Kampot Nightlife?
Kampot Nightlife?
Hi I’m a guy traveling solo throughout Southeast Asia, currently I find myself in Kampot, Cambodia.
I like it; nice town, but a bit quiet- well maybe not, I haven’t been here long.
I get bored in the evening, though. I don’t drink, so I don’t want to go to bars. Or listen to drunks! And, I’m not a ‘disco boy,’ so skip that scene.
What I’d really like is to meet a *local (not Western!) girl who’s interested/curious about Westerners. Have a *real* conversation about her life in Kampot, growing up in a Cambodian family, etc., and tell her all she wants to know about me and the West. That could (hopefully would) be interesting. Learn something! Maybe make a friend! To clarify, if necessary, I’m not looking for a relationship. Is this possible? Are Cambodian girls not allowed to go out at night? Daytime is OK with me anyway.
Is there anywhere in this town that could match up to what I’m looking for, or should I just be done with Kampot and shuffle off somewhere else?
Thanks for your time.
I like it; nice town, but a bit quiet- well maybe not, I haven’t been here long.
I get bored in the evening, though. I don’t drink, so I don’t want to go to bars. Or listen to drunks! And, I’m not a ‘disco boy,’ so skip that scene.
What I’d really like is to meet a *local (not Western!) girl who’s interested/curious about Westerners. Have a *real* conversation about her life in Kampot, growing up in a Cambodian family, etc., and tell her all she wants to know about me and the West. That could (hopefully would) be interesting. Learn something! Maybe make a friend! To clarify, if necessary, I’m not looking for a relationship. Is this possible? Are Cambodian girls not allowed to go out at night? Daytime is OK with me anyway.
Is there anywhere in this town that could match up to what I’m looking for, or should I just be done with Kampot and shuffle off somewhere else?
Thanks for your time.
So you're bored at night but you wouldn't mind finding a girl to speak to and "befriend" during the day? Very cool !
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So just to clarify.Savittre wrote: ↑Sat Jul 20, 2019 1:44 pmWhat I’d really like is to meet a *local (not Western!) girl who’s interested/curious about Westerners. Have a *real* conversation about her life in Kampot, growing up in a Cambodian family, etc., and tell her all she wants to know about me and the West. That could (hopefully would) be interesting. Learn something! Maybe make a friend! To clarify, if necessary, I’m not looking for a relationship. Is this possible? Are Cambodian girls not allowed to go out at night? Daytime is OK with me anyway.
Is there anywhere in this town that could match up to what I’m looking for, or should I just be done with Kampot and shuffle off somewhere else?
You want to have a deep and meaningful conversation about her life as a poor under nourished peasant in Kampot, and your privilaged life in Umerica or Europe to get her juices flowing....and then just shag the arse off of it for a month or two?
"I don't care what the people are thinking, i ain't drunk i'm just drinking"
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It really doesn’t work like that, she’ll start to tell you how her mother is sick, needs hospital and has no money. If she’s beautiful, and there are many beauties, you’ll get sucked into the void in no time at all. If you resist, good luck with the next one.
Yes. Unless you want to settle down, get married and have kids - and there's nothing wrong with that - then you are better off renting by the hour.
TheGrimReaper wrote: ↑Mon Sep 02, 2019 1:45 pmSlavedog, you do not belong on this forum as you talk too much sense.
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So you're saying that, when you meet a bar girl, you should either pay for play OR marry her and knock her up, but nothing in between?
No. I'm saying that if you are a "guy traveling solo throughout Southeast Asia", and find yourself in a small traditional rural Cambodian town, it is nicer to rent female company by the hour. It's the decent thing to do. You will be making a valuable contribution to the local economy. Most importantly you will not risk ruining an innocent girls reputation and future prospects.Lightning On Ice wrote: ↑Wed Jul 24, 2019 9:07 pmSo you're saying that, when you meet a bar girl, you should either pay for play OR marry her and knock her up, but nothing in between?
TheGrimReaper wrote: ↑Mon Sep 02, 2019 1:45 pmSlavedog, you do not belong on this forum as you talk too much sense.
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It's not exactly difficult to meet people here if you make some effort, the conversations you mention are very much everyday occurrences.Savittre wrote: ↑Sat Jul 20, 2019 1:44 pmWhat I’d really like is to meet a *local (not Western!) girl who’s interested/curious about Westerners. Have a *real* conversation about her life in Kampot, growing up in a Cambodian family, etc., and tell her all she wants to know about me and the West. That could (hopefully would) be interesting. Learn something! Maybe make a friend! To clarify, if necessary, I’m not looking for a relationship. Is this possible? Are Cambodian girls not allowed to go out at night? Daytime is OK with me anyway.
Romantic Cambodia is dead and gone. It's with McKinley in the grave.
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I may have misrepresented myself. I met a Cambodian girl before, just regular girl, married, she couldn’t stop asking me questions about myself (so curious!) not vice versa. I wasn’t particularly interested in her at the time, but she was quite friendly, she and hubby had me for dinner, and it would be nice to meet someone similar.Lucky Lucan wrote: ↑Wed Jul 24, 2019 9:52 pmIt's not exactly difficult to meet people here if you make some effort, the conversations you mention are very much everyday occurrences.
Whoever thought this post was about sex was mistaken.
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