I'm dating a Cambodian Woman in LYON - GoldDigger or no ?
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I'm dating a Cambodian Woman in LYON - GoldDigger or no ?
Hello everyone,
I would like to know what do you think about my special love story :
I am French, living in Lyon. I am 30years old. I met a girl on a dating website in october 2017.
She is now 34 years old Cambodian woman. She live in France in Lyon since July 2014 and her VISA is now over.
She live in sister's home with her brother in law (soon 4years here).
In Cambodia she worked as a teacher (she tell me she earned like 300$ a month). And she lived in Kampot Province.
She has 3 brothers, and 1 daughter (where she is living actually). My girlfriend is the younger.
She tell me she was never marry before, and hence she had never had sex before. Since october she and I never have sex.
The only thing I do is touch her, and lick her... maybe 4 times, no more. In very private.
I can kiss her when we are alone, and she take my hand a lot of time when we walk outside. It is often me asking for kiss her.
She tells she is very shy. For example, she doesn't want show me to KHMER people before marry.
2 times it happened that KHMER people comes (she doesn't know before, because she tells me KHMER no take appointment) and she ask me to hide in bedroom.
At sister's home, she is busy with her nephew because he is 2years old. She cooks a lot and she clean a lot too.
When I'm at home, she doesn't want me to kiss her because she is shy and KHMER tradition not like this. (I can kiss, but a bit and when sister or bro-in-law are not near).
She cares me a lot, and prepare cooking very nicely. But this is hard to see she is such shy near people.
She told me when we marry I can do all with her (sex, kiss, hugs, walk a lot out, etc...).
Now we plan to marry in July (10 months we are dating at this moment) and this is fast for French people. Do you think KHMER girl marry fast ?
She wants a ring like 9000€ (I pay 5000€ and her sister 4000€). I think good if sister pay yes, but I think this is a lot for marry. All KHMER want ring like this ?
I paid 2000€ for ring (February), and her sister do in Cambodia. But now she needs 3000€ more for finish it (need one diamond 1carat).
I take my ring and her ring (not finish) and I ask jeweler the price in France. He told me, my ring is 700€ and her ring (not finish) 2500€ - 3000€.
So she doesn't lie. She tells me the truth. But maybe the price in Cambodia not the same ??? maybe a bit $ ??
The big problem I have with this story, is the fact that her sister angry a lot with me, because I ask ring and ask her I want see bill before pay more.
I ask sister I want take ring and ask jeweler the price. So her sister and I were "fighting". Bad words, and more.
So I decided to go back my home and leave her home but I stayed near the door, and I heard my girlfriend and sister scream and my girldfriend cry.
So I knocked at door, and warn off that I will call police because my girlfriend is like in jail. I ask my girlfriend to follow me but she doesn't want.
I stayed there a lot of time, arguing a lot, talking to sister and my girlfriend.
Then I go back to my car, but her sister call to me on phone, and she was very calm (first time since 3months..).
She told me I need believe her, and stop ask a lot like this. Her ring cost a lot, and I need respect her due to her age (me 30 and her 38).
She told me her sister isn't in jail, and I no need call police because she love her sister...
Next day I met her sister, and we walk out and talk a lot (1 hour). She told me the same. Her sister is not in jail. She screams a lot but she loves her a lot.
Because this is family.. Now I see my girlfriend very sad, and brother in law too. Her sister wants all people do like she wants.
When I talk to brother in law, He never tells me I'm wrong. Whatever I say her wife is bad, she loves money, etc.. etc.. Maybe he is like a ghost now accepting all too.
I precise my girlfriend doesn't ask me for money, but only a good ring. And she wants we save money a lot.
She tells me that KHMER people who come to wedding participate a lot, and she tells me we don't waste money on food.
Sorry, I write a lot.. Thank you for your "help".
Thanks for yours replies.
Guillaume.
I would like to know what do you think about my special love story :
I am French, living in Lyon. I am 30years old. I met a girl on a dating website in october 2017.
She is now 34 years old Cambodian woman. She live in France in Lyon since July 2014 and her VISA is now over.
She live in sister's home with her brother in law (soon 4years here).
In Cambodia she worked as a teacher (she tell me she earned like 300$ a month). And she lived in Kampot Province.
She has 3 brothers, and 1 daughter (where she is living actually). My girlfriend is the younger.
She tell me she was never marry before, and hence she had never had sex before. Since october she and I never have sex.
The only thing I do is touch her, and lick her... maybe 4 times, no more. In very private.
I can kiss her when we are alone, and she take my hand a lot of time when we walk outside. It is often me asking for kiss her.
She tells she is very shy. For example, she doesn't want show me to KHMER people before marry.
2 times it happened that KHMER people comes (she doesn't know before, because she tells me KHMER no take appointment) and she ask me to hide in bedroom.
At sister's home, she is busy with her nephew because he is 2years old. She cooks a lot and she clean a lot too.
When I'm at home, she doesn't want me to kiss her because she is shy and KHMER tradition not like this. (I can kiss, but a bit and when sister or bro-in-law are not near).
She cares me a lot, and prepare cooking very nicely. But this is hard to see she is such shy near people.
She told me when we marry I can do all with her (sex, kiss, hugs, walk a lot out, etc...).
Now we plan to marry in July (10 months we are dating at this moment) and this is fast for French people. Do you think KHMER girl marry fast ?
She wants a ring like 9000€ (I pay 5000€ and her sister 4000€). I think good if sister pay yes, but I think this is a lot for marry. All KHMER want ring like this ?
I paid 2000€ for ring (February), and her sister do in Cambodia. But now she needs 3000€ more for finish it (need one diamond 1carat).
I take my ring and her ring (not finish) and I ask jeweler the price in France. He told me, my ring is 700€ and her ring (not finish) 2500€ - 3000€.
So she doesn't lie. She tells me the truth. But maybe the price in Cambodia not the same ??? maybe a bit $ ??
The big problem I have with this story, is the fact that her sister angry a lot with me, because I ask ring and ask her I want see bill before pay more.
I ask sister I want take ring and ask jeweler the price. So her sister and I were "fighting". Bad words, and more.
So I decided to go back my home and leave her home but I stayed near the door, and I heard my girlfriend and sister scream and my girldfriend cry.
So I knocked at door, and warn off that I will call police because my girlfriend is like in jail. I ask my girlfriend to follow me but she doesn't want.
I stayed there a lot of time, arguing a lot, talking to sister and my girlfriend.
Then I go back to my car, but her sister call to me on phone, and she was very calm (first time since 3months..).
She told me I need believe her, and stop ask a lot like this. Her ring cost a lot, and I need respect her due to her age (me 30 and her 38).
She told me her sister isn't in jail, and I no need call police because she love her sister...
Next day I met her sister, and we walk out and talk a lot (1 hour). She told me the same. Her sister is not in jail. She screams a lot but she loves her a lot.
Because this is family.. Now I see my girlfriend very sad, and brother in law too. Her sister wants all people do like she wants.
When I talk to brother in law, He never tells me I'm wrong. Whatever I say her wife is bad, she loves money, etc.. etc.. Maybe he is like a ghost now accepting all too.
I precise my girlfriend doesn't ask me for money, but only a good ring. And she wants we save money a lot.
She tells me that KHMER people who come to wedding participate a lot, and she tells me we don't waste money on food.
Sorry, I write a lot.. Thank you for your "help".
Thanks for yours replies.
Guillaume.
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Why is the sister paying for half of the ring? That's not normal. You should have just bought her a 5,000 euro ring, instead of giving the sister cash to buy a better ring or to improve the 2,000 euro ring you bought her.
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Depending on how hot she is, the sex thing sounds pretty traditional - RUN!
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We had a thread six years ago on a related topic: How much to pay for a Cambodian girl's engagement ring?
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Maybe she's not a GD but her family is ?
I don't want to be pessimistic but are you sure she's not just looking for papers ? After getting Visa 10 years (or whatever) she might dump you ?
Do you have an easy time communicating with her and/or her siblings (sister in this case) ? It doesn't seem so. They should understand your worries and also be able to explain their decision about the ring, if they don't, then something's fishy, especially considering they're living in your country and so, should understand a bit (or more) of your culture.
Ma2cents.
Hope everything will go well for you.
I don't want to be pessimistic but are you sure she's not just looking for papers ? After getting Visa 10 years (or whatever) she might dump you ?
Do you have an easy time communicating with her and/or her siblings (sister in this case) ? It doesn't seem so. They should understand your worries and also be able to explain their decision about the ring, if they don't, then something's fishy, especially considering they're living in your country and so, should understand a bit (or more) of your culture.
Ma2cents.
Hope everything will go well for you.
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I'm dating a Cambodian woman. Gold digger?
Yes.
Yes.
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What do you mean by pretty traditional ? She lies to me about premarital sex ?crazyjohn wrote:Depending on how hot she is, the sex thing sounds pretty traditional - RUN!
So you don’t have sex because she’s shy and a virgin but you’re allowed to lick her.
And you’re worried about her ring?
How did she get into France originally? You might find she’s been sponsored by an equally clueless froggy.
Good luck.
And you’re worried about her ring?
How did she get into France originally? You might find she’s been sponsored by an equally clueless froggy.
Good luck.
pew, pew, pew, pew!
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She comes in France to help her sister. what do you mean by : You might find she’s been sponsored by an equally clueless froggy.
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I mean lick her sex... And If she is virgin and shy, I don't understand why she ok with this.
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He’s suggesting that perhaps a different Frenchman sponsored her, but I don’t see how that could be the case as she’s been there for three years.guillaume382 wrote:She comes in France to help her sister. what do you mean by : You might find she’s been sponsored by an equally clueless froggy.
Wait, who has the daughter?guillaume382 wrote: In Cambodia she worked as a teacher (she tell me she earned like 300$ a month). And she lived in Kampot Province.
She has 3 brothers, and 1 daughter (where she is living actually). My girlfriend is the younger.
She tell me she was never marry before, and hence she had never had sex before. Since october she and I never have sex.
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