That's brilliant.keeping_it_riel wrote:Big difference. The guys doing the nods, winks and double takes at your missus haven't actually boned her. I could deal with that. I woudn't be able to deal with the fact that they had actually boned her.
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Inferiority complex? Were they bigger? better?keeping_it_riel wrote:Big difference. The guys doing the nods, winks and double takes at your missus haven't actually boned her. I could deal with that. I woudn't be able to deal with the fact that they had actually boned her.
Just relax and be happy, maybe you weren't the first, but hopefully you'll be the last
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Exactly, I don't get people who make statements like that. Everyone has a past and unless your GF or wife was a virgin when you met her it means someone has been there before.casper_uk wrote:Inferiority complex? Were they bigger? better?keeping_it_riel wrote:Big difference. The guys doing the nods, winks and double takes at your missus haven't actually boned her. I could deal with that. I woudn't be able to deal with the fact that they had actually boned her.
Just relax and be happy, maybe you weren't the first, but hopefully you'll be the last
Now, if we take the hooker element out of this and you met you wife/GF 5/10 years after she became sexually active there's a good chance that you bump into someone from her past sooner or later.
What's the big deal?
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I think the age-old adage applies: you wouldn't date a hooker back home, so why would you date one in Asia?
Anyone pretending that even 1% of these girls are wife material is kidding themselves. Yes, we usually only here bad stories, that's because most of these relationships end badly.
Anyone pretending that even 1% of these girls are wife material is kidding themselves. Yes, we usually only here bad stories, that's because most of these relationships end badly.
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So you're comparing "hookers" here, with "hookers" back home? ..... Really?
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I googled "Aussie Hooker"casper_uk wrote:So you're comparing "hookers" here, with "hookers" back home? ..... Really?
and then I googled "khmer Hooker"
I can see the comparison
LoL, I'm with KiR on this one. Those 2 scenarios are completely different.flashinthepan wrote:Exactly, I don't get people who make statements like that. Everyone has a past and unless your GF or wife was a virgin when you met her it means someone has been there before.casper_uk wrote:Inferiority complex? Were they bigger? better?keeping_it_riel wrote:Big difference. The guys doing the nods, winks and double takes at your missus haven't actually boned her. I could deal with that. I woudn't be able to deal with the fact that they had actually boned her.
Just relax and be happy, maybe you weren't the first, but hopefully you'll be the last
Now, if we take the hooker element out of this and you met you wife/GF 5/10 years after she became sexually active there's a good chance that you bump into someone from her past sooner or later.
What's the big deal?
I don't mind if I think people are looking at my girlfriend (I'm single now, for the record; you're shocked, I know) because I'm white and she's Asian, and they think she might be a prostitute because of that. That's the price we might have to pay to have a relationship. I also wouldn't mind randomly running into dudes she dated before, or whatever...BUT dating an ex-prostitute in Phnom Penh would be rough. I mean, walking into a club/bar and realizing your "girlfriend" had banged 5+ or so dudes in there, much less paid for it, wouldn't be fun.
It's one thing for her to have a little history, and it's another four her to have hundreds, if not thousands of dudes in her very own history book.
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You're all focusing on the reactions of whiteys. Another factor is that Khmers will instantly know she's an ex-hooker. You'll have trouble trying to make it within respectable Khmer society with her baggage (and by respectable I don't mean rich; the shopkeeper, your motodop's wife and so on will distance themselves.
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andyinasia wrote:You're all focusing on the reactions of whiteys. Another factor is that Khmers will instantly know she's an ex-hooker. You'll have trouble trying to make it within respectable Khmer society with her baggage (and by respectable I don't mean rich; the shopkeeper, your motodop's wife and so on will distance themselves.
I think in that situation you'd want to move her to your home country for a fresh start.
Can Khmers really tell an ex-hooker? I mean, can they distinguish between a poor chick who works in a semi-respectable Western bar and doesn't bang foreigners, and a chick who works in a St. 104 hostess bar and has sex with dudes for money? Or are the girls forever tarnished as soon as they work for a day at Metro or something like that?
Or what about a girl who is never a hooker, she marries a Western guy, she becomes Westernized, they divorce, and then she hangs out with her friends at Pontoon dressing in a Western way? Can they tell she wasn't a hooker or would she just be lumped in with the hookers?
I'm not sure that all Khmers have the hooker radar (Whoredar?) that some people claim. I'm sure to many of them, Khmer woman with foreign guy=hooker. I'm not sure they really can tell the difference between the ex-hookers who marry foreigners and the ex-good girls who marry foreigners.
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I think it also depends on how long she's been doing that 'job'.
A bar girl who's fresh from the farm and in a desperate situation looking for some cash might still be suitable wife material, but a hardened prostitute who's been at it for let's say 10 years is, most likely, broken beyond repair.
A bar girl who's fresh from the farm and in a desperate situation looking for some cash might still be suitable wife material, but a hardened prostitute who's been at it for let's say 10 years is, most likely, broken beyond repair.
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You are probably right about that in most cases.Alex wrote:I think it also depends on how long she's been doing that 'job'.
A bar girl who's fresh from the farm and in a desperate situation looking for some cash might still be suitable wife material, but a hardened prostitute who's been at it for let's say 10 years is, most likely, broken beyond repair.
And that's without factoring in the Ice/Yama habbits that a lot of these women have. And possibly years of abuse from their boyfriends/pimps/fathers...etc.
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