What would you do if your Khmer gf asked for 1000 a month for an allowance?
We had a similar discussion a while back: How much do Khmer mistresses make?
I think the general consensus was:
- Rich Cambodian man: Provide mistress with a villa, car, and around $4,000 in allowance. Woman will certainly be "kept".
- Korean man: $1,000-$2,000 a month, maybe plus apartment; if living abroad, girl might have two of these guys
- Barang man: $300-$500 is common - and most certainly will have several of these
That sound about right?
I think the general consensus was:
- Rich Cambodian man: Provide mistress with a villa, car, and around $4,000 in allowance. Woman will certainly be "kept".
- Korean man: $1,000-$2,000 a month, maybe plus apartment; if living abroad, girl might have two of these guys
- Barang man: $300-$500 is common - and most certainly will have several of these
That sound about right?
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If you buy them things, or pay all their bills for them +++ you are doing the same thing, just by another name. I have given "Allowances" to 6 different women I have lived with in Asia, and none of them had a problem, or felt demeaned by it. I just started a bank account for them, if they didn't already have on, and deposited a little money the same time every month and they could do whatever they wanted to with it. Did I call it an "Allowance" to them? No!. Most of them gave most of it to their family, and spent the rest on whatever they wanted for themselves. It was never a lot of money but it kept the smiles on their face, at least for a year or two. Eventually most decided they could find a man with more money than me and leave for greener grass, then a couple of weeks or so later came back looking to move back in. By then the place was already taken...over the rainbow wrote:Kids get allowances, adults work for their moneyJohnsell50 wrote:An allowance is not a bad idea but $1000 a month is a bit steep. I have always believed that giving one a bit of money to call her own was worth every penny, and definitely cheaper than having a G/F stateside. An allowance should be what you are comfortable giving, not what she wants to dictate, and never what will put a pinch in your wallet. What I go by is what they could earn at a real job. From what I understand most basic jobs there pay $200 or so a month, plus you are giving her food, shelter... It's all up to you. And I agree, if she demands it, you need a newer cheaper model.
why would anyone give a healthy girl over 20 an allowance? tell her to get a job
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If she just asks for one grand a month it must be true love.Putin4ever2 wrote:Do you think 1000ISD is a reasonable amount for an allowance in Cambodia? My girlfriend tells me that all Cambodian guys give their girlfriends allowances. She is 27 years old.
Of course you do not understand the concept. Belgians simply keep their sex objects locked away in secret basements for decades......logos wrote:I don't understand your business model. $1000 is what she gives me.
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So that’s why you need to take out $4k a day from an ATM!LaudJohn wrote:What would I do?
Laugh.
I do know of girls getting that and more each month., but they have "good" boyfriends.
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FTFYLaudJohn wrote:What would I do?
Laugh.
I do know of girls getting that and more each month., but they have "several good" boyfriends.
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I think I'll just stick with the girls that think more than they make at a regular job is a good thing, and keep them away from where the high $ girls hang out. I really don't mind if a girl wants to work, as long as it is not as a hostess/bar girl/independent/massage. And if they get flighty and want to leave, there are plenty more willing to take their place. And when it gets to the point where I can't afford a live in here, down the road I go to the next country. Life is too much fun to stress myself out.
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1000ISD. Is that Islamic State Dollars? (sorry, couldn't resist) I guess the rate is quite favorable these days.Putin4ever2 wrote:Do you think 1000ISD is a reasonable amount for an allowance in Cambodia? My girlfriend tells me that all Cambodian guys give their girlfriends allowances. She is 27 years old.
If the I was just a spelling mistake then 1000USD is like 31k THB. Or 1000THB per day. For this money you can, if you look reasonably nice and can behave in a coherent manner, find nighttime company in Pattaya quite easily.
If she looks great and does what you want in bed then ok, as long as you see it as a luxury item you treat yourself with. Problem is usually that it doesn't stop at an allowance, they tend to up the requirements with shopping sprees and vet bills for sick buffaloes.
If this is a kept woman then be very wary of her next attempt to up the limit. Draw a hard line.
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LOL:Johnsell50 wrote:I think I'll just stick with the girls that think more than they make at a regular job is a good thing, and keep them away from where the high $ girls hang out. I really don't mind if a girl wants to work, as long as it is not as a hostess/bar girl/independent/massage. And if they get flighty and want to leave, there are plenty more willing to take their place. And when it gets to the point where I can't afford a live in here, down the road I go to the next country. Life is too much fun to stress myself out.
if u cant afford to live in Cambodia,that ends ur staying in SE Asia
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Cambodia has actually gone from one of the cheapest destinations to one of the most expensive in south east asia.over the rainbow wrote:LOL:Johnsell50 wrote:I think I'll just stick with the girls that think more than they make at a regular job is a good thing, and keep them away from where the high $ girls hang out. I really don't mind if a girl wants to work, as long as it is not as a hostess/bar girl/independent/massage. And if they get flighty and want to leave, there are plenty more willing to take their place. And when it gets to the point where I can't afford a live in here, down the road I go to the next country. Life is too much fun to stress myself out.
if u cant afford to live in Cambodia,that ends ur staying in SE Asia
That argument (which country is the cheapest) has been going on for years.Tuktukpizza wrote: Cambodia has actually gone from one of the cheapest destinations to one of the most expensive in south east asia.
SIhanoukville messes all the figures up.
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LOL:
if u cant afford to live in Cambodia,that ends ur staying in SE Asia[/quote]
No problem affording there, or the Philippines, or most of Asia, but sometimes things change and Murphy's law applies very well to me. It may not boil down to economics, but China's plan for Asia. I can live easily in Thai, or VN, but I don't like their Visa's. So this time it will be Cambodia for me. If worst ever does come to worst, there is always eastern EU, or south and central America, or Africa, but I prefer Asian woman.
if u cant afford to live in Cambodia,that ends ur staying in SE Asia[/quote]
No problem affording there, or the Philippines, or most of Asia, but sometimes things change and Murphy's law applies very well to me. It may not boil down to economics, but China's plan for Asia. I can live easily in Thai, or VN, but I don't like their Visa's. So this time it will be Cambodia for me. If worst ever does come to worst, there is always eastern EU, or south and central America, or Africa, but I prefer Asian woman.
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