weather must still be terrible- one of the hottest, dustiest most uncomfortable environments going in these parts.
Massive stalker
pedros, you should visit again, siem reap is the place to be, after 19 years here, it just gets better,
So basically he found a Khmer hotty and the rest is gravy?
THE END!!!
THE END!!!
Show some respect, her name is Thong.
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Rob Hourmont was a member of the British Olympic team at the 1988 winter Olympics in Calgary. He went downhill while Eddie the Eagle jumped.
He and his beloved ( a Khmer language tutor for expats)
announced their relationship to the world 17 days ago on FB.
Eddie is available to give motivational speeches fro 3000 pounds a shot and Robert gave us all one for free.
True love is just a click away on FB.
I feel all warm and fuzzy now
He and his beloved ( a Khmer language tutor for expats)
announced their relationship to the world 17 days ago on FB.
Eddie is available to give motivational speeches fro 3000 pounds a shot and Robert gave us all one for free.
True love is just a click away on FB.
I feel all warm and fuzzy now
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